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Well, first off, I think you should cut out the drinking. It'll hamper your game. Three steps are: open, build comfort, close(number-close, or f-close). You got step 1 correct(the approach) now work on step 2(building comfort) and 3(closing).
/r/seduction03/12/17 05:08 PM
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One of my main rules is "if you've noticed she is losing interest, you've probably already lost her". Girls leave subtle hints that you have to pick up on early. Just move on to other girls and she might want you back(that's a very low chance).
/r/seduction03/12/17 04:56 PM
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I think there was nothing inherently wrong with what you did. Personally, I would have set a time and a date so she would know it was official. Even with setting a time and a date, she could have still flaked. It just seems like she just didn't want to go out at that time or she lost interest.
/r/seduction27/08/17 10:08 PM
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RSD all the way. Mystery is kind of fake it till you make it. RSD is more about improving your techniques, using your personality and meditation to attract girls.
/r/seduction25/08/17 08:03 PM
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Well, first off, you're stressed about sex. You have no experience at all, but you want your first time to be amazing. Your first time will probably won't be the best(as most people will tell you) so it's your choice. Lose it and don't worry about fucking it up to someone who doesn't care(prostitute). Or wait and just let it happen naturally with someone you are attracted to and is attracted to you. Virginity is not a big deal. My first time, a day after it happened, I totally forgot what it fel…
/r/seduction24/08/17 11:12 PM
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Hey, just so you know, instagram is a very complicated place. You will have to build a following, get good pictures, and then that's where you when you can start gaming. Otherwise, you're just a creepy guy behind a screen dm'ing a random girl. Personally I think tinder is a much better use of time if you don't do in real life approaches.
/r/seduction24/08/17 10:54 PM
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I agree direct is basically a hit or miss. I got a girls number at a bar by just asking if a seat was taken.
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:54 PM
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I do admit I was experienced in talking to girls(in high school I usually only hung out with girls) but having sex with them is a whole different ball game. Night is definitely high energy so if you don't like that then day game is better.But on the good side of things you don't have to wait a long time to find a girl at a bar.
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:51 PM
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I actually did the smart thing and indirectly approached 4 girls in 4 days. Got 3 of their numbers. I never really cold approach on streets because it's so darn hard to tell if they're 14 or 20 nowadays. I started from daygame and then went into night game. Night game is better if you wanna approach as many girls as possible. You blend in and all the guys are pretty much doing the same thing. Daygame is more relaxed and slow and can be more awkward. Usually, It took me 30 minutes to find an elig…
/r/seduction23/08/17 05:38 PM
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Are you going to an relatively expensive place? If so, then don't. She will think that you can afford it and then she won't bother to pay for the next date until you ask. I always start off at a inexpensive place, then if the date went well, the next date we go to a more expensive place in which we then split it. I'm broke ass college student though lol.
/r/seduction23/08/17 05:10 PM
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Sounds like a great plan honestly. Depression is a hard thing to recover from. Also Try approaching a bit(maybe one girl a day). you gotta make sure you are happy but from experience girls will probably not come based on that fact you are happy. Approach little by little while fixing your main problems. Maybe try going to shrink first and then see where that takes you.
/r/seduction23/08/17 02:11 PM
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This kind of transcends seduction in a way. It's about learning to be social with anybody.
/r/seduction23/08/17 12:49 AM
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I agree. Openers MOSTLY don't matter. Thats IF you're congruent when using the opener(show confidence, convey a smooth non-rapey vibe).
/r/seduction23/08/17 12:44 AM
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oh, gosh. You remind me of myself when I started pickup(canned openers and cheesy lines lol). I mean they can work but being more natural gets better responses because it makes girls feel at ease. Look up infields of real social dynamics. They will help you. But keep up the good work. You appear confident.
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:08 PM
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This is the classic "it's not you its her" scenario. You've hit her up multiple times and she can't hang. Usually after 2-3 tries I would just let it go. Why waste your time if you can never hangout in person? Even if you've met in person already. Even you're texting, snapchatting, facebook messaging, etc, the point of text game is meeting in person. If they can't do that, move on. You will get less attached and less frustrated if you do.
