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1

It's not. Chicks have nothing to do with the friendship. It would be the same if your friend ditched you because you fucked his girl, which isn't the case. Also, even if it was the case here, he did something bad so you can do something bad back? Revenge tastes good, but I'm not sure if it's that good from a moral point of view.
/r/seduction15/11/17 07:54 PM
5

She was being cool to pick you up, you friendzoned her, so there's no point in being cool to you anymore.
/r/seduction15/11/17 07:38 PM
1

Don't put stats, don't try to impress.
/r/seduction15/11/17 11:20 AM
1

Cool
/r/seduction15/11/17 06:44 AM
2

This
/r/seduction14/11/17 04:41 PM
2

I just get really needy and jealous and shit until they stop liking me. This is just rewarding good behavior. She behaves well, you reward. She behaves "bad" (not necessarily bad, more like inconveniently), you "punish her".
/r/seduction14/11/17 04:40 PM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/75c6ze/how_to_text/
/r/seduction14/11/17 02:11 PM
2

If you feel good than I have nothing to say.
/r/seduction13/11/17 05:33 PM
1

There's no transaction, you have a dominant flirtatious vibe from the beginning. You don't want to be her gay friend and all of the sudden be "Hey, I have a dick!". Also, how the fuck are you gonna escalate across the table? Don't sit across, sit next to her. Watch a movie, do some shit where you can be next to her cuddling or some shit. Get some drinks, not to get her drunk (she might though) but because it's a social thing. If she's going on a date to YOUR HOUSE, she's not going there to have …
/r/seduction13/11/17 12:38 PM
5

"Yep"
/r/seduction13/11/17 12:14 PM
2

I don't know if that's the book or not. It's a book that talks about all the states from the best to the worse by order. Apathy is pretty bad, leads to depression and other shit like that. Even anger is better than apathy.
/r/seduction13/11/17 12:10 PM
2

It is. It's one of the worst states to be in. I believe Power of Now explains that well. I don't remember the name of the book anymore, but I think it's the Power of Now. You can either believe me or experience it by yourself and see if it's good or bad.
/r/seduction13/11/17 09:46 AM
2

That's apathy. You have emotional problems in your subconscious.
/r/seduction12/11/17 11:55 PM
2

Maybe you just don't give a fuck if the other guy died.
/r/seduction12/11/17 11:08 PM
-16

It's a secret.
/r/seduction12/11/17 06:26 PM
1

Outcome independence is for outcome dependent guys. Outcome independent guys need to learn outcome dependence. However, this has nothing to do with that. This has to do with much deeper issues, where you block your own emotions due to trauma. You probably liked a girl and people made fun of you for that, maybe you cried and you got told men don't cry. You repressed your emotions and with repetition it became automatic. I'll say you probably hold yourself from experiencing intense emotions in fro…
/r/seduction12/11/17 06:05 PM
-21

Pm me, I have the right book for you.
/r/seduction12/11/17 05:56 PM
1

^ This. She had the "balls" to initiate, at least give her a date.
/r/seduction12/11/17 05:55 PM
1

Do this
/r/seduction11/11/17 11:48 PM
1

I think you're like the "gay friend". She knows you're not a "threat" so she's okay exposing herself. Kinda like how girls are okay with a dog or a child touching their boobs. It's not a sexual threat, so they're okay with it. I don't really know how to get you out of that lmao. Just enjoy being her friend, you don't have to bang her. She seems cool, you're obviously intimate, so just be her friend. She sends you nudes, she can introduce you to her friends, she can wing you, etc. Being in the fr…
/r/seduction11/11/17 09:21 PM
2

Here's the video, here's the notes. Take action.
/r/seduction11/11/17 09:12 PM
13

I don't go to a club to dance well. My dancing skills pretty much come down to doing sexual motions with my pelvis and moving my arms around to distract people from the sexual motions with my pelvis.
/r/seduction11/11/17 02:03 PM
-4

All that for a fucking chick? Couple years ago, my friend stole my crush a month later after we been "together" (it wasn't an actual relationship). He then proceeded to send pics of them kissing and shit like an asshole, because he knew I liked her. He outgamed me, fair enough. I didn't cry about it, I just got another girl, I don't give a shit. We're still good friends and I still talk with the girl. Only butthurt pussies make situations like this life or death. You don't ditch your friend for …
/r/seduction11/11/17 01:55 PM
22

Those who wait, masturbate. Now you know that.
/r/seduction11/11/17 01:44 PM
3

Inner circles. No one wants to go out with you if you're gonna be calling people blue pilled, not cool. You're not red pilled.
/r/seduction11/11/17 11:05 AM
5

Infield? Dude wtf. They don't even know you, they'll think you already know her.
/r/seduction11/11/17 12:59 AM
1

If you can escalate things. Study with her, take her to work, shit like that.
/r/seduction11/11/17 12:57 AM
1

If you have room to take things to the next level, do it. If I was you I'd spend more time with her from now.
/r/seduction10/11/17 10:11 PM
1

The time is passing. The more you wait, more time the other guy will have to game her.
/r/seduction10/11/17 09:23 PM
2

You answered your own problem.
/r/seduction10/11/17 09:21 PM
2

They fuck behind your back. You need to fuck behind his back too. Don't get jealous, don't get needy, you'll be sharing this girl with the other guy until you just fucking eclipse him with better game and sex that she chooses you.
/r/seduction10/11/17 07:54 PM
1

I'm just being honest, not hostile at all. If you like the advice or not, that's with you.
/r/seduction10/11/17 07:40 PM
3

She just hangs out with you. Nothing special happened, you're friends.
/r/seduction10/11/17 05:03 PM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/75c6ze/how_to_text/
/r/seduction10/11/17 04:56 PM
1

It doesn't seem nothing to me, stop being all serious and shit about it, you're not her boyfriend. Doesn't matter what you two are.
/r/seduction10/11/17 04:53 PM
2

What makes the sexual tension is the vibe. Isolate and escalate, pretty simple. Be alone with him, square up, look him in the eyes, touch him, sexual tonality in your voice, proximity, etc. Basically, be alone, get really horny and show it.
/r/seduction10/11/17 12:58 PM
1

If a girl sucks your dick, do you think "What is this feeling? How can I describe it? What's its origin? Does it actually feel good or is it just placebo? Do we have a connection? What does it mean?..." or do you just let her fucking suck it off and enjoy it? Same thing here. You're not in a "deep relationship to discover her hopes and dreams", you both fuck or whatever and that's it.
/r/seduction10/11/17 12:51 PM
1

This ^
/r/seduction10/11/17 12:46 PM
0

Go out dude.
/r/seduction10/11/17 12:43 PM
10

You need to know how to get girls in general in order to know how to get the specific girl you want. Go to parties. All girls like to have fun, not just "sluts" or whatever.
/r/seduction09/11/17 10:43 PM
3

There's no easy way here. If you just do this light touches here and there, you're not escalating it. Pull her to you when you're going to watch a movie, hug her, pet her, kiss her, I don't know dude. Tell her you like her (in a cool way, don't be all intense and shit, this isn't hollywood) and that she's cool to hang out with. You have to build intimacy between you two. Don't be afraid to be close to her and to let your bodies touch, if you're half stepping to avoid rejection, guess what... you…
/r/seduction09/11/17 10:37 PM
1

No need to complicate what is simple.
/r/seduction09/11/17 05:13 PM
4

That's peacocking.
/r/seduction09/11/17 11:01 AM
1

Really.
/r/seduction09/11/17 08:10 AM
1

You're fine
/r/seduction08/11/17 07:10 PM
1

A date is to fuck. She needs to know you before fucking.
/r/seduction08/11/17 04:07 PM
1

There's no transition. You're flirtatious from the beginning.
/r/seduction08/11/17 10:37 AM
2

Uh... don't compliment her?
/r/seduction08/11/17 10:03 AM
1

Not wild at all, a park at midnight is pretty empty.
/r/seduction08/11/17 09:55 AM
3

This is what I recommend you to do. Text her as soon as possible. Don't say too much stupid shit and you're good to go. Have a good one.
/r/seduction07/11/17 06:40 PM
1

It's the way you say the entire sentence.
/r/seduction07/11/17 06:34 PM
2

"Do you need help?". Be aware that people don't like to be corrected in the gym. Imo that's a shitty way to start talking, but if you're gonna use it, at least say "You're doing well, but you can isolate it more if you want to" or some shit like that.
/r/seduction07/11/17 04:27 PM
10

Go to her house. If you want it to be more exciting and spontaneous, do it on a street/park/whatever. You can rent an hotel room, but that's not for free lol.
/r/seduction07/11/17 04:23 PM
2

Test it like 20 times and see if it works
/r/seduction07/11/17 11:26 AM
11

You forgot the part that IT WORKS EVERYTIME OMG.
/r/seduction06/11/17 09:28 PM
2

Dude, you're overthinking this shit.
/r/seduction06/11/17 09:27 PM
6

Experience is king. Your skill is directly proportional to your experience. There are ways to put yourself in certain situations to gain experience faster - that's called theory. If you don't apply theory, you'll not have skill.
/r/seduction06/11/17 12:50 PM
4

Places with people.
/r/seduction06/11/17 12:35 PM
4

Talk to people
/r/seduction06/11/17 10:03 AM
4

Pm me, I'll send you Transformation Mastery and Energy Awareness Training for free (to OP only). Watch Fight Club and Hector and the search for happiness and pay attention to those movies. You'll see plenty of things that will help you. To be happy you need to let go. Trying to be perfect isn't letting go, it's trying to be perfect. Trying, key word. Stop trying to reach the end goal. There's no end goal, it's death after this. You're in this sort of playground and you can't get out alive. Might…
/r/seduction05/11/17 11:51 PM
4

Whenever you're able to do it again.
/r/seduction05/11/17 11:43 PM
9

If you waste more than 5 minutes watching that fucking movie, I'll find you and personally cut your dick since you're not using it. Let that sink in and use it as motivation.
/r/seduction05/11/17 11:36 PM
1

Use this to learn. You saw what happened. Part of this is being clever and focused to do the right moves at the right time. Getting a girl's number when you can't go further with her at a particular time is one of those moves.
/r/seduction05/11/17 11:34 PM
2

Don't ask. Don't be 1h grinding. Kisses are fine, but go for neck or something first to test, don't go for the mouth. Isolate and pull. If you knew what to do, I wonder why you didn't do it.
/r/seduction05/11/17 09:22 PM
1

Take a wild guess.
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:47 PM
2

Are you saying you couldn't pull her aside, even when she was leaving, and say "I think my buddy likes you and I don't want to upset him, but you seem to be a cool girl, let's exchange numbers to grab a bite sometime"?
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:45 PM
1

Did you got her number?
/r/seduction05/11/17 07:19 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/75c6ze/how_to_text/
/r/seduction05/11/17 07:15 PM
10

Go out dude.
/r/seduction05/11/17 07:14 PM
12

Get her on a fucking date. Don't be like "Oh is this a date?", just tell her to meet you to do some shit. It can be eating yogurt at your house, doesn't matter. Just do the shit you have been doing with her, because it clearly works. Don't be a pussy. You're there to fuck, she's there to fuck, so you're gonna fuck. If you see her escalating, take that opportunity. Don't wait until the end of the movie, don't wait to buy something else, just do it in the moment. If you're in the middle of the mal…
/r/seduction05/11/17 06:44 PM
2

If you don't give a shit about the book, don't do that.
/r/seduction05/11/17 12:50 PM
1

It's oneitis. Her boyfriend is in "last place", nothing to worry about that. From experience, girls in long distance relationships are single girls. If I was you, I'd bet on comfort and volume. Don't go too hard on it, you don't want it to get awkward if it fails. Don't be too friendly either, stay in that range of "I'm your friend but I have a dick". She's more comfortable with him, that's what he has going for him (as far as I know), so spend more time with her and really assume familiarity, a…
/r/seduction05/11/17 12:46 PM
1

She's laughing at any random shit you say, she's curious about the girls you're with, everyone is saying you look cute together (she probably told them she likes you), she's touching you a lot, she's really close. What do you think?
/r/seduction05/11/17 11:01 AM
40

Dude, are you fucking blind or autistic or some shit? How can you not see that she's dtf? You have a girl buying you drinks and eating with you after the club and you don't do shit. She takes you home, all over you and you don't do shit. Then you send her a text So I was thinking we could go to the bar again, do you want this to be a date?. This is just revolting tbh. YOU HAVE A DICK, SHE HAS A VAGINA, PUT YOUR DICK IN HER VAGINA FFS.
/r/seduction05/11/17 10:54 AM
1

With what?
/r/seduction05/11/17 09:41 AM
5

If you're gonna have an exam, gather people to study with you ("Me and John are gonna study for the maths exam, come"). Keep doing it until you have a decent number of people. People study better better when they're with others doing the same, two heads think better than one, so you'll be helping them as well. Win win.
/r/seduction05/11/17 12:08 AM
7

Even though college is pretty much the best place for social circle game, cold approach can be helpful if done with caution. Meeting girls from the other side of the college might be impossible with social circle, but very easy with cold approach. You have to take care of your reputation though (you don't wanna be the "pick up guy"), so social circle is the way to go.
/r/seduction05/11/17 12:06 AM
1

If you're afraid of something happening, make it happen on purpose. If you're afraid to look bad in pictures, look bad on purpose. Make weird faces and gay poses, whatever it takes to look as stupid and ugly as possible. Same thing for the emotions. Tell them how you're feeling straight up ("I'm feeling this"). Vulnerability gives quite the attraction spike, being vulnerable or letting people know your personal life will only make people like you and trust you more. Have a good one.
/r/seduction05/11/17 12:01 AM
1

I don't take orders from you.
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:43 PM
1

I wonder if this is the cyberbullying people warned me about.
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:35 PM
1

True.
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:28 PM
2

Occasionally send pictures or something like when you update your social media. Don't overdo it, it'll back fire. Do it like every week or something.
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:27 PM
0

They're a reflection of how helpfull my posts are, but if you say so, I believe you. Have a good one.
/r/seduction04/11/17 04:47 PM
1

Thanks for your opinion, my karma and gold says otherwise.
/r/seduction04/11/17 01:50 PM
-4

If you know the theory, apply it.
/r/seduction04/11/17 11:19 AM
1

If you act like you're s chode, they perceive you as a chode. "Excuse me sir, may I let you know that this is a line, please don't pass me on the line" isn't calling them out on it. Chest out, shoulders out, arm in front of them, talk loud, "That ain't happening son" and you're in front of them again. If you half ass it, you're done.
/r/seduction04/11/17 11:16 AM
-7

You don't. Leave that for the date. "I just wanna have fun for now".
/r/seduction04/11/17 11:12 AM
0

In a couple of years, there's plenty of time for them to turn into faggots or their wifes turn into wild boars. You too.
/r/seduction04/11/17 11:02 AM
-3

I ain't joking. A romanian 50yo homeless man with tumors could be on the edge of death. He's still down to get laid. No man gets bored of pussy.
/r/seduction04/11/17 12:56 AM
-3

No man will get bored of pussy. If he does, he's a faggot.
/r/seduction04/11/17 12:39 AM
1

Make it interesting yourself?
/r/seduction04/11/17 12:35 AM
1

Alexander Technique. That's what every singer, every public speaker, every whatever use to project their voice with quality sound and clarity without going horse moments later.
/r/seduction04/11/17 12:34 AM
3

She remembers you too and knows you two have chemistry. Any random shit should work fine. Fuck you John-Henry.
/r/seduction03/11/17 08:15 PM
1

He's either playing hard to get or is low self-esteem. If he's low self-esteem I'd run away.
/r/seduction03/11/17 08:04 PM
1

