When a woman wants get it on, and starts feeling like she's having a tough time getting what she wants, because the dude thinks he's being a gentleman, she's pretty naturally and completely understandably going to start getting pretty darn annoyed if he doesn't make a move, right? The guy who move fast put smiles on women's faces and give women want they want, while the guys who move slow run out women's patience and end up alone at the end of the night, wondering what went wrong. The girl at the club, isn't any different than the girls hanging out with you playing beer pong. They want you to get the cookie.