/r/seduction22/08/17 04:13 AM
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Then you can attract a significant more amount of people if you actually improve your seduction technique. Approach, open, build comfort, number close or F-close. That's all you should be really thinking about. When you've got those down then you can start improving your appearance. Otherwise you will blame your success on not looking good enough which is most likely not true in MOST cases.
/r/seduction21/08/17 08:24 PM
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Yea, every time I see this thread come up I wanna punch the wall and then punch the person who brought it up. YES looks matter. That's why some girls you approach you will never get no matter how good you are at game. BUT this doesn't mean it's the end of the world if you're bad looking or average. A LOT of women can still be attracted to you by other things like confidence, style, personality, etc. Now if you are basing your success or failure because you don't look good enough, THEN you are de…
/r/seduction21/08/17 08:15 PM
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Some girls I won't approach because they simply aren't physically attractive. That's okay. But not approaching woman considered average because she's not pretty enough for you is a nervous and dumb excuse.
/r/seduction19/08/17 06:25 AM
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most people? probably it's guys who say that because they are low key trying to smash too. This is more of a social circle game. You gotta show that you're cool and build social proof. Once you've been approved by the girls in the class then you can start hitting on whoever you want.
/r/seduction17/08/17 04:51 PM
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"grabbing the girl by her waist and telling her whats your name baby and where we going tonight" I virtually did that same line on tinder and got an actual response. She was like "do I know you?" now we are talking so much and a date is in the works.
/r/seduction16/08/17 04:02 AM
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I have one suggestion that might help. Charge your damn phone!...Just kidding. But seriously lessen the jokes and try hinting an activity in there that you guys can do. Text game is getting her to come out and go on a date with you while adding some attraction. Flirting gets old.
/r/seduction14/08/17 09:51 PM
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The advice here to be a better listener can work but I have a more helpful suggestion. Try being a better speaker. That's if you like talking. As an actor, I did a speech that was so boring and mundane. BUT adding different intonation, slowing down and then speeding up really attracted the audience.
/r/seduction14/08/17 09:29 PM
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Well, I've went on a date with woman 10 years older than me (I'm 21). As long as you plan something in advance, she will be more than willing to accommodate. You can hint hanging out at her place afterwards so she'll know to not have the kids home. I'm not sure about the parents situation but I think her place or a hotel may be more of an option.
/r/seduction14/08/17 02:15 AM
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"Laughing in a light hearted manner while licking them on the neck." WHAT. THE. F***. WHAT THE ACTUAL F***.
/r/seduction13/08/17 04:30 PM
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"Then she just put her hand on my chick " I lol'd "I have never felt like this in a club. I think I am in love with you. What have you done to me?" I lol'd again http://gph.is/2cgv3mc But overall, if you got her to make out with you, you did something right. She probably would've gone home with you hadn't ted mosby'd it up.
/r/seduction13/08/17 03:08 PM
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FB can also mean Fuckbuddy but it's rarely used
/r/seduction13/08/17 06:33 AM
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75 percent true. I've seen it at clubs and at bars. Doesn't mean every girl is open to approach but you'll never know till you just do it!
/r/seduction13/08/17 06:21 AM
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Gosh! My heart was beating in my chest while I was reading. Good job man! I remember my first cold approach. It involved watching a lot of videos before I went out. But after your first cold approach, man, it's like a whole new world. Keep it up!
/r/seduction08/08/17 10:34 PM
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This is interesting. I find text game a bit more complicated. So if you're already going to hangout, less texting is needed. But before then, You're trying to build rapport and seduce as quickly as possible.
/r/seduction08/08/17 10:28 PM
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Mature doesn't necessarily mean older. It's more of a mindset. I myself am a fan of emojis. But as you get older you learn, while they are still fun and "flirty", they just aren't necessary to convey emotions. While it might not hurt to use it every now and then, using it constantly could hurt your image if the woman in question is more into mature men.
/r/seduction05/08/17 06:06 PM
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If you want to be seen as more mature, use as few emojis as possible. If you don't care, emoji it up.
