So first off I'm in the UK if that makes any difference to anything? I am 18 and I havent done anything with a girl. People say i'm a 6/7 but I don't feel it. I have been telling myself that I would approach a girl since I was around 15. Since then I have only actually ever met up with a girl and that because we met on Snapchat.

When we met up she knew I was shy and she was like it's okay. After meeting I know this is weird but I felt like she was attracted to me, at the time she was like she was 'talking' to someone. But after we met she messaged me first, and she started putting kisses in the messages. We ended up arguing not long after, and shs got with her BF at the time. After a few months she broke up with him and I asked if she was ok etc... and I decided to ask her to meet again to see if I could get that attarction back, but we never ended up meeting. I told her I liked her and she went moody and said she only saw me as a friend and I made things too arkward now. Oh and she got a boyfriend a few days later. And know she barley replies.

But now I keep telling myself ill go up to a girl talk to her and get her number. But for one, the only close two places I can meet pretty girls is an hour away. I don't really have an excuse to visit there. I feel like ill be wasting my time if I go there just to approach girls because I always tell kyself im going to do it but I never do. Its like I can't overcome approach anxiety. How do I? I feel like the only way is by going out with someone and picking up together, but where do I find someone like this?