So today was a night out with the guys and I was self-determined to get something night. Long story short, I didn't. Note that this is the first time I go out with the mindset of meeting women and getting to escalate with them. About me (don't know if it matters):straight 20 yo male, pretty good looking, mexican. Not bragging, just being honest.
Tonight I went to a karoke with some friends and it was a great place for picking up, there were groups of just girls in a table. I didn't approach, though, because the girls weren't that good looking to me so I wasn't very motivated. But two friends did approach and one got a kiss. Then we went to a club and it seemed like a great place for trying approaches. There were lots of approachable girls, some of them scoring 8 or higher.
So now I will list my multiple tries:
-The first one was kind of easy to apporach because I had the idea that there were still plenty of girls to choose, so if I failed it wasn't that bad. I approached with a hi, and then asked what is she studying (this is a very common question because most of the people in the club are students from my university). The talk died pretty fast. I was very nervous and she clearly noticed, also she didn't contribute anything to the conversation, which lead me to think she wasn't into meeting people at the moment.
-A friend approached me to dance, she seemed like it would have been an easy pick up, but I didn't escalate because she is a good friend and my reputation is already kind of damaged in her group of friends, I didn't want to make it worse.
-A beatiful blonde that I had seen before at the gym appeared. To me she was the best looking in the whole club. She was alone with another girl friend. I stalked her a very long time and finally didn't approach. I found lots of reasons not to do it like: not with this song, not because they are dancing standing in the sit, because another guy approached... The whole night they were alone and they rejected multiple guys that approached. So I wasted a long time stalking waiting for the right moment.
-While stalking this girl, I casually had an interaction with a good looking girl, I would say she was an 8 beaucase of her face, slim, but flat body. So she wasn't attractive enough, and even less because I was comparing her to the blonde. So I just danced a little and then just kept on stalking. I think felt this girl was attracted to me, but I really wasn't.
-Lastly I gave up on the blonde and approached another blonde that I felt was staring at me. I standed next to her and said something like "ayy" and just pulled out some moves. Told her that was one of my favorite songs, also talked about her night. She was pretty short-spoken, so I got the same feeling as the first one: She wasn't in the mood or something. But I hanged there dancing a little more, until she pulled another guy that was her friend to dance, so I gave up.
That was it. What I learned is what I've read in seddit before is true: that the worse that can happend when approaching a girl is nothing. And that isn't bad at all! I'm very motivated and excited to keep polishing my skills.
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