I think it’s fair to say that most people have social awkwardness around girls. It’s probably more accurate to say that the social awkwardness was magnified 10 fold when we were teenagers. For me, looking back it’s so crazy to think that about how shy I was around girls. I was legit scared of them. I remember I was in grade nine business class and I was partnered up with the girl named Amy. Honestly, looking back on it she wasn’t even that pretty, but back then I WAS FREAKING OUT. I mean, what was I to say? What was I to do? I was so quiet I really didn’t know what to say. I mean we exchanged numbers (for the group project) but GOD FORBID I texted her. Can you imagine?! She would straight out reject me. That was my mind state then, and oh boy did I change! I remember seeing something on Youtube called “The Fuck It” moment.. This is video basically said “WHO CARES WHAT PEOPLE THINK”. There you have it folks! WHO CARES! Just do whatever makes you happy. If you like a girl GO TALK TO HER! If she rejects you, WHO CARES, you may not even see her again!! Think about it, most guys are afraid to approach girls, which means the ones who do are going to more successful. The guys who do are the ones who had the balls to actually do it! So next time you think “No shes too pretty for me” Think FUCK IT” and go for it. That’s what I did! I just talked to girls, and slowly I got better at it. Its not a magic pill, and honestly sometimes it sucked. Sometimes I got rejected. Sometimes girls thought I was “too try hard”, but guess what! Nothing comes easy. Whether its picking up girls, making money, playing basketball, it all takes time, but you know what else? Once you get good at it, it becomes HELLA FUN.. Check out this video, this is how I got over my women anxiety, and honestly if I can do it, you can too. Good luck players.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RyOxQ9Wav5o&t=38s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6xqL_cBRESk