I just had my face dunked into "Mary sue's" chest like she was a stripper with a secret fetish for fucking customers. I noticed she enjoyed when my hand grazed over her hips, and her breasts press against my chest, while I held onto her ass. I guess im the kind of guy she likes getting closer and closer to. We're on my couch and she straddles me, but she wasnt a stripper, she was some chick i just met. she didnt know me, but now she followed me home. I told myself to make a mental note:

it's important to stay in set. don't eject, unless she is really uncomfortable. everything in your body may urge you to leave, but your mind has to be a fucking rock star. dont just make her think you're nice or that your friendly, make her feel attraction. this is something she knows and feels for sure. when your the rock star it's like your the hamburger and she's the fat kid. I noticed everyone wants the other person to do all of the hard work to make it happen, but how realistic is that? her job is to choose, your job is to be chosen, or jerk off thinking about her while you lubricate your dick with your own tears. figure this out and it'll be a great experience because not only will you get girls acting like eager sluts for you, but you'll learn what your doing right, and be able to do it over and over. i've done this like a million times and i laugh when i think about what works in real life vs what gets worked out in your mind. everyone is direct game here, and it's a shame. Sure, it's a great way to unplug, but true champs have systems that structure the highest probability of success and optimize how your dates will go. thats why its important to ask yourself "what do i do now in first 5 min? then the next 5 min after that? and again after that?, then before you know it, you've only spent 3 minutes with a girl your entire life, and now its been 3 hours, and the longer you spend time with her the more you see her shift into other personalities. some more adventurous for you than for others.

~reciprocating