It's not adding more information, it's letting go and knowing less information.
/r/seduction03/11/17 03:14 PM
1

If hugs aren't congruent, don't do hugs.
/r/seduction03/11/17 03:11 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction03/11/17 02:20 PM
1

Being flirty or not in this situation is irrelevant. She probably likes you. You friendzoned her, so doesn't matter what happens, she's still your friend. As long as you don't brake her heart, everything is fine.
/r/seduction03/11/17 01:28 PM
2

Just do the shit you have been doing.
/r/seduction03/11/17 01:04 PM
1

Best friend
/r/seduction03/11/17 01:03 PM
2

No. It's just some fucking random thing that will get her to reply. The exact same thing you did here, see? "Pencil? For what?" "You'll see. I'll be there at 8pm". Then just bring a paper and draw shit, can do cold reading, games, whatever. You can say "Bring chocolate, I'm craving chocolate". Just something that isn't "So did you forget about me? Are we still on because girls usually flake on me?". I'm the shit, no one flakes on me, bring me fucking chocolate.
/r/seduction02/11/17 11:55 PM
1

No. It's just some fucking random thing that will get her reply. The exact same thing you did here, see? "Pencil? For what?" "You'll see. I'll be there at 8pm". Then just bring a paper and draw shit, can do cold reading, games, whatever.
/r/seduction02/11/17 11:54 PM
1

Hypnosis can be used on other people, but movies make it look like it's fucking magic, like making people turn into "zombies" and do everything you tell lmao.
/r/seduction02/11/17 10:34 PM
3

I'm not a girl, but how'd you feel if your bf was banging your crush?
/r/seduction02/11/17 10:31 PM
2

She has a life. You're fine.
/r/seduction02/11/17 08:22 PM
1

Not everyone likes you. Understand that. You talk to people to see if you have chemistry. If they don't like you, than you found out you don't have chemistry. You're for some, not for others.
/r/seduction02/11/17 08:18 PM
1

Not a fun of "Are we still on for today?". Send like "Meet me at 8pm" or "Bring a pencil", safer and less needy.
/r/seduction02/11/17 08:12 PM
2

Just follow the advice in the sub. We tell you to go out. Go out.
/r/seduction02/11/17 08:08 PM
5

People talk shit about hypnosis, but are completely fine with "the zone" or whatever, which is pretty much hypnosis. If you read this and think that this is weird, it's not. It's just accessing the subconscious mind, kinda like meditation on steroids.
/r/seduction02/11/17 08:05 PM
1

Except you don't actually need to breath. The breathing is there just to facilitate the mind to enter in a hypnotic state. It's very deep breathing. The psychological exercises that you do while breathing are the same thing that the psychologist would do. Psychologist don't do nothing special. It's basically finding the source of the problem, realizing that it doesn't represent danger anymore and you're good to go. You paid a couple bucks for that, I'm telling him how to do it for free.
/r/seduction02/11/17 03:34 PM
1

That's what a professional psychologist would use. Except you don't actually need to breath. Same concept tho. If you take any program related to trauma release, you'll notice that it's the same shit.
/r/seduction02/11/17 01:11 PM
1

Use your mouth
/r/seduction02/11/17 09:07 AM
2

You're low self-esteem. There's deeper issues running on the background, typically lack of validation from your mom/dad. Use pranic breathing techniques.
/r/seduction02/11/17 07:52 AM
1

If that's what you think, I'm cool with it. Have a good one.
/r/seduction02/11/17 07:39 AM
7

What's the point of being with games and shit? You like her, she likes you. You hang out, you fuck. "I'm so high value, I'm so busy, I'm an alpha male with priorities, oh look at me", that's just fucking stupid. If you want to fuck her, just fuck her, don't be all weird and insecure about it planning every fucking thing just to appear non needy, when all you do is thinking about her.
/r/seduction02/11/17 12:02 AM
1

It's not binary. It's not friend or boyfriend. You can be fwb or some other shit. You don't need to be something. Honestly, when you're pushing those things on girls, it's just a fucking turn off. Don't do that. Be cool.
/r/seduction01/11/17 11:56 PM
1

She was probably seeing if you're cool with the other guy. Just ignore, you know the deal. Have a good one.
/r/seduction01/11/17 11:47 PM
1

Why these ultimatums? Why can't you just fucking chill and be cool with her? She seems cool and obviously like you, just be fucking cool and enjoy each other with no feelings involved. You're getting all serious, trying to go for a relationship and shit. Chill dude.
/r/seduction01/11/17 11:44 PM
1

As little as possible.
/r/seduction01/11/17 11:39 PM
16

Act as if it didn't happen. Take other girls out meanwhile.
/r/seduction01/11/17 10:16 PM
2

Yep. You failed the test. "I'm on my period" (nonsense), "Yes, that's all I can think about, I see everyone as objects and I'm a slut" (agree and exaggerate), "I'm a pure innocent boy, there's two things I like to do: going to church and respect women, sex isn't one of them" (disagree and exaggerate), "That's right, my grandma told me 20yo and still a virgin leaving in the basement, you need to change that son" (agree and exaggerate). Anything that isn't justifying yourself and being apologizing…
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:43 PM
1

Just keep moving the conversation. From topic to topic. You don't need depth. It's all about the vibe. If they feel comfortable and trust you, they'll go for depth if they want to. You're not getting a connection or whatever because you're in your head and trying to make it work, not because of what you're saying.
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:34 PM
2

That's a shit test. What did you answer?
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:28 PM
1

Stop over thinking this shit.
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:28 PM
1

Parties, malls, libraries, coffee shops. Any place with a fucking AC. Perfect time to have dates at home and so Christmas shopping, that's for sure.
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:19 PM
3

This^
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:18 PM
1

Authenticity. Be yourself. Not kinda be yourself, actually be yourself. This means no filters whatsoever. No filters.
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:16 PM
1

That's LMR. Pretty common. I have a post about that.
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:14 PM
1

You know what you're doing wrong. You know what to do to fix it. So just do that. Fix it and you'll stop thinking about them. Looks don't matter, frat guys are cool fun guys that want to fuck (not to kinda fuck), you're not.
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:12 PM
1

Headspace? Dude, all you need is a mouth. Just go up, say any shit and keep talking. Forget success, you're not in that stage yet. If you succeed that's cool, if you don't that's cool. If you wanna say "Hi" and leave or get rejected on purpose, go ahead. Irrelevant. You can't open, so focus on opening, everything else is a bonus. Open, drag it as much as possible and have fun.
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:00 PM
1

Approach being ugly.
/r/seduction01/11/17 06:59 PM
1

The vast majority of us are introverts. Stop the excuses. If you think they don't want to talk, do it anyway even if they'll not enjoy it. If you think it'll brake social norms, then brake the social norms. I don't see why that's a valid excuse. You can still physically do it despite those things, they're not blocking you at all.
/r/seduction01/11/17 04:37 PM
1

Better
/r/seduction01/11/17 03:52 PM
5

It comes off creepy because you're half assing it. You're too much of a pussy to just express yourself, instead you're just in your head fearing what others might think of you. They tell you your smile is creepy because you're forcing it. They like when your smile is genuine, not forced.
/r/seduction01/11/17 03:49 PM
1

Sober is the way to go. Don't drink. Not only it's stupid and unhealthy, it's really bad if you're trying to learn. Learn how to get state from within. Also, don't know why you'd be taking advantage of the girls.
/r/seduction01/11/17 03:36 PM
1

This isn't Red Pill. Those virgins are worse than feminism.
/r/seduction01/11/17 03:32 PM
20

What's the address? When are you home alone? Jk. You're an action taker tho, I like action takers. Pm me, I send you The Natural for free.
/r/seduction01/11/17 02:26 PM
1

Go out.
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:25 AM
1

I do it like this.
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:23 AM
1

And drinking.
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:20 AM
1

Cool. Have a good one.
/r/seduction01/11/17 02:22 AM
1

"Someone will reply to you saying that you should watch RSD in fields". That person is me. Here's a Jeffy's infield. It's not flashy shit. It's calm and steady, everything is smooth, he nails every god damn move. It's just perfect.
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:35 AM
3

Where are you from?
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:19 AM
1

Being scripted doesn't mean it's false. This is what every single motherfucker says when they start. "Looks and money". What they don't realize is that people test shit up in this community. When we say it's irrelevant, it's actually irrelevant. We tested it. So they can either accept it as being true and focus on what matters right away... or ignore the advice and learn it the hard way.
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:15 AM
1

It's all I have to say, looks are nothing.
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:06 AM
1

Picture with you and Evil Stifler with a spoon or you're lying
/r/seduction01/11/17 12:00 AM
1

Fuck it. I have an action based guide post, check it out if you want to.
/r/seduction31/10/17 06:00 PM
2

You're a fucking random dude. If they're not telling you to fuck off, you're not being rejected. Either stop them or go with them. She ignored you because you half assed it.
/r/seduction31/10/17 05:52 PM
3

You're overthinking this shit. Approach with no IOIs. That's the point of approaching, to make them interested. They're not interested before you approaching.
/r/seduction31/10/17 05:46 PM
4

It's a numbers game. Instructors get rejected too. The skill you gain only has a small impact on the girl. You can't pull every girl you approach, it's impossible. Even if you do everything right, there are other factors, such as the environment. You're a random guy she just met, even if you're perfect she prefers dancing and being with friends. Tyler has 15 years of experience. He gets rejected like 10 times for every girl he pulls.
/r/seduction31/10/17 01:49 PM
4

Approach with no IOIs? I don't get your problem.
/r/seduction31/10/17 01:46 PM
1

Open one of them. Indirect opener. Pull another girl to the conversation. Now you're talking to two of them. Keep doing it and you'll be talking to all of them.
/r/seduction31/10/17 01:44 PM
1

It's easier in highschool, it just gets harder from there.
/r/seduction31/10/17 10:14 AM
1

Good bot
/r/seduction30/10/17 10:07 PM
1

No. You use them and they use you. You need help, they enjoy helping you, it's satisfying. NGS get no personal satisfaction doing it, so when they help you and you peace out, they get mad.
/r/seduction30/10/17 10:05 PM
0

So you prefer to ambush her in her locker instead of talking to her group of friends, befriend them and talk to her?
/r/seduction30/10/17 10:03 PM
-1

It's gonna be shit. She has no experience, you have no experience. Imagine two romanian 9yo homeless kids with tumors rolling around. That's gonna be you and her. Pm me, I can send you Sex God Method ("inner game" of sex through DEVI method) and 2 Girls Teach Sex (technique being taught by actual pornstars) for free. I can give you some pc muscle exercises too. Talking only to OP. My advice to you is to fuck her as much as you can for now. Don't go hardcore on it (unless she asks), go easy. Havi…
/r/seduction30/10/17 09:59 PM
1

That's just bother line creepy dude. Talk to her next time you see her. Meanwhile, forget her.
/r/seduction30/10/17 09:47 PM
2

Nice guys are guys with NGS (Nice Guy Syndrome) which is when a person is nice in a manipulative manner to get something in return - in other words being nice for their own pleasure instead of being nice for the other person's pleasure. Yes and they do. Guys do it too. Everyone uses nice guys. NGS guys get bothered with it, actual nice guys don't mind (after all, that's why they like to be nice). When it's predictable.
/r/seduction30/10/17 09:43 PM
1

Why can't you talk with her in front of her friends?
/r/seduction30/10/17 09:38 PM
2

I say too much stupid shit + dark humor. So I just focus on pulling fast. If I need to stay for like 30 minutes with the girl for some reason, I'm done.
/r/seduction30/10/17 01:31 PM
2

I get rejected quite hard, but that's bc I'm an idiot, so fair enough.
/r/seduction30/10/17 01:17 PM
1

They'd go into each other, like Owen did to the owner of the club. That's why girls walk away sometimes when you're dealing with interlopers. It's like "Well, these are having fun together, peace out". I have a post on why looks matter. In theory, they do - however, when you apply it, they make no difference. You can succeed with looks or without them. Good looking guys don't have it easier, it's simply different. They get it harder in the beginning and easier in the end, ugly guys is the opposi…
/r/seduction30/10/17 12:15 PM
1

It's not a narrative, it's psychology. Looks don't matter. No dating company will contradict that, it's the truth.
/r/seduction30/10/17 09:17 AM
1

Not really. Not really. That's Tyler too btw, in both of them. Game (social skills) tops everything except good sex. Looks are nothing next to social skills and social skills are nothing next to sex. That's just human psychology. Attraction is proportional to emotions. Stronger emotions get stronger attraction. Hot girls get you horny, that's kinda good; if they make you chase and shit, you get crazy and fall in love; if they give you the best orgasm ever, you pretty much die and reborn as her n…
/r/seduction29/10/17 10:22 PM
1

Exceptional game in this case. Looks make up for game, not the other way around, bc game > looks.
/r/seduction29/10/17 07:09 PM
3

If you need a transaction, you're doing it wrong. There's no transaction. Adopt a flirtatious dominant vibe from the beginning. Square up, eye contact, statements of intent (not direct, use push pulls first), proximity, tonality, touch, etc. As soon as you say "Hi", they should be able to tell "Oh this dude is here to fuck". Making yourself horny helps too. Put yourself in the state you want the girl to be in. Look at her, "Damn, she's very attractive, I wanna do this and this to her, ...". The …
/r/seduction29/10/17 06:51 PM
1

Do you have problems escalating or transitioning to escalation?
/r/seduction29/10/17 06:45 PM
1

This is him pulling 5 "drunk mexican chicks".
/r/seduction29/10/17 04:17 PM
6

It's drunk chicks, classic. He literally is an icon in the industry and has been doing this for 15 years. You're saying he just pulls drunk chicks. Doesn't look like it. Looks are fucking stupid, they have no impact in game without the skills.
/r/seduction29/10/17 04:11 PM
2

This is him. Looks aren't holding him back, that's for sure.
/r/seduction29/10/17 03:56 PM
6

Wtf, what about this dude's looks?
/r/seduction29/10/17 01:11 PM
3

Irrelevant. Talk to people.
/r/seduction28/10/17 10:54 PM
1

So it's basically peacocking. I'm fine with it, just be aware that girls open you like crazy, but will not take you seriously and have sex. There's a reason for people keeping it to a minimum.
/r/seduction28/10/17 10:31 PM
1

Go out.
/r/seduction28/10/17 10:26 PM
3

Go out dude.
/r/seduction28/10/17 10:25 PM
1

There are better ways to go about it (push-pulls for example) but saying that is a statement of intent, sure. Proximity is like putting yourself in the middle and letting her meet you half way, not you being all over her and sexually assaulting her.
/r/seduction28/10/17 10:13 PM
2

You have low testosterone. Go to your family doctor and ask for a testosterone/hormone levels test. Don't tell him that you don't masturbate, just say that you want to know what your levels are out of curiosity or whatever. He'll probably give some dosages and your testosterone will be normal again. Just take that as motivation to fuck, don't masturbate, it'll just get worse.
/r/seduction28/10/17 10:12 PM
0

Who says you need questions? Just say some dumb shit, she says more dumbshit on top of that, and you keep alternating, going up on each other, moving from one place to another, and that's it.
/r/seduction28/10/17 07:31 PM
2

I literally don't have enough brain power to imagine the load of your first time. Anyway, just don't do it, it accomplishes nothing tbh. However, if you're not horny and have trouble getting erections, it might be low testosterone (or a deeper problem, but I don't have qualifications for that).
/r/seduction28/10/17 07:27 PM
2

