I kinda hate coming here sometimes

Herethereallover · 2017-08-04T10:42:16+00:00

Tbh, I am 26 years old virgin, and I haven't had long term relationships (only 3 month or less). Still don't know how to talk to girls and what to talk. Not good at "game" at all. Tried to date with woman never got 2nd date somehow. I feel like I am a piece of shit However, I won't give up. It's better late than never. You are still young just never give up and improve your game and yourself.

2017-08-04T09:41:02+00:00

Dude, you're still young. Don't come here and get bitter, haterade is counter productive to your game.

Work at it, work on YOU, and work some more. You're going to have a lot of trial and error before you become proficient. It just doesn't come to you overnight.

letsriseup · 2017-08-04T10:00:16+00:00

This stuff is HARD. That's like going to the gym and expecting to look like those monsters if you're just starting.

Enjoy your improvement and disregard negativity. One day you'll wake up and be highly improved.

essexaspie · 2017-08-04T13:41:25+00:00

To be honest, I come here as opposed to pickup forums because of the LACK of success and bragging here, lol

Spend a few days on the Rooshv forum or something, and THEN you'll be depressed, lol!! Everyone talking about their threesomes and their 200 notchcounts etc. I literally had to stop reading it as I got so depressed.

This place doesn't make me wanna kill myself as much, lol

As for whether you'll ever improve, who knows!? Not to sound negative, but when I was 19, everyone told me that same shit they'll tell you ''In a few years you'll be swimming in pussy'' etc etc. Well, they were wrong!! VERY wrong. haha (and yeah, like you I also worked out, had hobbies, approached etc etc) - But I still won't give up even now i'm kinda old. Hoepefully you'll have a lot more luck.

Keep at it!

thepickup27 · 2017-08-04T14:20:37+00:00

The thing is also you're still young. You're not as independent as some of these people who can go out and party for real and get results. Women are much more mature at an older age but you can still learn to game the ones at your age.

TheNuManifesto · 2017-08-04T15:11:36+00:00

There's two things that really stand out here:

I feel like I will never improve with girls

Mindset is so important when it comes to social interaction. If you're thinking you'll never improve, that's going to come across in your body language and sub-communication. Why don't you think you'll improve?

my friends jokingly makes fun of me

tells me that I am a stalker chasing girls

Depending on how much this type of banter is affecting you, you might need to let this person know it's not helpful, or walk away. Apparently we're the sum of the 5 (6?) people we hang around with the most? Hanging out with negative people is going to make you negative.

It might even be feeding into your thoughts on not being able to improve...

immenseimme · 2017-08-04T20:40:21+00:00

Tell your friend that him saying this bothers you. That's what's called showing vulnerability and being honest, something that can get you far with women, too.

2017-08-05T02:05:05+00:00

19, you're just a kid, your life isn't even close to over. Don't be fooled by highschool, its an isolated life bubble and has nothing to do with the real world.

ToastFaceKiller · 2017-08-05T03:07:55+00:00

https://youtu.be/YV3618MhGEE

Check this out. Bite sized goals my friend

(Watch past the infield)

bluesupporters · 2017-08-05T09:09:51+00:00

You're still young mate, don't feel bad about not getting as many girls as you'd want.

When I was your age (I'm 26 now), I wasn't getting many girls either, so I lower my standards, it sucks but it worked.

But anyways it gets better as you get older, girls dig older guys, I think I peaked when I was 25 or so.

Title	I kinda hate coming here sometimes
Author	Wegotseduction
Upvotes	8
Comments	13
Date	August 4, 2017 9:02 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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