I am a nerdy Brown guy. I wear glasses, play video games (when I have free time). Otherwise, I will work/go to classes and workout at the gym. I do enjoy physical activities like Baseball, basketball, hiking and work out at the gym often. I am average looking and short (5 foot 8), but I've seen uglier and shorter guys with good looking gfs. I've even seen a few international students date American women.

I also wear glasses, but I cannot read or drive without them. I HATE contacts with a passion and don't have the money for laser eye surgery. What are some alternatives to glasses?

How would you avoid being the stereotype? People say to be yourself, as long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone. There are also a good amount of nerdy chicks who like nerdy guys. I also have lowered my standards a lot. And I used to be attracted to solely Indian or White chicks, but am attracted to a variety of women now (Hispanic, Asian, Black, Middle Eastern).