More time is probably the best. It's supposed to be fun, if you can't have fun with it might as well not do it. You could go really hard on it, like literally hardcore shit that would get you sore in the morning, and it'd get you out of your head. I don't recommend it, but it's an option.
/r/seduction28/10/17 07:24 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/75c6ze/how_to_text/
/r/seduction28/10/17 07:18 PM
1

Square up, look her in the eyes, give off the vibe, statements of intent, proximity, tone of voice, touch, I don't know. There's not much to it. It's basically being horny.
/r/seduction28/10/17 07:14 PM
1

That's not crazy at all lol. Also, this is almost the current module of bootcamps (I made adjustments to be easier to follow, it's more compressed in bootcamps), including in RSD. So people saying it's bad have no clue. You go much harder and crazier than this in a bootcamp. If you go to a loud club or something, even more crazy and hard. This is pretty boring actually, it's like a pussy version of a night out with an instructor.
/r/seduction28/10/17 10:45 AM
1

It's not specifically made for Halloween, it's just like any random night.
/r/seduction28/10/17 10:28 AM
1

Shit. Todd's Daygame is better.
/r/seduction28/10/17 09:33 AM
1

I don't know, you have a "date", what do you think?
/r/seduction28/10/17 09:32 AM
1

I addressed that in the end. Back in the days, it was all about outer game. Today, is all about being natural, inner game. You need both. Your success will be limited with just one. Can you still get laid? You can get laid without knowing any of this shit, your dad did it. If you want to get your chances higher, might as well go all the way. I made sure to put plenty of inner game there, somehow people decide to focus on the outer part.
/r/seduction28/10/17 09:27 AM
1

Not needed.
/r/seduction28/10/17 08:58 AM
1

If that's what you think, fine. I tell you straight up dude, you're a 6. Not a confident alpha male or whatever, it's just a fucking 6. If you don't want to accept that and keep stocking your ego, that's your choice.
/r/seduction28/10/17 08:53 AM
4

Just trying to help with something people can use to get results consistently. If you have something more consistent than this, by all means share it. Being "natural" and shit is cool, but doesn't give you the best chances.
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:53 AM
2

Winking might be good if you catch her looking. Making eyes like this =.= too. Showing your nipple is awesome btw, that's my "go to" thing. Sending a kiss. Whatever dude. Any shit that doesn't make you look like a fucking chode. Don't over think this, good enough is good enough. She likes you tho, so don't be all shy and backing off, go hard on it, both figuratively and literally.
/r/seduction27/10/17 11:26 PM
1

You document Evil Stifler's life, that's kinda creepy dude
/r/seduction27/10/17 10:54 PM
1

Then don't say "hey". Go out.
/r/seduction27/10/17 10:48 PM
1

I literally said to not text her that shit and you do it. If you have nothing to say to her, why the fuck are you texting her? Now come up with shit to say bc I ain't helping you.
/r/seduction27/10/17 06:47 PM
6

Dude, are you out of your fucking mind? Girls are the best wings ever. You can get any fucking girl with that group. You see a girl with like 1 billion guys around her making out and fucking her. All it takes is "I really like that girl. But those guys... they're all around her, touching her and being all weird..." "Yeah..." "Go over there and help me" "Okay!" and they're gonna attack like a pack of wolves. Dude, they're ruthless, they tell them to fuck off and call them chodes, the type of shit…
/r/seduction27/10/17 06:43 PM
-2

It's not gone, it's starting.
/r/seduction27/10/17 05:37 PM
3

Don't make her chase too much, that's what happens. You don't have to be in a relationship with her. You like her, she likes you. Just go with the flow, you do all the things you want to do with her, she does all the things she wants to do with you, and that's it. If there are feelings involved, follow the feelings. This doesn't have to be complicated, so don't make it.
/r/seduction27/10/17 05:35 PM
1

Dude...
/r/seduction27/10/17 04:33 PM
1

Look at the part of closing on the guide. See what she wants first, then give her what she wants. Figure out her schedule frst, something she likes to ear/drink, then go for it.
/r/seduction27/10/17 12:39 PM
1

Ok, more dates. Be her fuck buddy. Go straight to closing.
/r/seduction27/10/17 12:29 PM
1

Yep. Don't put pressure, don't push for "something serious", just keep it flowing. Be careful tho, don't be her texting buddy, go on a date. I have a texting guide, use it if you want to. It's the fastest way to see if she's gf material.
/r/seduction27/10/17 12:17 PM
1

Boring af. It's what every chode does. Implies lack of confidence. Implies that she doesn't remember you. Etc etc.
/r/seduction27/10/17 06:53 AM
0

You don't want to be perceived in a negative way, so just say that you're the person that you don't want to be perceived as and people will not perceive you that way. This is just psychology. If you have better advice go ahead.
/r/seduction27/10/17 06:49 AM
2

Idk, depends from your last message. It can be her opening or just replying out of good manners. I'd just ignore, if she wants to talk then she needs to step her game up.
/r/seduction26/10/17 11:57 PM
1

So? You keep pushing it too much. If you want something meaningful, she's probably not for you.
/r/seduction26/10/17 11:16 PM
2

Girls have no game. Literally. They had guys hitting them up all their life, they can't game anyone. So they go like "Hm... what's a good message... I want a funny opener... I know, I'm gonna send ;)!". That's just her opening.
/r/seduction26/10/17 11:10 PM
2

I wouldn't do it. "Gaming" or whatever in high school is kinda hard, because you need up be careful with your reputation. If you talk with the wrong girl, other dudes are gonna get mad, I learned that the hard way lol. If you want to try it out, sure go for it. I'd do it in other schools, not my own school tho. Try something Danny Duncan. Remember, good game is like good plastic surgery - you can't tell.
/r/seduction26/10/17 10:54 PM
1

Shittests are a personality trait, women are gonna shittest even in fucking smoke signals. That's not a shittest tho.
/r/seduction26/10/17 10:44 PM
1

Depends. If it's like "I work in robotic manufacturing, look at me I'm so cool", all qualifying and shit, it's bad. If it's like "What do you do?" "I work at McDonald's and leave in my mom's basement" "Haha but seriously what do you do?" "I work in robotic manufacturing", it's good.
/r/seduction26/10/17 10:39 PM
4

Dude wtf
/r/seduction26/10/17 10:36 PM
1

No, that'd be bad for several reasons. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/75c6ze/how_to_text/
/r/seduction26/10/17 10:26 PM
1

Dude, she gave you her number. You're overthinking this shit.
/r/seduction26/10/17 07:27 PM
1

She can fuck any dude she wants. She has several guys hitting her up, you're just one of them. All of them, including you, just wanna skip to sex asap. Meanwhile, she doesn't give a fuck about sex, bc she can have it everytime she wants. She cares about what leads to sex, the emotions, the challenges, etc. It's like a movie. She wants to see the story of the movie to get the full experience of the ending. She could skip to the end, but that's pointless - what makes the ending good is what leads …
/r/seduction26/10/17 07:12 PM
1

She's not you've gf dude, she's just a random girl that you know, so chill. Talking to other girls will help a lot. The fastest and best way to get the girl of your dreams is to fuck as many women as you can.
/r/seduction26/10/17 02:18 PM
1

No, that's too much. You're still in the beginning.
/r/seduction26/10/17 11:28 AM
–

Say "I'm too shallow and racist and I sleep with indian guys just for their money and engineering degree". Just like guys with small dicks don't say they have small dicks, shallow racist golddiggers don't say they're shallow racist golddiggers.
/r/seduction26/10/17 10:14 AM
7

Dude. Go to her mom? Jesus fucking Christ.
/r/seduction26/10/17 08:13 AM
3

Pretty much everything
/r/seduction26/10/17 08:11 AM
1

Didn't said it's personal, just said he needs to step his game up bc she might be seeing another dude.
/r/seduction26/10/17 08:05 AM
1

I don't think it even started. She's seeing another dude or is low self-esteem. Happened to me as well like 3 years ago, she even told me she liked me (and she did), but then I went on vacation, when I came back she went cold and was seeing another guy and told me she was in her grandma's house when I knew pretty fucking well she was with the other guy. Then I knew the other guy was a friend of mine. I didn't really cared, because I didn't like her and bros before hoes, just telling you this to …
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:41 PM
1

Alright, I don't know the chick, so this will be pure speculation. If she's low self esteem, you'll see this. She will go cold whenever you show you like her, she'll like you whenever you go cold. It's the opposite. In this case you need to go cold, obviously. She might be seeing another guy. So she might be focusing on him and going cold on you. In this case you just need to eclipse the fucking chode with game, simply be better than him. She might not like to text or be busy. So call her instea…
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:20 PM
4

"Alright, nice to meet you, have a good night", "Sorry, gotta go to the bathroom", etc.
/r/seduction25/10/17 08:28 PM
2

So what? You still can't fuck them all.
/r/seduction25/10/17 07:31 PM
1

What happens when YOU ignore HER?
/r/seduction25/10/17 07:30 PM
0

I like action takers. Pm me, I'll send you The Natural for free. Talking to OP only.
/r/seduction25/10/17 06:21 PM
1

It works, everyone does that shit.
/r/seduction25/10/17 06:19 PM
1

I guess she's very extroverted and flirty or whatever and it gives the impression she likes you when she actually doesn't. She might be low self esteem as well, you never mentioned how she reacted when you ignored her or didn't gave her validation when she needed, so I might be wrong. It really looks like low self esteem tho, the more you show you like her the more she ignores.
/r/seduction25/10/17 06:19 PM
7

Don't be weird means be socially savy, understand the context of the situation and know how to make things flow for you and for the other person. Put this in your head. NEVER ask girls for advice on how to pick up girls. Not sure if you're aware of this, but your friends don't pick up girls. So why the fuck are you asking them? Just because they're girls, doesn't mean they know what they want. If I ask you what an ugly fattie can do to pick you up, you don't know. Oh look at that, you don't know…
/r/seduction25/10/17 04:38 PM
1

Ok I guess. Don't say that shit tho, unless you actually can do it, don't say you're gonna fuck her friends, it's quite the red flag.
/r/seduction25/10/17 03:01 PM
8

Approach with no balls then.
/r/seduction25/10/17 02:45 PM
1

Go to CA. A girl is a girl, doesn't matter if she's in Miami or not. You were a chode before, now you're not (I assume). You didn't succeed because of the location, you succeeded despite of it.
/r/seduction25/10/17 02:44 PM
5

So you started behaving more like a man and not a friend. Later you'll realize it's not about touching her, it's about being man to woman. You can do it without touching. However, touching her is part of it, as well as eye contact, your tone of voice, being in front and kinda close to her, ...
/r/seduction25/10/17 02:42 PM
21

Just a fucking weird name they use to "touch". "Initiating kino" or whatever is like touching the chick. Don't know why they use these words.
/r/seduction25/10/17 02:39 PM
2

If you're afraid to do daygame, do daygame.
/r/seduction25/10/17 02:37 PM
1

Why are you even saying that? What's the point?
/r/seduction25/10/17 02:31 PM
1

Dude...
/r/seduction25/10/17 02:29 PM
1

What did you tell her?
/r/seduction25/10/17 11:02 AM
1

Ask her next time. If you don't ask, she's not gonna go.
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:34 AM
3

Get fwbs yourself
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:30 AM
1

Eat gum next to her, "Do you want one?" "No" "It's okay", grab her hand and give it to her.
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:26 AM
1

Be the guy her parents want her to marry to or enjoy while you can or just keep fucking after she's married or she tells her dad to fuck off and keeps single. I don't see any more options.
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:23 AM
1

Be her friend and let her introduce you to her girl friends. More girls for you. Ignoring her for friendzoning you is stupid, you just look like a butthurt pussy.
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:19 AM
1

Ask her when she's free?
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:13 AM
2

Talk to 3 strangers. Approach anxiety should be gone. Then maintain momentum and you're good to go.
/r/seduction25/10/17 09:39 AM
3

Dude, you're over thinking
/r/seduction24/10/17 11:47 AM
1

If I was you, I'd make things clear as soon as possible, ideally right after sex/whatever (she'll be more agreeable). "I like you, but my sister is mad and I don't want a relationship atm, so I hope we can still have fun with each other" (positive negative positive, sandwich method).
/r/seduction24/10/17 10:24 AM
1

Wow, 8 in 67. I'm in Portugal btw. I'm young, so I probably get trolls a lot more than an older guy.
/r/seduction24/10/17 10:11 AM
1

You'll probably get some shittests and will have to talk to her, but I don't know if she's ashamed of being caught by your sister.
/r/seduction23/10/17 10:11 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/78b4bu/how_to_deal_with_lmr/
/r/seduction23/10/17 09:53 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/75c6ze/how_to_text/ What about this one?
/r/seduction23/10/17 08:52 PM
1

Sure, as long as you practice it. In pickup, learning too much is super bad, you'll become a "theory nerd" and you'll not take action. You can't predict the future right now. What I advise you to do is to go forward, not have a plan, do your best, fail, get back from failling, not judge yourself, get outside feedback, hold yourself to a standard of accountability, not making excuses, repeat. You did exactly that here without noticing, and low and fucking behold... it actually worked.
/r/seduction23/10/17 08:38 PM
1

Np, have fun
/r/seduction23/10/17 08:33 PM
1

Yeah, I guess that would be better. Tell her after you come back if she complains.
/r/seduction23/10/17 08:32 PM
2

Last Minute Resistance, which is what you're getting. It's lack of trust.
/r/seduction23/10/17 04:22 PM
1

Whatever floats your boat. I'm just talking about me, we're different so our "style" is different.
/r/seduction23/10/17 04:21 PM
1

Cool dude, if you think that I'm fine with it. Have a good one.
/r/seduction23/10/17 04:19 PM
3

"I'm going on vacation, will not have a lot of time to talk to you". Then just send her updates, like pictures you take to the buildings and shit. Done. (Also, I read the other comments, learn how to deal with LMR, looks like you need it).
/r/seduction23/10/17 04:14 PM
1

Dude, you're overthinking this. Arouse yourself first and she'll get aroused. Law of State Transference.
/r/seduction23/10/17 04:09 PM
1

Fake it til you make it works, that's why people use it. "State" works, it's true, but there's no difference between being all happy and shit and being authentic imo. If I'm buying food and I look to someone, I'm not gonna smile. It's just a person wtf, it's not a clown, I'm not that happy to see them. I'll smirk at most.
/r/seduction23/10/17 03:37 PM
1

I know, it's just that easy.
/r/seduction23/10/17 03:25 PM
3

Go on r/RoastMe
/r/seduction23/10/17 03:20 PM
1

This is totally legit. Everytime you ask if they're a fatty, they send you pics of their ass. It's just that easy baby!
/r/seduction23/10/17 03:16 PM
0

I'm just not like that. I don't even smile, for me it's like "Oh look at me, I'm so happy and positive that I just want to smile". C'mon dude, I don't need to be smiling to let others know, I'm just happy. It's like when people talk to animals/children in an immature voice. It's fucking annoying, can't they just react normally?
/r/seduction23/10/17 03:09 PM
1

You don't HAVE to, look away if you want. But think about it. You want to fuck her and you're afraid she notices you looking at her?
/r/seduction23/10/17 02:58 PM
1

I recommend you to actually arouse yourself before approaching, like look at her body and shit.
/r/seduction23/10/17 02:49 PM
1

Exactly. If you get in a shower and decrease the temperature of the water little by little, you'll be in cold water and it's fine. If you jump into a cold shower, you see your life passing in front of your eyes and you became a female.
/r/seduction23/10/17 12:36 PM
2

