I want to hear the slut stories, how do I get her talking

[deleted] · 2014-11-06T15:55:18+00:00

Ask her what's the wildest thing she's done while on a trip overseas

oldmantrp · 2014-11-06T20:09:32+00:00

I've had many women, post wall, gush about their past. Here is what it takes

Repeatedly assure her that you're not judgmental. You think there is an unfair double standard for women; that women should be able to do whatever their biological impulses compel them to do. This removes any fear of punishment. Never call her a slut or use judgmental terms about women around her.
Praise her for being daring and uninhibited. These makes her want to share more and strokes her ego in the direction you want her to go.
You may want to hint that you're in to watching. Many women have a fantasy about being watched or performing for others sexually. If you build trust, she may want to turn her past experiences in to a performance of sorts.

[deleted] · 2014-11-06T17:59:40+00:00

Casually let her know that you're non-judgmental and the stories will come. Just like with any trickle-truth, she'll start out with something small, and then you'll have to give her a look of disbelief like "that's it? come on, you can do better than that."

favours_of_the_moon · 2014-11-06T19:45:43+00:00

You have to act like you think it's SUPER hot.

If you validate and praise her for it and act turned on, she'll keep telling you more.

oldredder · 2014-11-07T07:19:26+00:00

Girls like to talk to other girls about this stuff, not other guys. Exception: if you're her gay bestie.

Extra-special exception: if you can use combinations of NLP & emotionalizing to get her to feel you are trustworthy, like a mentor/psychiatrist to her, while obviously not being so.

Gonna lay it out to you straight: you don't have the skill. It's not happening. It would require such an emotional reprogramming she feels talking to you would be as safe as talking to herself. You're not going to make this happen.

Title	I want to hear the slut stories, how do I get her talking
Author	TANov14
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	November 6, 2014 3:40 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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