Tried to approach a girl and chickened out, what should I have done better?

2017-09-20T00:43:26+00:00

Just talk to them so you don't have regret

2017-09-20T01:36:59+00:00

Just do it, and try not to be invested in the outcome. It will be very hard to force yourself to do it, but the fact is, this is the part you can't skip, no matter how much reading you do. Rejections aren't bad, and don't mean anything about you, the girl could have anything going on in her life, be too busy, etc.

I finally got the courage to ask for the number of this checkout girl at my supermarket. Even though she always came over to talk to me, always smiled at me, I was still frozen with fear. But eventually I got angry at myself and said why am I scared, what am I scared of? I honestly expected rejection as I'm 31 and she turned out to be 18.

But I went up, chatted a bit, and finished of with 'I'll probably regret if I don't ask, want to go for a coffee sometime?'. And her face lit up and she gave me her number. Date coming soon.

Push through the fear, and the rewards will eventually come.

shitty_dix · 2017-09-20T20:52:31+00:00

It sounds like you're in college. Immediately, you should start talking to everyone (yes including men and old ladies). Do it enough and eventually you won't even think twice about it. There really isn't a better situation to do this and get over any fear you have with talking to people.

Title	Tried to approach a girl and chickened out, what should I have done better?
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Date	September 20, 2017 12:22 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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