It starts from the beginning. Adopt a flirtatious dominant vibe. Square up, look her in the eyes, statements of intent, touch her, be close to her. Don't be a clown or her best friend, if you want to fuck her, act as if. Don't you like to touch her? Don't you like to look her in the eyes and be close to her? Don't you look at her and think "Damn, she's attractive, I wanna fuck her"? Ok so do it. This alone will not get her (sometimes it will), you need some leading too. But start with this, you …
/r/seduction23/10/17 12:30 PM
1

It's true tho lol, be smoother. Before the mouth, the neck/cheek, try it out. It's not a light switch, it's a volume knob.
/r/seduction23/10/17 12:24 PM
2

That's normal, everyone gets that. It's going well, then it sucks for weeks, then it's going well again. It usually mean you're getting more advanced. Keep hammering on the mistakes and learn from it, it'll be like a new power unleashed. This is true for game and life is general, when something goes really well it means something will go badly after, and when something is going really badly it means something will go well after. Just keep going, expect to get that for a month or so and you'll ge…
/r/seduction23/10/17 12:22 PM
2

More comfort. They need to be attracted and trust you to fuck you. If you have attraction, you're lacking trust.
/r/seduction23/10/17 12:15 PM
1

Add her on social media and be active af, message her once in a while. There's no way she's gonna be your fwb 400 miles away tho.
/r/seduction23/10/17 12:01 PM
1

I prefer daddy, but old man is fine.
/r/seduction23/10/17 11:57 AM
1

Dude, you look the same. Just don't use those photos. Learn photography first, 2h on Google and on Photoshop should give you decent results. Let me know if you need my help.
/r/seduction23/10/17 11:49 AM
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Have you seen girls on Tinder? They get 15 matches per minute, it's ridiculous. They get messages all the time. Some of them are there just to see who's using the app and to swipe people, they don't message. My girl friends go there to troll and fuck around, they ignore all guys. If you think they're gonna message you first, you're out of your mind son.
/r/seduction23/10/17 11:47 AM
1

I'm blown away by the quality of the photos.
/r/seduction23/10/17 11:38 AM
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I feel like a smirk or a shy smile or whatever is more genuine than a big smile. No one walks around with a giant smile on their face unless they're on drugs. You're not that happy inside.
/r/seduction23/10/17 11:28 AM
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Dude, to get a certain girl, you need to know how to get girls in general. You're still inexperienced, there's no way for me to give you something to do that will work, you're purely hanging on luck and persistence. My advice to you is to go in, chat a bit, "I thought you were this and that before talking to you but turns out you're actually cool, let's exchange numbers to maybe grab a bite sometime". She gives you the number (or not), you go on a date and you roll from there.
/r/seduction23/10/17 08:59 AM
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There are literally 1000s of cases that disprove you. Both for the instructors and the comedians/whatever. You're being too narrow minded and definitely not acknowledging the possibilities, there's room for growth in there. Understandable tho, it's difficult to understand something that you always had/never tried. This is going nowhere, so I'll not reply. Nothing personal, I just think both of us have better things to do with our time. Have a good one.
/r/seduction23/10/17 07:10 AM
1

Not good, drunk guy hitting her up at the end of the night, typical. Fuck it, go anyway. If you're the only guy talking to her when she's living, guess who's gonna fuck her.
/r/seduction22/10/17 08:47 PM
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If I was you, I'd tell him straight up that he's creeping people out with that shit and that he needs to stop trying so much to get other's attention if he wants people to actually like him. Not in a "you're a piece of shit" kinda way, in a "step your game up" kinda way. But I'm just a dude on Reddit, you do whatever you want.
/r/seduction22/10/17 08:38 PM
5

She's alone in the bar. At the end of the night. Drinking. Drop to your knees and thank God, she's there to get laid son.
/r/seduction22/10/17 08:27 PM
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Don't know why my posts are getting removed. Will repost soon.
/r/seduction22/10/17 08:09 PM
4

Yep. This is talking to girls ffs, this isn't rocket science.
/r/seduction22/10/17 06:52 PM
1

What boundaries lol? You're not her property, you can do what you want. You like the co-worker, the co-worker likes you, she has nothing to do with it. Just don't push things with the co-worker too much. She probably feels shame, it's as if she had "slut" written on her forehead. You can still have fun with her obviously, but just be aware of that. Do it more privately now and don't tell anyone about it ffs. If you isolate her, I guarantee you she's gonna be wild dude. Learn how to deal with LMR…
/r/seduction22/10/17 06:00 PM
1

See? This shit isn't that hard. Possibly, but you're gonna need to back track it super hard. Is your sister mad about you two hooking up or is she mad about you lying?
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:20 PM
4

Yes, you can enter any class any time you want, no one knows who you are. You can even eat there, make friends with the other guys and go to the parties, even private ones. A lot of people do that, I used to attend college classes with my friends and I wasn't even 18.
/r/seduction22/10/17 04:12 PM
3

Don't try, be yourself. Like I said, approach 3 girls before, 1min or so with each girl, you should get a lot looser.
/r/seduction22/10/17 01:40 PM
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Tip: talk with 3 random girls before going to her house (just say some shit, can be a comment on her jacket or something in the environment, doesn't matter), you'll feel the improvement. Don't try to make a move in the middle of the movie. Do it right in the beginning, start things right away. Sit next to her and shit, it's cool. She invited you to her house, it's pretty clear what she wants. As long as you don't say too much stupid shit and don't rape her, you're good to go. Doesn't need to be …
/r/seduction22/10/17 01:29 PM
3

Adopt a flirtatious dominant vibe from the beginning. Don't be afraid of touching her (but don't rape her either). It's not a transition, it's always there.
/r/seduction22/10/17 01:06 PM
3

Yes, because she told you she likes and now you want to be all intense and shit, going into a relationship. Chill dude.
/r/seduction22/10/17 01:04 PM
1

Being hot doesn't fucking matter dude, you already noticed that. You're running out of things to say, do this. What matters is the personality behind your words. If you see instructors' infields, they talk about very mundane things, yet it's somehow compelling. Why? Vibe. She doesn't laugh bc of your jokes, she laughs bc of the flirtatious dominant vibe she's getting, laughter is a release. Also, you'll not have chemistry with everyone, that's fine. Don't view it as a failure/rejection, view it …
/r/seduction22/10/17 12:50 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/73humb/how_to_text/ Read the closing part.
/r/seduction22/10/17 10:32 AM
3

Why can't you just have fun with her without being in a relationship?
/r/seduction22/10/17 10:29 AM
1

She's making you chase lol. She makes you go really close and then takes it away. That chick has good game, I already like her. Just go with the flow dude. Next time you're together, make her chase. Kiss her neck and shit, touch her everywhere, when she tries to kiss you pull away and tell her to say "please", she's not gonna say it, you keep kissing her except in the mouth. When she says "please", you say that you're not feeling like it and go away. You're supposed to have fun with this shit, t…
/r/seduction22/10/17 10:21 AM
1

Don't drink. Fuck their number, go all the way.
/r/seduction22/10/17 09:43 AM
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You haven't even talk to them, don't worry about taking them out for now. Whenever you see the girl, go talk to her. There's not much to say. Go up, square up, look her in the eyes, "I don't think we've met yet", don't creep her out and you're good to go.
/r/seduction22/10/17 08:41 AM
7

You can enter in the campus and go to the classes for free. College parties aren't restricted to students either, so you can buy tickets.
/r/seduction22/10/17 08:37 AM
1

I can prove the ones I'm claiming to be fake, because I know who his ex gf is. The others are real. They record mostly in LA, NY, Vegas and Hawaii, also in Kiev and other northern/east Europe major cities, you can find them there. Infields are recorded for programs as examples to back up theory, so the vast majority isn't used. Certain situations are difficult to get even when you push for it, so time restrictions don't allow them to get those situations recorded, so they fake it. Doesn't mean t…
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:34 PM
2

Don't rush things, it'll back fire. Talk with her for the sake of talking, but still adopt a flirtatious vibe, don't make it boring. You don't have to be crazy out there, but once in a while do some spikes, both positive ("I love you", for example) and negative ("I hate you", for example).
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:20 PM
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If you make it awkward, it'll be awkward. She knows what you want dude, she's not stupid. You're not gonna catch her by surprise, "Wait a minute... he doesn't want to be my gay friend to go shopping with... he has a dick and wants to fuck me!". She wants it dude, otherwise wouldn't be talking to you.
/r/seduction21/10/17 08:36 PM
1

You didn't screw it up. The paper worked out, that's what matters. The ran away thing was a shit test, you failed btw, but you can't change it now so fuck it, at least learn from it. She flaked on you and went to the party. "Never heard back from you last time", then do this.
/r/seduction21/10/17 08:33 PM
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It'll work out. That's how it worked out millions of times. Don't speculate aout it, do it. If she ends up pushing you, it's a random chick, you'll not see her again in your life, that's for god damn sure.
/r/seduction21/10/17 08:26 PM
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Dude, he's giving you advice. Go for it. Once you see the Bambi eyes (she's holding eye contact, eyes are "glowing" and open, like Bambi) go for it. That's it.
/r/seduction21/10/17 08:24 PM
1

Yeah dude, not good. Not the part with the girl, the part with your sister. Looks like you'll have to start disrespecting your sister more, it's fucking you up. Next time don't smoke weed, just talk with the girl and say last time it was weird, because you were kinda high, so you remember her being there but nothing else. Done.
/r/seduction21/10/17 08:22 PM
2

So you feel you're not good enough. Everyone was a child once. Including those hot girls. Once you meet them and they feel more comfortable, you'll see that they're just random fucking girls, like the child they used to be. There's no other way to show it to your brain than to put yourself through it, so go talk to hot girls. Not to "pick them up", just to talk. Probably better to do this during the day. You can actually say "Hey, how are you? You're probably wondering why I'm talking to you. No…
/r/seduction21/10/17 08:12 PM
2

It's easy to change your brain. Your identity doesn't exist, you're the result of the experiences you went through. So take a comedy/improv workshop and you're funny. There are rules (Rule of 3s, Ks & Gs, fractionation, etc) and exercises ("Having sex with me is like...", "Yes and...", etc) that you can learn/do. The human mind can be changed easily in 6 months, anyone that spends time on it knows how it works. RSD fakes infields, but how many tho? Tyler probably faked 3 or 4 infields in 15 year…
/r/seduction21/10/17 07:16 PM
1

Not true. None of us started like this. Take humor classes and be funny. Do meditation and be less reactive. Get more life experiences and be more charismatic. Authenticity is important too, it's not changing yourself, it's improving yourself. Owen Cook, founder of RSD (biggest dating and self development company in the world), arguably has the best game ever. Started very poor and with autism, couldn't even recognize facial expressions. He's a fat short bald 40yo ginger, pulls more than you. If…
/r/seduction21/10/17 03:50 PM
1

Some can, because they have a "good engine" to make up for it. Take care of yourself, but don't make it your "engine".
/r/seduction21/10/17 03:31 PM
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No. You don't need openers. Everything you're doing comes from a place of "I don't know what else to do". That's the problem. Everyone is bored, give them something different to talk about and make it easy for them to suck your dick without feeling guilty about it. This is Jeffy.
/r/seduction21/10/17 03:26 PM
10

Escorts aren't that bad. You helped her out, she helped you out. They're people too you know... might as well have fun with them, in and out of the bedroom.
/r/seduction21/10/17 02:01 PM
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"I think you're cute" won't work. Especially if you're drunk and desperate. That's what every fucking chode says. If a drunk fattie approached you and said "I think you're cute", you probably wouldn't feel the same about her.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:58 PM
1

Sounds good. So what help do you need exactly?
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:53 PM
2

If it works with you, do it. You proved my point tho, they get attracted by your social skills, your looks don't change nothing. However, if you go out, you notice that what works with one girl works with lots of girls. Through lots of tests, the community found a model (the fundamentals) that works almost every time. Of course, there are exceptions, but I think people should play for the rule not the exception of the rule, and furthermore learn when the rule needs to be broken.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:35 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/75c6ze/how_to_text/ No small talk. Just close. She likes you, you can send her some shit and then go straight to closing. Calling her will not be so good in this situation, because she's not in the crazy flashy environment of the party, she's probably studying or some shit, the emotions will not be the same.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:25 PM
1

Yep
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:20 PM
1

Anything will work. Even noises, you don't need to use a language. The point is to get them listening to you. However, here's some of my favorites (please don't steal them, just get an idea on how retarded it can be): "One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life. That word is love." "Take your passion. Make it happen. Pictures come alive. You can dance right through your life. What a feeling." "Meeting me may not change the world, but for you... the world will change." Everyone is bored…
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:38 AM
3

"I like it" kiss again
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:22 AM
1

I don't even get your question dude.
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:18 AM
1

JUST CLOSE. ABC, always be closing. Quit fucking around, close! https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/75c6ze/how_to_text/
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:17 AM
2

Problems opening. Go out. Practice. Use canned stuff if you need to.
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:14 AM
2

Need more details. Do you have anything planned?
/r/seduction21/10/17 10:11 AM
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Congratulations, you now know what approach anxiety is. If you assume a good response, you'll get a good response. Also, it's not what you say, it's how you say it. If you say "I'm chinese" in a weird shy way, they'll be weirded out. If you say "I'm chinese" as joke with confidence and expect them to respond, they'll find it funny and respond. I know you were expecting a line, and here's my line for you: "hi".
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:43 AM
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"I like you, but right now I don't want to get into a serious relationship. You're a cool girl, I wanna have fun with you, but that's it." Done.
/r/seduction20/10/17 11:28 PM
3

If you want to fuck her, just keep ignoring. Don't give her validation. Low self-esteem people want your validation and will do everything to get it, even sex. Just don't "use her". She's not doing it on purpose, if you were low self-esteem yourself you wouldn't like people using it against you. Bring her to you and help her get into abundance.
/r/seduction20/10/17 11:24 PM
3

Not escalating, being too friendly.
/r/seduction20/10/17 05:34 AM
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She's either a low self esteem girl or you're taking too long. If you want to practice, push on it. If you couldn't care less, just leave her alone (she'll come back to you if she's low self-esteem). Just be aware that it's gonna be harder to get her than to get a new girl.
/r/seduction19/10/17 10:56 PM
1

There are tutorials for newbies here too...
/r/seduction19/10/17 10:53 PM
1

Embrace it. If you're worrying about it, others worry about it. If you just behave like a fucking 6'4 220lbs, people will not perceive you as that guy, but they'll react as if you were. People are incredibly submissive, you can pretty much do whatever you want with them, physically and psychologically. Just as a test, go to a street, put yourself in front of a person and don't let her pass. If she tries to go around you, block her. If she talks to you, keep looking at her and ignore. Count how m…
/r/seduction19/10/17 12:29 PM
1

When you get criticism, you get the urge to protect yourself. Fight that urge. Everyone can see why you can't pull, accept it as being true and work on it. That's why you're asking for our help, I assume. You're getting defensive, explaining yourself, your ego got hit. That means it's true.
/r/seduction19/10/17 12:15 PM
1

Sure. I posted a texting guide in the sub, use it if you want to.
/r/seduction19/10/17 10:03 AM
1

Holy shit, your wife is ruthless. Have a good one.
/r/seduction19/10/17 06:09 AM
2

Irrelevant. Most people good at "game" or whatever are in their 40s/late 30s. You're in your prime. She's horny, you're horny, confidence on top, physical strenght/stamina on top (if you do gym/sport and practice it), lots of experience, stable life and relationship. You're better than any 20yo couple. Also, we don't drink, it's bad for our body/mind and we test our skill and learn better being sober. It doesn't limit you at all, it puts you above any fucking 20yo kid like me lol. I don't have a…
/r/seduction18/10/17 09:54 PM
1

