Hi Seducers,

How are you all. So in a nutshell let me tell you my predicament. I'm Pakistani, on looks around a good 7, had it rechecked online and from friends, that's the average I come up with. I'm 28 but look around 25 on a good day again checked by others. I'm not skinny but not jacked either, go gym and eat fairly healthy, 80% of the time. Get my good night sleep as well.

On paper I seem cool, I am coz my all friends think so, I have a regular girl who really cares for me but knows I like pick up and want to sleep with others and she's cool with threesomes (haven't done that with her yet but come November on my B-Day she's promised it) and stuff. Oh I live in Manchester, UK.

What I feel is I know enough about game that the few times where I'm out of my head I've had success with girls. But my sticking points and limiting beliefs are too strong.

Here's a list of my biggest fears:

  1. Too old for this as I have a few white hair and a kind of receding hairline but it's not bad.

  2. I'm Pakistani, even though I'm 6 foot it done mean shit coz I'm not jacked or rich.

  3. I fear rejection soooo much that unless I'm drunk I don't approach outside my social circle. (I'm Raj haha)

  4. I feel work and pick up might take too much of my time from my hobbies and music.

I've been told I'm smooth, a natural flirt and have an X factor that girls I've been with can't pin down but even with all this I can't break out of my own head and the fears I have.

I'm thinking of hypnosis against fear, going after I want and self limiting beliefs. I also want to seriously start meditation and go take a floatation session for an hour.

What else should I do or if you've been where I am, how and what helped you the most. I'll be grateful for any help. Plus if you in Manchester, UK I'll buy you a pint.

Thanks in advance.

P. S. Only been into pick up for just over a year.