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[–]ip_g_chodder 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Remove females from the face of the planet and there is no need for sex. Are you confident now? What do you spend your days doing? Can you hold a long conversation with men?
Confidence comes from self validation/affirmation. If you already lead an interesting life and love what you do then perhaps you need to see a therapist. Just because one therapist sucks doesn't mean they all do. If you're in the US a psychologist is a specific type of therapist. You should pick a female psychologist and go see her.
[–]DavidGolani11 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Talk to females like they were guys. Learn to interact with them on a regular basis before you take that huge step of trying to on the more challenging level of romantic interest.
[–]DMZ_Dragon1 point 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Girls are people. They're a different kind of 'guy', but they have the same set of hobbies, interests, likes and dislikes as guys do.
Treat them like your guy friends, to a certain extent. If you like a girl, the absolute best way to go about it is to mentally cycle that idea as you talk to her. Your body language will change accordingly.
Finally and perhaps most importantly, be okay with the fact that you're only 23 years old, have more than three quarters of your life ahead of you, and that not having had a girlfriend by this time isn't a disaster.
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