Depends. Do you usually go out?
/r/seduction18/10/17 09:03 PM
1

Alright, I don't like to do this, because newbies usually get too much into theory and shit, but I'll open an exception. Just don't get too much into this shit, most of this flows naturally, don't worry about it. https://mega(dot)nz/#!8bo1WApL!QRygQIwtrpi91cqKD2OY9yEy98lLLiZyMWOVu4Y3BhI This is a mega link. Install Mega Sync (I recommend on your phone), create an account and import it. Substitute (dot) for . and search it on Chrome (choose "Open with Mega" if you're on your phone). As far as I k…
/r/seduction18/10/17 08:41 PM
1

So you want to deal with LMR. First, take the pressure of yourself. You have plenty of time to escalate, don't rush. If she feels uncomfortable, do these by order. If one doesn't work, go to the next. Make her chase "You're cool but...". This is what makes her chase and start qualifying (i.e. "You're cool, but don't know if you're cool enough" playful tone, not serious). Say it and change the topic, leave it open. She'll feel like she deserved and worked on it, instead of you always pushing it f…
/r/seduction18/10/17 08:21 PM
1

It depends greatly on your posture (Alexander Technique), it'll be harder to practice on your car. Pm me, I give you access to professional training. Talking to OP only.
/r/seduction18/10/17 06:42 PM
1

Looks like you're deep in this fucking "I'm a pua, I know all these tricks", with negs and shit. You're not a pimp dude.
/r/seduction18/10/17 06:40 PM
2

This.
/r/seduction18/10/17 06:36 PM
3

That's true. But I get it really fast. It's probably just attraction, not real love, idk. I just repeatdly brainwash myself to think that I already like another girl. It works, and that's all I care about.
/r/seduction18/10/17 11:44 AM
2

Shit test. In social situations, there are 2 variables: you and her. Take that into account. Look at the other person, look at the context, look at their state and put yourself in their shoes. Going up "Hey, you're beautiful, I wanna get your number" isn't gonna work, that's what every fucking chode does. No girl with a boyfriend tells you right away that they have it, you're being too intense. Tone it down, she doesn't know you. It's good that you're pushing it, but you need to be smoother. Not…
/r/seduction18/10/17 08:35 AM
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I get feelings pretty easily. Like really fast, a minute or so sometimes. So I simply let myself fall in love really hard for a girl that I know I'll never see, like some chick online that I talk to or something. Works well, because now "I have someone that I like, I can't fall for no one else".
/r/seduction17/10/17 11:38 PM
1

Oh she's a gold digger. I'm cool with it. Either that or show the message to the guy, I wouldn't like it if it was with me. If he's cool with it, than it's all good, maybe you can do some threesomes with them. Bros before hoes dude, bros before hoes.
/r/seduction17/10/17 11:34 PM
1

"Act like a black guy and open the present!"
/r/seduction17/10/17 09:39 PM
2

You never got blown out, it never started in the first place. You're coming off too strong and you can't pass shit tests. You're not understanding the context, probably giving fucking weird vibes, being too direct and being creepy. Work on those.
/r/seduction17/10/17 07:37 PM
1

Why are you getting butthurt ffs.
/r/seduction17/10/17 07:32 PM
1

You could push it to fuck her in the bathroom, but it's so risky it's not even worth it. I'd go for the number too, a kiss at most. It's better to go slow than to do flashy shit. Try to be smoother, don't let the conversation die. Use chain of associations. Silences are ok, but do something while you're quite. You'll not know what to say, you'll have food on your mouth or you'll be checking something "really important" on your phone. Other than that, pretty good. Follow up on the number, she see…
/r/seduction17/10/17 07:25 PM
1

You'd have to be 20 to be considered pedophilia
/r/seduction17/10/17 12:02 PM
1

You gotta actually pm me tho, not reply to my comment. I'll not share it here.
/r/seduction17/10/17 12:04 AM
1

I guess
/r/seduction16/10/17 11:30 PM
1

College isn't the best time to make friends, party and get girls, that's for god damn sure. I have a couple things that will help you. Pm me.
/r/seduction16/10/17 10:14 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/75c6ze/how_to_text/
/r/seduction16/10/17 09:58 PM
4

"There'll be X event/party/whatever. Me and my friends are gonna be there. You're cool, you should come". This isn't a trick, it's not like "Yeah, they left early, now it's just you and me!", actually go there with your friends to have fun and she can come if she wants to.
/r/seduction16/10/17 09:51 PM
4

Fear of other's opinions. The best way to lose that is to sing loudly in a public transport with lots of people (train or bus). You're an action taker, I like action takers. Pm me and I'll give you Fearless by RSDMax for free (only to OP). Edit: And yes, you really made her day. No girl will feel angry for you approaching them, they'll always feel good and attractive, even when they have boyfriends
/r/seduction16/10/17 09:44 PM
1

You think you do. You're not noticing the ones that you're not noticing lol.
/r/seduction16/10/17 07:45 PM
3

Most people doing this shit are ugly. If they were waiting for a girl to look at their fucking pile of shit that they call face, they'd still be virgins. If you take lack of eye contact personally, just wait until they tell you to fuck off, you're gonna have a great time.
/r/seduction16/10/17 07:42 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/75c6ze/how_to_text/ In the opener, I recommend you call back humor or a picture with her (always take a pic with her, always), but any other "value giving" opener will do.
/r/seduction16/10/17 07:37 PM
1

Didn't know Evil Stifler had a blog
/r/seduction16/10/17 07:31 PM
2

No, don't change anything, whatever you're doing it's working. Just forget that this thread never happened.
/r/seduction16/10/17 12:53 PM
2

Then isolate, escalate, pull for fun times. Just be aware that she might juat have a flirty personally. But it's not unusual to see girls with boyfriends with other guys.
/r/seduction16/10/17 12:20 PM
4

I know, I don't care. I literally don't give a fuck, it's as if she was single. If she doesn't tell anyone about it, I don't tell either.
/r/seduction15/10/17 09:32 PM
4

I literally don't care if they have a boyfriend, I always act as if they're single. If she's gonna cheat, I let her cheat. If she doesn't tell anyone about it, I don't tell anyone about it. But that's me, if it bothers you then don't do it.
/r/seduction15/10/17 09:24 PM
1

As far as I know, he doesn't have anything special. He's intelligent, because he studies. He's Jesus Christ or some shit, he isn't son of God, he simply wants something and he goes all out to have it.
/r/seduction15/10/17 09:22 PM
1

Hardcases have autism (can't understand social cues) or depression or dellusions or etc (or a combination of those). You seem like a pretty normal guy. Owen Cook (aka Tyler Durden aka RSDTyler) had a bad childhood. Autistic, poor, didn't have friends and people made fun of him. Today, he's the founder of Real Social Dynamics, the leading dating/seltdevelopment company in the world and probably has the best game ever. If he can, you can. The difference between you and him is that he actually want…
/r/seduction15/10/17 08:57 PM
3

No, you should slap her in the ass, figuratively and literally. The window of opportunity is gonna pass, she won't like you forever.
/r/seduction15/10/17 08:26 PM
1

Should you make an effort to get laid and get laid after some months or should you work on your life while jerking off in the shower? You choose. You're not an hardcase btw.
/r/seduction15/10/17 08:25 PM
8

"Trying to be cool", common issue. If you're trying, you're not actually being cool. This is how I approach every issue that I have - I do the exact opposite. If I'm trying to be cool, I'll be not cool on purpose until I fucking put the gas down and relax.
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:54 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/75c6ze/how_to_text/
/r/seduction15/10/17 06:40 PM
1

Take so much action that your "thinking" brain shuts off. Minimize time between interactions and approach all. This works pretty fast.
/r/seduction15/10/17 02:34 PM
1

It's not what you say, it's how you say it. You shouldn't say she's hot. That's what every single fucking chode does. She gets that shit all the time, she's tired of hearing it. However, when you're "in the zone", you can make stuff like that works. He succeeded not because of it, but despite of it.
/r/seduction15/10/17 02:26 PM
1

If she smokes, she pokes
/r/seduction15/10/17 02:22 PM
0

Not related to this sub. However, you can punch yourself everytime you put a joint in your mouth, your brain will associate it with pain and the addiction is over. It's the fastest way to lose a bad habit.
/r/seduction15/10/17 02:21 PM
1

Not sure if "pull" means from "hi" to sex or just leaving the club/whatever to your house.
/r/seduction15/10/17 09:26 AM
1

Fuck her. You don't tell anyone about it, she doesn't tell anyone about it.
/r/seduction15/10/17 09:22 AM
1

"You're cool Jess, I'd like to hang out with you sometime". Once you go out with her, it's pretty clear you're interested in her. She likes you dude, should be fairly easy.
/r/seduction15/10/17 09:21 AM
4

Better. Having girlfriends in the same school usually brings a lot of problems.
/r/seduction15/10/17 09:17 AM
1

Looks like he's the one chasing her, thinking about when to reply and shit.
/r/seduction15/10/17 12:34 AM
5

You should slap her ass too, if you know what I mean.
/r/seduction15/10/17 12:27 AM
7

That's social hook point. You're not a stranger anymore, you're a friend (at least), so she feels more comfortable talking to you. Next is sexual hook point, which you probably already got too. She (re)initiates the conversation and touches, smiles and holds eye contact a lot. You're not doing any "trick", she's simply attracted to you. Keep going, you're doing good.
/r/seduction14/10/17 11:38 PM
4

Dude... she likes you, why are you still trying to look cool to make her like you? Makes no fucking sense.
/r/seduction14/10/17 11:31 PM
12

Zero milliseconds.
/r/seduction14/10/17 11:27 PM
1

Join an inner circle
/r/seduction14/10/17 09:44 AM
20

Owen Cook, also known as Tyler Durden, was very poor and autistic. Couldn't understand social cues, at all. Today, he's one of the founders of Real Social Dynamics, the most successful dating and self development company in the world and history, having several best sellers in the market. He's an icon in the industry and most likely the best "mpua" in the world. Something being hard isn't an excuse to not do it, it simply means that you're gonna have to use all of your capacities to go through i…
/r/seduction14/10/17 09:10 AM
12

When people tell you that you're ugly and to fuck off, they're talking to themselves.
/r/seduction14/10/17 08:01 AM
10

What a pimp
/r/seduction13/10/17 10:05 PM
1

So? Ignore it, he ain't doing shit. If he's a problem, just eclipse him with superior game.
/r/seduction13/10/17 09:56 PM
1

I see where you're going with this. Just so you know, you have nothing in common with her, your past wasn't shitty and you're not cool, so don't try to be. She's not gonna suck your dick, because "you're such a cool guy!", not gonna happen dude. Alright, now the advice that every beginner needs to understand: in order to get a certain girl, you need to know how to get girls in general. Do you want that "amazingly hot girl"? Go fuck 10 other girls. Go out. Workout. Meditate. Read books. Take cold…
/r/seduction13/10/17 09:54 PM
1

A wing is supposed to help you. They probably don't know about this shit, probably never even were in your situation, they can't help you. Find someone who can. There are inner circle in every major city, join your inner circle and ask for a wing. By the way, don't get drinks anymore. It's fucking up your health/wallet and it's being an excuse to not approach. If you don't have a drink in you hand, you'll have nothing else to do but to take action.
/r/seduction13/10/17 07:22 PM
2

Depends. Are you gonna take action?
/r/seduction13/10/17 02:41 PM
2

Yes. Very good program. The best for beginners actually. Really really good.
/r/seduction13/10/17 12:38 PM
1

HiFirst, don't make a Reddit post about her. Second, it's too recent, you can't ignore her. Have fun. At first, you'll have to force it, going through the motions without being in the mood for it. After that, you'll start feeling it and you're gonna be out of your head.
/r/seduction13/10/17 12:33 PM
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You're slow. Too slow. How come you go to her house and you give her a fucking kiss? She goes on a date to fuck and you just fucking kiss and hold hands. C'mon dude, that's kindergarten shit. Fuck her on the first date.
/r/seduction13/10/17 06:33 AM
0

Depression (+ actual delusion where you see a lot of dark scary shit) isn't that bad, I got it and got over it without therapy. Honestly, just stop bitching and it goes away. You feel like shit probably because your life is shit. You're not doing what you wanna do. As far as "game" goes, pm me and I hook you up with professional help for free (only talking to OG). Just be aware that you're a hard case newbie, it'll be harder for you at first, but you'll go further (pendulum effect). Anyway, fuck…
/r/seduction12/10/17 05:02 PM
3

You got her in the van
/r/seduction12/10/17 06:33 AM
1

Hard to help through reddit, get a wing. Join an inner circle, plenty of wings there. Just don't come with that negative shit, otherwise they ignore you.
/r/seduction12/10/17 06:31 AM
1

You probably are hung up on it. I'd say after fucking her several times (not ONS). That's when you two are very close to each other. Also, saying shit like "This is gonna sound like him hung up on it, but I'm really not, I'm cool with it..." is probably a good idea. Of course, if she doesn't ask, don't tell her.
/r/seduction11/10/17 07:02 PM
1

She likes you, what's the problem?
/r/seduction11/10/17 10:04 AM
1

You don't pull because you're a pussy and can't make an effort, it has nothing to do with attractiveness, every fucking guy good at this shit started worse than you. Just being honest.
/r/seduction11/10/17 05:39 AM
1

No. You send a funny picture or something and you leave it. Next day, you send something else. Wait 2 days and send a joke. Obviously, after the 3rd or 4th time you stop. Don't get butthurt, just stop sendind stuff.
/r/seduction10/10/17 11:13 PM
1

Try it at least. But actually try it, don't half ass it. If it's not your thing, it's all good, at least you get some knowledge out of it. Not everyone needs to be good with girls. There are many areas to dedicate yourself to (business, healh, selfdevelopment, etc), girls just happen to be one of those.
/r/seduction10/10/17 11:11 PM
1

I have access to all RSD programs. But this is from my experience only, it does match with the majority of texting programs. Some information here isn't there. Todd and I are different, so texting style will be different as well.
/r/seduction10/10/17 11:07 PM
1

I included one. For what part?
/r/seduction10/10/17 06:28 PM
1

I want them to reply, I don't need them to reply. If they don't message me back, ain't I getting silence?
/r/seduction10/10/17 06:27 PM
4

Who asks to buy them drinks? Chodes. So no, it's not good. Correct me if I'm wrong, but you're suggesting that because you don't know what else to say. Everything that comes from "I don't know what else to say" is bad. They can feel it. What you say doesn't matter (to a certain extent), matters the place where it's coming from. You can say exactly the same things an instructor says, you won't get his result. My advice to you is to get rejected on purpose (eliminates fear if rejection) and say wh…
/r/seduction10/10/17 04:58 PM
1

Yep
/r/seduction10/10/17 04:47 PM
1

Positive texts: She likes you and it's showing it ("Haha you're funny"). Send her positive texts as well. Once you start getting these, start closing.
/r/seduction10/10/17 04:47 PM
0

I don't care if it's natural or not, being natural doesn't make it better, I care about results. I do what works. I say "value" to keep it short. A homeless guy is ignored because he's trying to take when he talks to you, a funny guy doesn't because he's making your day better - that's "value". It's not "try hard", it's how things work. If she texts 5+ guys (if she's hot probably 15+, already talked with a spanish girl with 42 messages to read) there's no way you're getting her attention without…
/r/seduction10/10/17 04:45 PM
-1

That's shit tests, they're good. https://youtu.be/MbZC1eFqFSw
/r/seduction10/10/17 12:41 PM
1

