It's the guy who the girl has the most fun interacting with at that given moment. The guy who can go back and forth with her and have hundreds of messages within a night. It's the guy who has a flirtatious no fucks given attitude.. But without being mean, or sexually obvious.

 

It's the guy who doesnt care about sending 3 messages to 1 and holding that ratio the whole interaction. It's the guy who's has so much motivational power that creative shit and ideas just spur out his mouth. This is the interesting man. Interest is what it all boils down to. The interesting man is an open book, and bluntly so. He doesn't care about emotions. Emotions dont exist in his world.. He just says whats on his mind, but he keeps it going.. So the girl knows hes not trying to be insulting to her.. because his desire is to talk to her and unravel her, entice her and seduce her.

 

The looks dont even matter at this point. She wants to know what makes you like this. She wants to know why you emit so much confidence and carefree attitude. She wants to know how you have so much to say..

 

What makes a man like this? It's a combo of confidence, testosterone and creativity.

 

Ever notice how in approach a girl can be with a guy ..even on a date and you could take her complete interest away from that guy .. to the point she even turns to the guy and tells him off... just to continue talking to you.. as he gets upset and leaves? It's all about that interaction/that fun.. in that very moment. If that same guy had been all over her and talking to her and having fun with her. dancing with her.. or etc.. You would be the one intruding..and getting told off.. unless of course, you had amazing game.. but thats another story..

 

Don't fake any of this stuff if you do not have it. Don't bother trying to develop it if you see no progress.

 

This is not for everyone.. Game/seduction is not for everyone. It's the reality of this superficial life. It's survival of the fittest.. and not physically but mentally fit.. It's all about the mental and personal power.

 

If I see a girl I like, I want to fuck her brains out. But not just physically.. mentally. I want to fuck with her.. because thats my nature. I want to mess with he rand play around with her. IT's fun.. it really is.. If you don't have this energy.. you are not ready for the game boys! Go back to conventional and traditional meeting people through mutual friends, meeting people through school or work.. or festive gatherings..

 

Another thing. If you are afraid to touch a girl you do not know, you can be knocked out the lane by someone else. I've seen with my own eyes and heard with my own ears in person a pickup artist get knocked out of a set by some dude who didn't ask any questions or say anything before grabbing the girl by her waist and telling her whats your name baby and where we going tonight... In that instance she was caught off guard and the same guy took all of her attention by catching her mind in split seconds with witty creative banter and guiding her away from the crowd.. giving her his own drink in his hand after taking a sip. He made out with her briefly before getting her number.. left the scene like a ghost.. Meanwhile the guy looked around at some of his PUA group members and asked "hey was he with us?" "was he part of our group" all dumbfounded.. as the girl came back to him and said "sorry i had to fix my hair.."

 

BROOO.... This girl literally lied to his face.. despite him being right there and catching the whole interaction all the way up tot he makeout session.. came back and said "i had to fix my hair!".

 

The brightside, the PUA guy ended up taking her home and banging her. Why? because ultimately he didn't give a shit.. He was only caught off guard.. But it goes to show you... in the approach game.. Your value is based on how much interest and creativity you show toward a girl at that moment.. If your emitting even a grain of salt of fear.. you are already in the wrong mindset! Your balance should be a 3/3/3 of brain thinking, dick thinking and heart/desire based thinking.

 

I know this might not seem like any "practical" advice to some.. BUt I hope this helps give some of you guys a better perspective.. and maybe even some of you women.. Who only feel shame the next day after leaving your friend hanging for some dude, or giving yourself up to some guy within an hour of meeting him.. etc. Your brains are hardwired for passion ..especially when your drunk!

 

If you want some one on one FREE coaching, hit me up. I can only take one or two person per month however. I will also show you exactly what I do with audio recordings.. and explain what I was doing physically. and if you do not have your inner game in check (confidence/self-esteem/style/decent amount of experience), dont bother please!