One of the girls I'm dating told me last night that she can't tell if I'm making fun of her or not, that I was edgy, in a good way. It's not the first time I've heard this. I'm recently single after two long relationships that went straight into each other, but before that girls used to tell me that I was "dangerous" or "trouble".

The thing is, I'm a fucking kitty cat. I'm probably one of the most genuinely caring guys I know. I'm a sweetheart, through and through, and I'm proud of it. Still, If girls want to think I'm a bad boy, more power to them. Especially if it keeps getting me dates.

My question is: What could I be doing to make them think this? If it's a strength I have in attracting women I want to cultivate it. Lord knows, these women could do a lot worse especially if they're attracted to bad boys.

I tell a lot of jokes, sort of a result of my country upbringing, hanging around a bonfire laughing and telling stories. I've been described as aloof by women I've been in LTRs with. And I'm a bit of a flirt too, I just think men and women should flirt with each other and it feels good.

Any Idea what I could do to level up my bad boy while still retaining my good boy?