Like I said, the examples are rough. I kept them as basic as possible, just highlighting some key points of the interaction. Obviously fuck her if you can, but this is text game, so I just covered that. This is made taking volume into account. It takes ~10 messages to get a date, there's not much "fucking around" in it. From my experience, girls text 5+ guys at once. You need to stand out. Most of them ask the boring shit, I try to make things fun and flirtatious from the get go. Not crazy flirt…
/r/seduction10/10/17 12:19 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/75c6ze/how_to_text/
/r/seduction10/10/17 12:04 PM
4

Classic. For clubbing, you can just tell her to eat after or go watch "the best view of the city" with you or the classic afterparty. As you already noticed, you're not tricking her with it, it's just an excuse that both of you put up in case her friends ask her what you did. "We just went out to eat and it just happened".
/r/seduction10/10/17 10:10 AM
4

Don't tell her, show her. You don't need to say you don't want to be just friends, just show it. You don't need to mention your thoughts about the relationship at all.
/r/seduction10/10/17 10:03 AM
1

Yes. A photo would be good too.
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:17 AM
8

It's like you cross eyes and instead of a big smile you start smiling slowly or some shit, it's weird to explain this. A big smile is too much, no one is that happy inside lol. Just my opinion tho.
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:15 AM
1

Follow the guide, guarantee you it works.
/r/seduction09/10/17 11:47 PM
0

Read it again.
/r/seduction09/10/17 11:46 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/75c6ze/how_to_text/
/r/seduction09/10/17 09:14 PM
72

I feel like a smirk is more personal and authentic than a big smile.
/r/seduction09/10/17 08:20 PM
1

I'm gonna repost it.
/r/seduction09/10/17 04:06 PM
1

You're a low self-esteem person. You let others manage your emotions. So when someone doesn't like you, you chase to make them like you, when they like you, your "job" is done and you ignore. When they treat you well you treat them bad, when they treat you bad you treat them well. Sounds like there's some validation seeking. I might be wrong, kinda hard to judge someone's personality over Reddit, but I do what I can lol. Work on that and it should be fixed.
/r/seduction09/10/17 12:29 PM
1

Usually it has to do with psychologic reasons. You should be getting more energy as you approach. If you're not, you're faking your personality, overanalyzing interactions, overanalyzing before approaching, etc. Basically being in your head.
/r/seduction09/10/17 12:24 PM
2

Try to send something that doesn't require a response. Instead of asking what house they like, tell them what house you like. Better than that would be a funny meme/message. I find that super formal messages (it's actually what most instructors use btw) tend to be better, because it's so ridiculous that it's obviously a joke. I've seen girl friends of mine on tinder, they get around one match perr minute. When you message them, be aware that you have at least 15 guys messaging her as well. Stand…
/r/seduction09/10/17 12:10 PM
1

See if this link works. Otherwise I'm gonna have to repost it. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/73humb/how_to_text/
/r/seduction09/10/17 11:33 AM
1

No, I send infield of instructors applying this.
/r/seduction09/10/17 11:28 AM
1

The post is removed?? Wait a sec.
/r/seduction09/10/17 11:27 AM
3

Enjoy dude, glad I could help. Test it like 10 times, with time you'll understand how to modify it and suit it to you perfectly. I can show you some infield, maybe it'd help.
/r/seduction08/10/17 11:05 PM
11

You get friendzoned because of the vibe with her, not because of the things you talk about.
/r/seduction08/10/17 11:02 PM
5

To deal with friends, you need to talk with them. If they see you're cool (not trying to be cool), they leave you alone with her. As soon as you see her friends, "Are those your friends?" "Yes" "Assume familiarity Hey, what's up! Just met her. What's your name? How did you guys meet each other?...". Chill with them for a bit while being with your girl too, isolate her (i.e. "I wanna show you something/Let's go to the bar. Tell your friends we'll be right back grab her hand or something and go") …
/r/seduction08/10/17 10:31 PM
1

Click on "How to text". The post is mine.
/r/seduction08/10/17 07:57 PM
1

That's not shyness. It's just a neutral response. When you get physical, you get a good, bad or neutral response. If it's good (touches you back, gets happier) you escalate. If it's bad (pulls away, gets turned off) you say sorry and take it down a notch. If it's neutral (doesn't touch back, stays the same) you let it there for a moment, take it back and try again later. Touch is only a "ping", just to see where you're at. You don't need to be touching her all the time to escalate.
/r/seduction08/10/17 07:40 PM
2

You got LMR and you didn't know how to deal with it. Learn from your mistakes. She wasn't creeped out tho, she just lost interest. Sometimes failing one time is enough. It's not a big deal, everyone has rejections like that here and there, you're cool.
/r/seduction08/10/17 07:34 PM
7

So you're getting approach anxiety basically, based on fear of rejection. Approach someone, ridicule yourself and get rejected on purpose. Several times actually. You'll lose the fear. Your brain literally thinks you're gonna die if you do it, so you need to show your brain that you'll not die with enough reference experiences and the fear is gone. Basic psychology.
/r/seduction08/10/17 07:30 PM
1

They go to self development because it's more mainstream and they gain more money.
/r/seduction08/10/17 07:25 PM
7

So she's basically a fuck buddy. Nothing wrong with that. Just keep fucking her and see other girls.
/r/seduction08/10/17 07:23 PM
12

We need more details lol.
/r/seduction08/10/17 07:17 PM
2

Haha same.
/r/seduction08/10/17 06:51 PM
1

They remove their own comment. One of them says text game doesn't exist and he got rekt, so he deleted it. The other one is just a kid from the other sub that I told to go learn english.
/r/seduction08/10/17 06:45 PM
2

Alright dude, have a good one.
/r/seduction08/10/17 06:19 PM
9

How to text. Don't wait, text her as soon as possible, otherwise the window of opportunity will close. In your case, I suggest you to skip through the phases pretty fast (i.e. send her something to open and go straight for the close, deal with shittests if you get some), because you already kissed her.
/r/seduction08/10/17 06:18 PM
1

Like someone said, she probably likes this playful teasing vibe. I like it too, just find it weird, it's the first time it happens. Usually they shit test me hard in the beginning, I pass it and I almost don't get tested after. I'm 19, I like girls of my age, older girls probably behave differently, idk.
/r/seduction08/10/17 06:11 PM
1

What? There's text, you need to load the page lol.
/r/seduction08/10/17 06:07 PM
1

The post is mine, I know what's in it lol. Don't know what deleted comments has to do with this, I can't delete it them, I'm not admin of r/seduction. I'm portuguese btw. The examples are just that, examples. You use your own phrases.
/r/seduction08/10/17 05:07 PM
20

I guess I'm lucky. I got plenty of affection. Especially from my father. And my uncle. In the pantry at family dinners, while the rest of the family was in the living room eating.
/r/seduction08/10/17 04:49 PM
37

After screaming "GOOAALL" when you cum and whipping the cum in your dick in her pillow, take a shower and go to sleep or go eat something with her. Tell her to invite her friends after the party ends.
/r/seduction08/10/17 04:45 PM
1

I truly am myself, I put my personality on the line. People feel that authenticity. I'm not afraid of being rejected, when I go, I don't half ass it, I play to win. You're playing not to win, but to not lose.
/r/seduction08/10/17 03:55 PM
1

The link that I sent you is tested by me and others, including instructors. It works. You say is shit and that your way of doing things is better. I could tell you why it's bad, but you wouldn't care, so why should I? Already gave you my advice, do what you want with it.
/r/seduction08/10/17 03:18 PM
1

Wow dude, you're a pro. Can't believe she didn't even reply to you. Can't believe you didn't even talk to her in person.
/r/seduction08/10/17 01:59 PM
0

I'm sure it is. It's working out great for you as you can see. "Hi. What's up? How was your day? [Insert joke]".
/r/seduction08/10/17 01:24 PM
0

That's so boring lol, it's what every chode does, I'm literally cringing dude. My advice to you.
/r/seduction08/10/17 12:42 PM
1

It's what I'm doing, I shit test a lot too. I'm just not used to this. Also, banter is cool, but I wanna move things forward.
/r/seduction08/10/17 12:39 PM
0

Tbh I like it too. Usually I just pass it and move on to the boring stuff to get to know her, but this girl is standing out, I like her. Now that I'm thinking about it, I should probably go straight to the fun part and pass all the "So what do you study?". I already know what she studies anyway. Let me know what do you think. Thanks.
/r/seduction08/10/17 11:53 AM
1

You didn't even talk to her, it's not a rejection. It never started. Btw, "hi"? Dude.
/r/seduction08/10/17 11:22 AM
8

Series or music. They can talk about that shit for hours. Especially if you watch the same series. Instant comfort.
/r/seduction08/10/17 11:19 AM
2

Sounds like any other guy. You need to stand out.
/r/seduction08/10/17 10:10 AM
1

Nope, do this.
/r/seduction08/10/17 01:36 AM
1

I don't workout seriously lol. I'm a federate athlete, working out is my life. Just telling you how it is. No man will ignore a dtf girl to "continue is pursuit of a better version of himself". C'mon dude, it's just a fucking gym, it's not a spiritual interdimentional cave or something. They're probably gym rats, all they do is eat protein and read about protein and go to parties. I told her how to get same day lay and how to get the number. She can go for the number if she wants to. She can eve…
/r/seduction08/10/17 01:11 AM
6

"I'm gonna sit next to that girl in this class"
/r/seduction08/10/17 01:02 AM
3

"Hi, saw you before but never had the opportunity to meet you. I'm X, you?". You're in class, silence is expected, because you need to pay attention. Don't interrupt her (and yourself, you should be taking notes too), simply do small talk here and there. Let the conversation to the end of the class. She has no friends in that class apparently. Even if she's shy and doesn't seem receptive, she'll like it, you're gonna be her first friend.
/r/seduction07/10/17 11:14 PM
1

Exactly. Don't let for tomorrow what you can do today.
/r/seduction07/10/17 10:47 PM
2

Your problem is you wanna say something good to impress her. That'll not happen. That's why I'm telling you to use a chain of associations, where you can't think about what you say. It works like this. Say a phrase, pick a word from that phrase, say whatever comes to mind and repeat (i.e. I love dogs. Dogs are good pets. I had a pet once, his name was Nero, which is funny because he was a pinscher and Nero was an imperator of Rome, I never went to Rome by the way...). You're able to talk forever…
/r/seduction07/10/17 09:41 PM
2

THIS. Fuck yeah. Upvote this man.
/r/seduction07/10/17 09:10 PM
1

Look at any fucking instructor or natural. They're all ugly. At your stage, looks don't matter. You don't succeed because of looks, you succeed despite of it. You never started and you're already quitting. C'mon dude, stop being a bitch. Not trying to be man, just telling you how it is. You're being a bitch.
/r/seduction07/10/17 09:01 PM
1

Sit next to her. I don't see the problem dude.
/r/seduction07/10/17 08:57 PM
1

Why do you have to ask her out? Why can't you simply hang out with her on monday and eat something after school on monday?
/r/seduction07/10/17 08:53 PM
2

Not literally 99%, but they did a test on this. It's more than 90%. If she was decent, I'd go, not gonna lie.
/r/seduction07/10/17 08:43 PM
3

No. Do chain of associations and tell a story. You just want her to talk. When she talks a bit and you're about to go, "I know this is weird, but you seem cool, let's exchange numbers to maybe grab a bite sometime". Done.
/r/seduction07/10/17 07:14 PM
2

No, you should talk to her about non medic shit and ask for her number.
/r/seduction07/10/17 07:00 PM
2

No, you watch too much porn haha.
/r/seduction07/10/17 06:44 PM
1

[insert overdramatic voice] Adopting a child may not change the world, but for that child... the world will change
/r/seduction07/10/17 05:53 PM
1

Things that make no sense.
/r/seduction07/10/17 05:27 PM
2

I ask people to drive me home and I don't even wanna have sex. Also, it's a rough conversation, only has the key points, I can't predict everything. Some smoother ways would be to ask if it's a good idea to walk/run to the gym to warm up and if he does it (to see if he brought his car) then ask to drive her home. Guys aren't girls. Asking "wanna fuck?" is good, the success rate is almost 100%, imagine asking for his number. They both know it's an excuse to fuck, she's not "tricking" him, it's ju…
/r/seduction07/10/17 05:23 PM
1

Haha
/r/seduction07/10/17 02:10 PM
2

If you just want sex, 99% of dudes will answer yes to "wanna fuck?" haha. Since you train there, I wouldn't do that, it seems you want to be smooth or something. "I need help in this exercise" "Ok, I help you" "What's your name?" "John" "Ok John, I don't know how to do this, I need your help" Now you know his name, if it doesn't work now, you can try another day with "Hi John", you don't need another excuse. He helps you. Then you bridge it to something else to figure out logistics. "Thanks. I'm…
/r/seduction07/10/17 02:09 PM
2

If you stand there awkwardly, say "I like your lipstick", ask some boring questions that no one cares about and then go silent, it's pretty obvious what you did wrong. Everything. You did everything wrong.
/r/seduction07/10/17 11:36 AM
3

Dude, you must be trolling. How can you possibly think that she doesn't do that on purpose? It's like a fucking movie for fuck sake. You want a pick up line for this? Are you serious? C'mon.
/r/seduction07/10/17 11:32 AM
3

Everyone's bored, give them something different to talk about. Random girl passing by "I'm chinese". It's supposed to be a joke btw, kinda like a prank, nothing serious. You're not "seducing" anyone, you're simply being someone fun making their day different and it's like "This person is so cool, I wanna hang out with her more".
/r/seduction07/10/17 11:16 AM
1

Nothing new. Lots of people don't take it seriously. Some create an account and leave, some want to see who's using the app, some want some validation. I did that for the first 6 months using it. Didn't talk with anyone, it was like social media, just went there to swipe people and log off.
/r/seduction07/10/17 11:10 AM
4

That's good. Don't fake the way you feel. If you feel like shit, approach feeling like shit, don't try to look happy.
/r/seduction07/10/17 08:42 AM
5

Try to see what you did wrong. Write field reports for every interaction, it's gonna make your life a lot easier. Either that or pm me, I give you The Natural for free. I like action takers. Anyway, it's not really a rejection, you simply didn't have chemistry with her and you found out.
/r/seduction07/10/17 08:11 AM
1

Typically I'd agree and amplify, but in this case I'd misinterpret it. Any phrase can be misinterpreted by "I wanna fuck you" or "I miss you". If you want a modular response, you can use "By [insert] you mean [insert]", but there are other ways. Either that or you can simply ignore it. "Hmm I'll decide soon. By the way bla bla bla". So agree & amplify, misinterpret it or ignore it.
/r/seduction07/10/17 08:07 AM
1

So basically is it worth it doing? Yes. It's not "pick up". You're more social, you make more friends, more girls like you, you have more freedom and choices in dating and life, you have more potential to start a business, you're healthier and happier. Pick up doesn't exist, this is being social. We're social creatures, so being more social will affect everything in life. Your success purely depends on how social/socially intelligent you are. Do what works for you. If you have outer game work in…
/r/seduction06/10/17 10:09 PM
2

I disagree. Most instructors have to work, they don't pick up girls for a living lol. They send emails and have videos, speeches and bootcamps to do, barely have time to approach. Despite of that, can be more successful because they have reference experiences. Beginner: knows nothing or very little of game (not theory). Intermidiate: knows too much of game (theory) and overthinks approaches because of it. Advanced: focus on what matters and keeps things simple and effective. "You learn karate to…
/r/seduction06/10/17 08:15 PM
2

Pretty simple. Look at her reactions. If her state goes down (she gets sad, angry, turned off, etc), say "sorry" and do this. Have a good one.
/r/seduction06/10/17 08:02 PM
1