/r/seduction05/08/17 04:52 PM
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The thing is also you're still young. You're not as independent as some of these people who can go out and party for real and get results. Women are much more mature at an older age but you can still learn to game the ones at your age.
/r/seduction04/08/17 02:20 PM
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haha the title is hilarious! but seriously real life is so much better. Watch what girls do, not what they say. There are always those emotions that you can't tap into through messages. Gotta approach a girl a day.
/r/seduction04/08/17 02:11 PM
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I agree with all the points except not going further than the kiss. I believe that the rule is more of an opinion than fact. Anything can happen if you really connect. If you feel you can wait, you should. But if you feel a real connection, do whatever the hell you want.
/r/seduction03/08/17 01:10 PM
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hey, getting a fake number sucks. But you know what also sucks? Getting a real number and finding out she has a boyfriend. Twice. Don't let this event get to you. There are variety of reasons that go into play here and just count the fact that she was willing to give a number out as a success.
/r/seduction03/08/17 06:54 AM
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yes, be direct but build comfort first. You both know why you are there, but girls still like to be comfortable before they actually meet. Start with greeting of some kind and then get to know them a little and then you ask them to meet up.
/r/seduction02/08/17 02:46 PM
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I think befriending is a strategy that rarely works with people in seduction. It's a mind calming technique to make you more at ease and less inclined towards social anxiety. If you're not already friends with multiple girls, this strategy will not work and WILL hinder your success.
/r/seduction02/08/17 02:30 PM
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The truth is you can't short circuit ANY girls mind. In fact, you can't even short circuit the MAJORITY of girls minds. What pickup artist learn, is to learn to sense who is the girls who are a "maybe" and a "yes". You can short circuit those types but the "no's" are a good majority and will not be able to seduce. Most amateurs can only seduce the "yes" type of girl.
/r/seduction02/08/17 12:24 PM
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I mean if you expect that to happen, then you've already failed so just move on.
/r/seduction22/06/17 12:38 PM
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This was hilarious. Congrats on the confident pimp walk lmao. You shouldn't have ignored her as much in the initial reaction. Gotta get that seduction going first.
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:36 PM
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Ok, you should unfriend them on facebook but don't email them. If they are interested in you, they will add you again or message you in a timely matter. You gotta be firm with your actions otherwise you are not leading.
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:29 PM
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shipoopi! I was in that musical in high school. Odly enough I auditioned for that role but never got it.
/r/seduction21/06/17 02:18 PM
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I go alone all the time. It's the very best. I talk to bartenders and couples and sometimes dance with hot girls. I've made many friends and I love the atmosphere. Sometimes I go and I don't talk to many people. The thing you have to do is just talk to as many people as you can. There are many people that are just as lonely as you. You can make friends with them and wing together.
/r/seduction20/06/17 01:33 PM
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Honestly, you should do it as soon as you've made a "connection" which usually happens during the first few texts of conversation. It's tricky but requires you to correctly interpret that point of the "connection".
/r/seduction20/06/17 12:32 AM
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In addition to ImStatus, I want to point out "social status" is way more than just about money. It includes being apart of a social circle which requires you to go out more and know more people. This in turn gives you more attention at bars and places of interest.
/r/seduction20/06/17 12:27 AM
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Online dating is the worst for even non-awesome people. Gotta meet more people in real life bro.
/r/seduction18/06/17 06:38 PM
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investment? I think not. Just asking to weed out people like this who are on tinder to "make friends". Also there tends to be hookers lurking around where I live.
/r/seduction18/06/17 03:33 PM
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How do I do that? I feel like I've gotten to comfortable.
/r/seduction22/05/17 11:54 AM
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I think you are going too hard too fast. Just take a breather. I started out with approaching 1 girl a day and in a couple of weeks I started going to bars and meeting multiple girls. When you push yourself too hard, you will think "why am I doing this?". You just need to slow down and pace yourself. Maybe try to do 5 a day and go home.
/r/seduction22/05/17 02:50 AM
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I think maybe your text game could be off. Do you mind sending me an example?
/r/seduction28/04/17 05:20 PM
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