Hello everyone.

I'm relatively new to red pill, however I have two plates. The first one is going well, but I need advice on the second one.

I cannot get the second plate to have an orgasm. I'm not claiming to be a sex god or anything, but it isn't usually an issue, especially if I've been with the girl multiple times. She won't let me go down on her, so that may be a part of it, but even then I don't usually have an issue.

Should I ask her if that's normal for her, and if it isn't should I ask her what gets her off, or should I ignore it, and just focus on myself.

Thanks in advance you guys.