Yes. Getting miles on the legs always helps. Also, you can use those 5k to practice sprint for example.
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:51 PM
1

Sure dude*. Approach 3 random people before the date. I know he talks about stuff that isn't in the video. If you don't know any of that, pm me the time in the video and I send you an explanation. Have a good one. *Don't share that or I'll take it down.
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:30 PM
1

I'm a marathon runner. Today I don't feel like training. Should I train? Will it help me to get better?
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:16 PM
2

What did I wrote that doesn't apply to both?
/r/seduction06/10/17 05:35 PM
2

If it works for you, great. I just think warm ups are bad (with exceptions), if you want to be more social, than actually be more social, don't just be social sometimes. You don't need to be "attracting" people, just troll and fuck around, have fun. You don't need to "pick her up" everytime you talk to her. I don't know, works for me.
/r/seduction06/10/17 04:52 PM
2

I hate I didn't do this in fucking kindergarten
/r/seduction06/10/17 02:59 PM
1

In a concert, you better grab the girl, sing along with her, look her right in the fucking eyes for her to see how much you want her and go for the kiss. If you half step it you'll fail, if you go with full intent you'll get it. Rock concerts are better tho. In general, not just for pick up.
/r/seduction06/10/17 02:56 PM
2

I don't. I simply talk with people from the moment I wake up to the moment I fall asleep. Always in the zone. Always. However, to not get approach anxiety, just count the steps. Walk/run to her and count the steps. Your brain can't handle more information than that. Not kidding, the most powerful brain in the history of the planet Earth can't handle more than 1... 2... 3... So use it to your advantage. Thinking about what the good things that will happen if you approach and the bad things that w…
/r/seduction06/10/17 02:46 PM
1

Sounds like you're lacking intent and all of the sudden you kiss her and show massive intent. This isn't bad. She kissed you back. She thought "Ok, this guy just wants to be friends... Oh wait a minute" and realized you want the same as her. Keep going.
/r/seduction06/10/17 02:40 PM
1

They're just confused, don't know how to act. They can't be "smooth", so they pretend they're not looking to make you approach them. Of course, everyone can see what they're doing lol. They keep looking at you when they're far away, thinking you can't see them. You can. When they get caught they say "hi", because they have been waiting for an excuse to do it. Talk to them and ask them out. Don't be waiting. Those who wait, masturbate.
/r/seduction06/10/17 02:33 PM
2

"You're stupid" "Yes (agree), I'm the most stupid person in the world (amplify)"
/r/seduction06/10/17 02:22 PM
2

This isn't a thing you turn on and off. It's always on. It's better to be "that type of guy" than to "Ok, time to pick up chicks now". By the way, you need to be social in general, not just to pick up girls. Doesn't if it's a hot girl or an old lady next to you, you talk to her. Just my opinion.
/r/seduction06/10/17 02:17 PM
1

Just describing reality as it is
/r/seduction06/10/17 06:39 AM
1

I guess. Already saw this fat dude before. Never helps anyone, just complains. Loves to brag about his "knowledge", but I bet he never talked with a girl in his life, not even his mom.
/r/seduction05/10/17 11:01 PM
2

Except the dead guy can't do nothing to change, he can.
/r/seduction05/10/17 11:01 PM
1

If you like her, you talk to her. As long as you're not going against the law, there's no problem. Just keep in mind that you're supposed to make the girl's day better, not worse.
/r/seduction05/10/17 08:43 PM
2

Say how much you like turtles.
/r/seduction05/10/17 08:41 PM
0

Isolate, have sex, don't tell anyone. By anyone, I actually mean anyone.
/r/seduction05/10/17 08:40 PM
12

THIS, upvote this guy
/r/seduction05/10/17 08:38 PM
2

I told him to hang in set even if it gets hard and that is okay to fail, how's that not learning? If you have a better way, instead of bitching on other's, actually help the guy. I don't need your help, he does. Have a good one.
/r/seduction05/10/17 07:20 PM
1

^ This. If you can't turn it back on him, just say "Thanks" or "Yeah you're right" or "That's true" or "You make a good point" or... you get the gist of it. Those will work with everything btw. Instead of countering what he said (force), just go with the flow without letting it affect it (power). Power vs Force, basically ;)
/r/seduction05/10/17 06:34 PM
5

Emotion yes, not more energy. If you're not energetic, don't be this party clown, comes off massively tryhard and fake. Instead, practice conveying a lot of emotion and certainty through your words, while speaking calmly. Practice free association and keeping people hooked to your stories. When you speak, make it sound like the best shit ever. Not the most fun and pumped up shit ever, but the best most epic shit ever. Should do the trick for you.
/r/seduction05/10/17 06:31 PM
1

First of all, quit being a fucking pussy, no book is gonna help your inner game, take action. Second of all, getting laid is amazing - for you and for the chick, and she's willing to ignore your mistakes to get the dick, you have to ignore them as well.
/r/seduction05/10/17 06:26 PM
2

The best logistics that I've ever seen is the consentual sex in the missionary position for the sole purpose of reproduction van. You can make your own, just be aware of the chassis, the space in the back and how fucking cool it has to look. Other than that, either rent a room or go to her place or fuck wherever.
/r/seduction05/10/17 02:50 PM
3

Push pull is when you give a compliment and then tease, or vice versa. For example, "You have a cute girls face (compliment) but your conduct is evil (tease)". It's a good way to show that you like her without being like those "you're hot" creeps.
/r/seduction05/10/17 01:58 PM
2

He's talking about faping dude.
/r/seduction05/10/17 01:50 PM
1

Anyone can do it., as long as they have social skills. "Game" is social skills, there's absolutely no difference. This is basically learning psychology and social dynamics. The only difference between someone who learned this and others is that you're cooler and have a plan and experience. Anyone with no social skills (hard cases AND fucking nerds who study this shit too deeply) have absolutely no chance. As far as you're having fun with others, you can meet people in the mall fairly easy.
/r/seduction05/10/17 12:42 PM
0

Go out with her. She's gonna be your wing. She starts talking with a girl. "Your hair is so pretty, bla bla bla", typical shit girls attract each other with. "Oh, I wanna present you that guy, he's fucking amazing", pulls you in. You and your girlfriend talk to the chick to pull her. Both of you should be talking. Game the chick as if you were single. It's just fun, fun, fun. "Have you ever kissed a girl before?" "Yes/No" "Haha kiss her, they kiss" then you kiss your gf than the other girl or al…
/r/seduction05/10/17 07:15 AM
1

Go out
/r/seduction05/10/17 07:03 AM
2

There you go mate
/r/seduction05/10/17 07:02 AM
1

The Opening Manifesto by Todd Valentine. It's a mega link dude, not a virus lol.
/r/seduction05/10/17 06:50 AM
1

The second is false. You can have options being needy. Anyway, doesn't matter. If you don't want neediness, get more options.
/r/seduction05/10/17 06:48 AM
1

You're needy because you have lack of options. If it doesn't work out with her, you're fucked. To stop being needy, get more options, talk to more people. Sounds easy and it is. Try this for one day, talk to a shit ton of people, even if it's just to troll them. When you get home, you'll not be needy.
/r/seduction04/10/17 11:07 PM
3

You're overthinking this shit. She's into you, if you take too long she's not gonna be anymore, the window of opportunity will pass. Call her, don't be doing all this weird shit that you saw in the book, ask her out, take her out, have sex, shower, go out again, go home, sleep, call her again, go out, have a good time, have sex, sleep, repeat. This is game. Have a good time with each other. Stuff like this makes me mad, seriously. "I'm gonna neg her just slightly", dude she likes you! The job is…
/r/seduction04/10/17 10:57 PM
2

Probably the longest way to say "I'm needy". You have lack of options, so you chase. Get more options, talk to more girls, the neediness goes away.
/r/seduction04/10/17 10:21 PM
1

https://mega(dot)nz/#!9zgW0B6Y!QRygQIwtrpi91cqKD2OY9yEy98lLLiZyMWOVu4Y3BhI
/r/seduction04/10/17 09:39 PM
1

Pm me, I'll get you something.
/r/seduction04/10/17 05:09 PM
1

Upvote this guy ^
/r/seduction04/10/17 05:09 PM
2

Haha this ^
/r/seduction04/10/17 04:52 PM
1

Already posted something about fancy dates (second comment). They're bad for a lot of reasons, simple free dates are better. As far as logistics... I feel you man, I live with other people too. Hotels are good, but she has to be down. In the street for example gives more that "it just happened" vibe.
/r/seduction04/10/17 04:49 PM
1

True. Not an excuse to be a creep. If you're constantly calibrating, you aren't moving forward.
/r/seduction04/10/17 02:47 PM
1

Ask her out. There's a window of opportunity, if you let it pass it's gonna be much harder. Some advice in case you need it. Those who wait, masturbate.
/r/seduction04/10/17 02:38 PM
2

No. She can't even approach you if she's attracted, never mind carrying the interaction. You have to carry 90% of it until you reach the sexual hook point.
/r/seduction04/10/17 12:33 PM
1

You reach the social hook point. You need to reach the sexual hook point. Your problem isn't leading, it's running out of things to say, you said it in the beginning.
/r/seduction04/10/17 10:56 AM
1

Don't even ask, just grab her hand and "sko".
/r/seduction04/10/17 10:51 AM
1

Go straight for plans.
/r/seduction04/10/17 10:47 AM
1

I'd say something more oblique, like "Were you always hot or are you a nerd that became hot?" (not mine). The intention is there, but it's not in her face, I'm just asking about her past or whatever. But hey, if direct works for you, then it works for you.
/r/seduction04/10/17 10:44 AM
1

"Saw you were eating alone, decided to make you company. Hi, my name is X."
/r/seduction04/10/17 10:32 AM
1

Dude, she's shy. Use your head. How's she gonna react to you asking her out right away?
/r/seduction04/10/17 10:29 AM
3

Take a walk with her. The place doesn't matter, what matters is you. She's not gonna like you because you took her to somewhere fancy.
/r/seduction04/10/17 10:21 AM
1

Not sure if trolling but there you go
/r/seduction04/10/17 10:16 AM
1

This
/r/seduction03/10/17 04:00 PM
-8

None. Just get something blue/pink with a straw and a flower or whatever, that's what they drink all the time, don't even know what that is.
/r/seduction03/10/17 03:57 PM
1

I think it's platonic. Could work depending on the vibe. If it's "We have a test, let's study together" than no, if it's "I wanna fuck, this is just a pretext to be with you" than it could work. As long as she's not catched by surprise you're good imho.
/r/seduction03/10/17 12:48 PM
2

Dates on Snapchat "Hey, I just saw you, you look [insert whatever the fuck comes to mind]" Everywhere, mostly college. All the above.
/r/seduction03/10/17 12:45 PM
2

This
/r/seduction03/10/17 12:17 PM
1

Watch this
/r/seduction03/10/17 12:08 PM
1

No
/r/seduction03/10/17 12:04 PM
3

Wow
/r/seduction03/10/17 07:16 AM
1

I literally said I'd give it for free. I have to say that buying thing to fall into the category of good marketing. I'm not Julien tho.
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:49 PM
35

The typical guy would take her to a fancy restaurant. This isn't the best option. Why? First, over compensation. Second, too conservative, she has to "behave and have manners". Third, full of people to judge her. Take her somewhere simple and free, she's a random chick that you met, not your gf. A walk in the park, shopping (not free, you need to buy a shirt for like $1, but c'mon), watching movies and having yogurt at your house, starcraft and weed (I promise I never stole this one Max, but it'…
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:41 PM
1

"Damn, that eye contact. You're distracting me."
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:21 PM
1

"I'm chinese"
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:18 PM
–

Happiness and love are too separate things. This is a very rough affirmation, but the four pillars of life come down to money, love, health and happiness. They don't mix. What you're experiencing is nothing new. That's why some millionaires get depressed. That's why some master puas get depressed. You're told that if you get money and women that you're gonna be happy, and when you finally get it, you're not and you lose hope. The good news are I have a solution. To be happy, you need to be okay …
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:10 PM
2

Pretty good video, seems legit. If you want to it better, talk louder and be more charismatic (even if it's fake), it's a little monotone. Just imagine your eyes going bright. People are more boring on camera, so by doing this you'll actually look normal. Take a cold shower or something before to wake you up. Other than that, the advice is legit and fluff free, wasn't expecting it to be this good. Have a good one.
/r/seduction02/10/17 04:47 PM
1

It's not a matter of she knowing that you want to hook up, she has to feel it. The way you look, the proximity, the way you touch, the tone of voice, everything should tell that you want to fuck her. Also, teasing and flirting, spikes (negative i.e. I hate you or positive i.e. I love you), stuff like that. If you don't get attraction, that's polarity.
/r/seduction02/10/17 04:02 PM
1

A date I guess. "We're going to a party in X place, you should come, bla bla bla", take her there, chat her up, pull, fun times.
/r/seduction02/10/17 02:20 PM
2

Not everyone will like you. If I was you, while she's going to her friends, "Where are your friends?" "Over there" "Who?" "Those girls" "Take her hand, moves in front of her, leads her to their friends What's up guys, bla bla bla". Use some canned stuff that you know are gonna get them laughing and move from there.
/r/seduction02/10/17 02:12 PM
2

Couple of good things. The time of the date is good, when the sun is going down (it starts at day and ends at night, feels like a lot of time passed). The location is good too, nothing fancy (she doesn't need to be conservative, can relax more). Comfort seems good too. What's missing is polarity, you're being too friendly. Hard to tell, because it's not a FR.
/r/seduction02/10/17 02:00 PM
1

^ This
/r/seduction02/10/17 01:31 PM
1

Please keep updating the progress of your body, my masturbation sessions have never been the same since then.
/r/seduction02/10/17 01:30 PM
0

Exactly, that's why you let others host. Throw another party, first time is always shitty. Next time, keep drinks, food, everything in one place, ideally not too long from the couches and stuff. If you want perfect logistics (and if people are okay with it), empty a room in your house and cover the floor with mattresses and pillows. It's cool to hang out and have "fun times". Again, you need to be that type of guy and people need to know what that's for and be okay with it. I'm not that type of …
/r/seduction02/10/17 12:49 PM
9

Dude, you have girls kissing you and cuddling with you and smelling your neck and shit and you can't tell they like you? How's is this possible? What universe do you live in? I'm so confused... By the way, if you want to throw a house party, let people manage it for you. Tell them straight up that if they cause problems or brake anything they'll pay and that if they see someone doing it to stop it. Let them know where the drinks are, basic stuff like that. You'll be good.
/r/seduction02/10/17 12:24 PM
1

Very simple. Basically, you're problem is lack of feedback, you don't know if you should escalate or not. That doesn't matter at all, assume that it's on. If she doesn't, you calibrate and move the interaction forward, ramping it up again. Keep stacking these, eventually it'll work.
/r/seduction02/10/17 12:09 PM
2

Drinking makes you soft, but you clearly get hard during foreplay, so not a problem. I'd say you get so nervous that you can't get hard. To quote a meme, Pop a pill son!
/r/seduction02/10/17 06:31 AM
1

Disagree with them on purpose in a playful way to spike it (i.e. "Where are you from?" "London" "I hate London ;)").
/r/seduction02/10/17 06:28 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/73humb/how_to_text/
/r/seduction02/10/17 06:25 AM
3

Just fucking feel the beats with your body and let it lose, I don't know.
/r/seduction02/10/17 06:23 AM
1

Ask her out in person. Texting is meant to get to know a girl. You already know her. Still, see if there's anything you can use... https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/73humb/how_to_text/
/r/seduction02/10/17 06:20 AM
1

