I usually set up dates or time to hang out via text. I feel like the same problems always arise so I'm asking:

1) If you have to schedule a date in a very short time for that same day, how do you proceed? I usually just pay more attention to my phone that usual (almost none) but I don't like this because I feel like I am depending too much on the other person (waiting for her text, checking phone constantly, trying to set up something) and it makes me feel nervous and pressure starts building up in my chest like when you are on a big rush. I think this makes me outcome-dependent and worsens my game, so there must be another choice.

2) I'm usually only free on the weekends, and Friday is my go-to day for setting up dates. Sometimes you ask a girl (or anyone in general) during the week to do something with you and she either doesn't respond or leaves the plan on the air, so you go for another one. Then Friday comes and suddenly girl numero uno is available, now you have to choose or manage two plans, what's the best approach?