My Text Game fail

Sky-Project · 2017-08-14T13:06:35+00:00

I feel like she doesnt put much effort in the conversation and you are trying to keep the conversation. Rather say something interesting or leave the woman

Herethereallover · 2017-08-14T15:11:58+00:00

Bruh be confident, and don't show her that you are insecure and needy. She tried to have convo at first at least, but now yeah... Texting is tough sometimes. I know

Return_Of_BG_97 · 2017-08-14T18:21:53+00:00

Dude, you looked like a total beta. Not only that, but my god, these conversations were BORING.

I'm going to ignore the conventional wisdom of "don't use text game" for this purpose because I think your game can improve with good text game.

Your first problem was that you conveyed neediness. This is a big no-no. Ever wonder why that guy with the awkward crush always gets rejected? Because he conveys neediness. It happened to me before and its not fun. Assert yourself and show that you have balls and are independent. Hell, even go a day without texting her back. It conveys that you have a life that doesn't revolve around her.

Second, your conversations are SO BORING. You're not doing anything that conveys that you are an interesting guy. Many nice guys get shafted because have you ever been around one? They're boring as all hell. As bland as a bowl of unflavored oats. You come off as your typical "nice guy" here who has no idea how to escalate.

One thing that really helps is word association. Basically, you continue from one word and make your next response based on it. Feel free to include a wide variety of interests that you may share in common - isn't that what friends are for?

Once you implement this method you'll notice you'll be much better at conversations in general. If a conversation dies down, feel free to let there be an awkward pause, and feel free to say anything random; it might seem awkward but it's really not.

Emojis help in my text game personally since they help convey my tone and implication, and is useful for setting a frame. I like to implement RSD tactics to text game and it works wonders (RSD has sort of been a godsend). It also adds spice and interest to the conversation as well. It conveys emotion.

Sorry for my barrage of text, this entire conversation was so cringey and reminded me of my "nice guy" phase.

thepickup27 · 2017-08-14T21:51:28+00:00

I have one suggestion that might help. Charge your damn phone!...Just kidding. But seriously lessen the jokes and try hinting an activity in there that you guys can do. Text game is getting her to come out and go on a date with you while adding some attraction. Flirting gets old.

scuervo1 · 2017-08-14T15:29:24+00:00

I do not think there is a way to save this interaction. You came off as a lower value man by illustrating your insecurities and weaknesses. Maybe if she saw you with other women this girl could be attracted to you...

Title	My Text Game fail
Author	eadavid
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	August 14, 2017 12:17 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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