FR?
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:44 PM
1

Imaginary friends I guess, doesn't sound too healthy tho.
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:43 PM
2

That's your motivational seesaw. Next time, force yourself to do it, even if it's unpleasant. Once you get the reference experience, the problem will be solved.
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:34 PM
2

Happens with everyone. If you're with just one girl you'll get needy. More girls.
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:29 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/73humb/how_to_text/
/r/seduction01/10/17 07:33 PM
4

You're trying to make it work. You're playing not to win, but to not lose. Be willing to fuck it up, it's the only way. By the way, as you already noticed, studying this shit won't get you better, only worse. Even though you think you can do it, when I tell you to do it you get nervous and you can't. It's like studying back flips. If you study the dynamics of backflips really hard and know everything about it, you still can't do it, it's as if you didn't study anything. If you spend an afternoon…
/r/seduction01/10/17 07:30 PM
13

Polarity. No polarity = friends, polarity = sex worthy. Stuff like the way you look at her, the tone of voice, the proximity, the way you touch, etc. You should be looking at her and thinking "Damn, you're very attractive, I wanna fuck you" while not being a desperate creep. She should know you want to fuck her without you saying it. It's like the tiger in the room paradigm. A baby tiger walks into the room and starts attacking you - it's cute, even though he's trying really hard, he can't hurt …
/r/seduction01/10/17 07:22 PM
1

Pretty easy to spot. Low self-esteem girls treat you the opposite that you're treating them, high self-esteem girls treat you the same. It has nothing to do with beauty, has to do with past experiences. Basically, she's in scarcity. If she's not interacting with you, than just forget about it. To change it, you'd have to be talking with her, and if the conversation went spiritual, you'd say that you noticed that she has low self-esteem and that she tries to get everyone's approval and stuff like…
/r/seduction01/10/17 07:17 PM
1

I know she's a low self-esteem girl. Doesn't mean she's not cool though, you can still hang out with her. Like I said, she's not doing it on purpose, it's subconscious. Try to lead her in the right direction.
/r/seduction01/10/17 06:15 PM
1

If I was you, I'd just move on. That doesn't actually get her, so try to know her schedule and get a date, like star gazing or whatever the fuck you did with her.
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:59 PM
1

So basically you're a class clown. That's overcompensation. I used to be one too. You probably are afraid to show your true personality, so you put this mask to guarantee people like you. I recommend you taking Transformation Mastery by RSD Julien, it'll deal with that problem. I can give it to you for free. The reason why you're not sex worthy is because you're too funny, they can't take you seriously. Obviously you don't want to be walking up to girls like "Hey girl! I want that pussy girl!", …
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:56 PM
1

The window of opportunity passed right in front of your eyes and you didn't catch it. Sure, you can still get her, but it's gonna be harder.
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:38 PM
5

They don't fuck you because of your height lol. Look at them, see how much fun they're having, approach with 10% more fun than them and you're good to go. Not fake fun, actual fun.
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:30 PM
1

If she's not stopping you, keep going.
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:27 PM
1

Imo, your problem is the motivational seesaw. Next time force yourself to do it even if it's unpleasant.
/r/seduction01/10/17 01:20 PM
1

You have a mouth and legs, don't see the problem
/r/seduction01/10/17 01:17 PM
2

Most of them were creeps though. She showed me some guys that literally just send "wanna fuck" as the first message.
/r/seduction01/10/17 12:22 PM
2

More girls.
/r/seduction01/10/17 12:19 PM
1

Indeed
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:53 AM
5

"I have a boyfriend" "It's ok, tell him I'm gay"
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:44 AM
1

You can meet them anywhere, doesn't need to be in those parties. Sounds like you need some friends. Befriend the guys in the fraternity, get them some pussy if you can, they'll love you and bring you to their parties. Social circle game basically.
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:43 AM
1

"You're too young" "Don't worry about it, age is just a number". Done.
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:34 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/73humb/how_to_text/
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:31 AM
1

Yep
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:28 AM
6

Vocal projection + state + squaring up with the girl + million dollar mouthpiece... and just keep talking. Also, demand their attention (i.e. "Hey, shows over here! Thank you. Anyway..."). You might think "Isn't that gonna blow the set?" - guess what, they're not even looking at you, it's already blown dude.
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:21 AM
1

Lots of guys go beta when they enter a relationship, she probably lost attraction. I'd say she likes you. If I was you, I'd go for it, just to see if she's genuine or if she just wants a friend.
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:09 AM
1

Instagram
/r/seduction01/10/17 09:49 AM
2

Send the request then. If you don't send it, there's no other way.
/r/seduction01/10/17 01:09 AM
-4

Yes. People cheat a lot in their relationships, it's not that bad.
/r/seduction01/10/17 01:08 AM
4

They were partying all night, at the end of the night the guys were their only chance to get laid. They weren't that bad, so they went for it. It's easier to pull in the end of night than in the beginning, that's why people pull in the end of the night.
/r/seduction01/10/17 01:06 AM
3

You should probably ask for her Facebook in person pretending that you haven't found it, kinda creepy to send the friend request out of nowhere...
/r/seduction01/10/17 01:03 AM
1

Sweden.
/r/seduction01/10/17 01:00 AM
-3

Go for it. If something happens, stays between you two, no one needs to know about it.
/r/seduction01/10/17 12:59 AM
1

You don't need to make out to fuck them, with time you'll notice that you don't kiss like 40% of the girls you fuck. But if it's that important to you, I don't know, just kiss them een if you don't want to, say "fuck it" and force yourself to do it. Literally nothing bad can happen and you'll get laid.
/r/seduction30/09/17 11:02 PM
1

Oh ok. That's different then. She probably doesn't like to text. Talk to her in real life like a normal person would. Can't fuck her through your phone.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:33 PM
7

Very true. I was next to a Spanish chick the other day in the train, and she literally had 42 texts to read. Quite ridiculous.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:28 PM
4

Very true. I was next to a Spanish chick the other day in the train, and she literally had 42 texts to read. Pretty ridiculous.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:27 PM
5

Very true. I was next to a Spanish chick the other day in the train, and she literally had 42 texts to read. Pretty ridiculous.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:27 PM
6

Very true. I was next to a Spanish chick the other day in the train, and she literally had 42 texts to read. Pretty ridiculous.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:27 PM
4

Very true. I was next to a Spanish chick the other day in the train, and she literally had 42 texts to read. Pretty ridiculous.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:27 PM
11

Very true. I was next to a Spanish chick the other day in the train, and she literally had 42 texts to read. Pretty ridiculous.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:27 PM
3

So you're basically needy. You want it to work so bad, because you have lack of options. If it doesn't work out with her, you have no one else. How to stop being needy? Talk to more girls, get more options.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:25 PM
1

I used to be like that. Just be around her, make her more positive and accept that she's good enough the way she is.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:22 PM
1

Probably not. She doesn't exactly see you as the coolest person to hang out with.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:19 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/73humb/how_to_text/
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:08 PM
1

No. You should approach people 24/7. You don't have to pull them not get their number nor doing these mind game techniques or whatever the fuck the weirdos call it. Just talk with everyone and be social. That's what "being in the zone" means.
/r/seduction30/09/17 07:47 PM
2

Being witty is good to deal with their shit. Talking like a politician will not get you laid, passing shit tests will.
/r/seduction30/09/17 07:45 PM
1

No, it means you had your shot, the window of opportunity just closed. Those who wait, masturbate.
/r/seduction30/09/17 07:41 PM
2

It's not a trick. It's how people talk. You say "Hi" and when you leave you say "Bye" or "Have a good day". Second option is better, because according to you they're more successful, which means they probably know more successful people.
/r/seduction30/09/17 10:16 AM
9

"Hey, what's up? We didn't met yet. What's your name?"
/r/seduction29/09/17 11:35 PM
4

First of all, don't rate people, that's stupid. Second of all, go for the second option. That hot girl that lives with you? She's gonna be your best friend, your penis will never enter her vagina, forget about it. One of the most important rules of game: if you don't know what you're doing, don't fuck people you see everyday (obviously, if they want to casually fuck you, you open an exception). Third of all, literally walk around saying "Hi" and asking questions to everyone, teasing them and shi…
/r/seduction29/09/17 11:24 PM
0

Rip
/r/seduction29/09/17 11:03 PM
2

Low self-esteem people basically want others validation, since they can't generate it by their own. When you don't give her validation, she chases you. When you do, she gets what she wants and walks away. That's the basic gist of it. You're not giving her validation anymore, so she comes back. Those hot dudes probably give her loads of it, so she rejects them.
/r/seduction29/09/17 11:02 PM
1

Exactly. They literally spend 1 hour on their hair, at least say something about it.
/r/seduction29/09/17 10:55 PM
1

Exactly. They literally spend 1 hour on their hair, at least say something about it.
/r/seduction29/09/17 10:53 PM
1

Exactly. They literally spend 1 hour on their hair, at least say something about it.
/r/seduction29/09/17 10:53 PM
5

Comment about her looks (not "HEY YOU'RE PRETTY") or the most fucked up thing that I can think of.
/r/seduction29/09/17 12:32 PM
1

Passive attraction, social proof, etc. Basically, chill game aka natural game. It's not so much the partying and the emotions, it's more the vibe. You don't want to be a creep looking at her like "I want that pussy girl!"... but on some level you do lol. Practice free association and having certainty and emotion behind your words, being at the cause and all that, then change it to being very polite and calm, but still maintaining all the above. Should do the trick.
/r/seduction29/09/17 06:48 AM
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Learn some routines. You should be able to do it by yourself (work on it), but for now just use some canned material.
/r/seduction28/09/17 09:25 PM
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Three words for you: SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME.
/r/seduction28/09/17 09:19 PM
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That's a low self-esteem girl. Learn more here. Over dramatic and extreme post, but you get the gist of it. If I was you, I would friendzone her. They usually bring a lot of problems and are very complicated to deal with. However, if you want to fuck her, keep her chasing. Don't give her the validation that she wants, she'll keep escalating and will often fuck with you to get it. Just don't be mean to her, she doesn't do it on purpose. In her head, she's just insecure about herself and wants to …
/r/seduction28/09/17 09:09 PM
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You can't fuck her through Snapchat. Talk to her in person and fuck her in person.
/r/seduction28/09/17 08:46 PM
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Wanna have some fun lol. No need to talk. Instead of saying that, put her hair back, start kissing the shoulder, then the neck and take it from there.
/r/seduction28/09/17 08:44 PM
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Library.
/r/seduction28/09/17 08:39 PM
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Probably a shit test. Younger girls usually shit test really hard. Still, if that's not the case, build more comfort.
/r/seduction28/09/17 07:40 PM
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You got my point. He can't get pussy, he's the creep. You can, you're not. Simple.
/r/seduction27/09/17 10:05 PM
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Dude... Why are you making a big deal out of it? "So this is a date right?", no dude, it's not, she thought she was going to hang out with a friend and now she has a creep trying to fuck her. Anyway, at least you didn't blow it completely. Try to keep things moving forward, but quit being such a fucking intense dude. She's not your girlfriend, she works with you. There's no "chemistry" there. Next time, you're not gonna "go on a date to the movie" or "go on a date to the restaurant". You're gonn…
/r/seduction27/09/17 09:56 PM
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You want it to work. Why can't you socialize for the sake of doing it? Why do you need to get something in return? This is what "sharing frame" means. You go up, you talk, she talks back, both of you feel better. You give to her, she gives to you. Sharing.
/r/seduction27/09/17 09:50 PM
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It's a neutral response. Wait and do the same moments later. It's probably too friendly.
/r/seduction27/09/17 09:45 PM
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To quote Tyler, "I think learning pick up is very creepy. In fact, is the second most creepy thing in the world. You know what's more creepy? Not learning pick up!". Yes, it's creepy, but what other option do you have? Being a chode? Learning social dynamics might be weird to some people, but when you look at others, they're the ones creeping girls out, because they don't know what they're doing. Just ignore him. When you go to the club with him, you start talking with some people and eventually…
/r/seduction27/09/17 09:31 PM
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I'll put you in the girl's shoes and let you think about it. There's a thing called sexual hook point (SHP), it's when she gets attracted to you (look up indicators of interest). So you're on a date with a guy. Before the SHP, he's the equivalent of a fat ugly chick. After the SHP, he's the equivalent of a hot girl. When are you going to accept a kiss from him? Does it matter if he says "I want to kiss you" before doing it?
/r/seduction27/09/17 09:20 PM
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Being attractive isn't LMS. Being attractive is game. LMS isn't game. Don't get me wrong, I'm not these self development hippies that croud the forums and Facebook groups nowadays. Game is inner and outer.
/r/seduction27/09/17 12:00 AM
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Irrelevant. Let her know that it's for fun. If she starts with the bullshit, "Listen, you're cool and we have a lot of fun, but it's just that. Our relationship is based on fun, I don't want nothing more. I don't want you to feel bad or to ruin this, so I'll not be around when you start with those things.". Some will be mad, others will accept it. Spoiler alert, the ones that get mad usually aren't the hotter/cooler ones. Once you fuck her for the second or third time, let her know that it's jus…
/r/seduction26/09/17 01:01 PM
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Irrelevant. Let her know that it's for fun. If she starts with the bullshit, "Listen, you're cool and we have a lot of fun, but it's just that. Our relationship is based on fun, I don't want nothing more. I don't want you to feel bad or to ruin this, so I'll not be around when you start with those things.". Some will be mad, others will accept it. Spoiler alert, the ones that get mad usually aren't the hotter/cooler ones. Once you fuck her for the second or third time, let her know that it's jus…
/r/seduction26/09/17 01:01 PM
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SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME, don't go for it as if you were picking up chicks in a night club. From now on, no more dates with girls from school/work, put that in your head. "You seem cool, lets exchange numbers/social media. I'm going to a party tomorrow, gonna have lots of friends there, you should come!". Done.
/r/seduction26/09/17 12:50 PM
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"Running game" = making yourself more attractive and getting women as a by product. "Just socializing" = being too friendly.
/r/seduction26/09/17 12:48 PM
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If you don't like it, don't do it lol. If I was you, I'd have sex and go on a date with her right after. Like you cum, take a shower, "I'm hungry, let's eat" and you take her to a restaurant. Tell her to invite her friends that are partying. From there, you can either escalate the situation to a threesome or moresome (it'll be you plus 5 horny girls in the end of the night after partying, pretty easy) OR you can start dating them individually and make fuckbuddies. Social circle game, basically. …
/r/seduction26/09/17 12:45 PM
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It's fine. You kissed her out of inspiration, not out of necessity. Basically, you didn't had to force yourself to do it, you did it naturally. Being "better" isn't doing certain routines, is truly being yourself. Forcing yourself to be perfect all the time is scarcity. You clearly like her and want her. You might tell yourself that you don't, but you clearly do. Go for it bro.
/r/seduction26/09/17 12:35 PM
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You're needy because you have lack of options. If it doesn't work out with her, you're fucked. How to not be needy? Talk with more girls, get more options.
/r/seduction26/09/17 12:27 PM
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So basically... women are afraid to be rejected, so you need to make sure they're comfortable around you. Wow, impressive.
/r/seduction26/09/17 12:24 PM
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Sounds like the typical pua stuff to demonstrate high value. Making an effort to be less attached doesn't make you high value, it does quite the opposite. If you decided to be with her, than actually be with her, don't keep making these "high value" stuff.
/r/seduction24/09/17 09:29 AM
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I'd add "Be good in bed", because lets accept it, it's important.
/r/seduction24/09/17 09:23 AM
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