This is a re-post, but I'll add more content than last time, somehow the old post got deleted. This applies to all forms of communication through text. I'll keep it simple and generic for you to use it on any girl. Gonna try to keep it as dense as possible, the examples are rough. So without further ado, lets see... how to text.

 

INNER GAME

 

Texting is meant to get her on a date. That's it, don't be her best friend and establish a connection and shit, leave that for the date. Have abundance. Text lots of girls, that eliminates neediness, allows you to practice more and see what works (what works well with one girl also works with lots of girls). Be patient, don't freak out after 1h with no response. Adopt a flirtatious vibe, but not a sexual vibe, don't be sexual. Avoid bad texts, if you're not sure about what to say, put the phone away, go do something else and respond later. Not every text requires a response, if you get "Haha", "Ok",... you don't need to respond. Let her be the one ending the conversation. Never get butthurt, never.

 

SOCIAL CAPITAL

 

This method is based on social capital. If you have positive social capital with someone they talk to you, if you have negative social capital they don't, the "zero" depends from person to person. The more social capital you have, the more you can spend to move the interaction forward. As you increase it, you're gonna hit these stages by order (usually): silence, shit tests, logical texts and positive texts. If it starts going backwards, you're losing social capital.

 

HOW TO GET A SOLID NUMBER

 

Qualify her<sup>1</sup>. Find reasons why you like her, or better yet, make her say why you should like her. Statement of empathy<sup>2</sup>, she's not used to this stuff, make her feel comfortable. Get your number on her phone<sup>3</sup>, if possible make your name stand out ("Nuno the best" for example). Stay 5 minutes after<sup>4</sup>, don't just leave. Be clear on your intentions<sup>5</sup>, don't be a pussy.

"What do you study?" "Law" "(1) That's pretty cool, thought you were a silly girl, but now you actually look smart and educated, I like that" "Thanks" "(2) I know this is weird, but you seem cool, let's exchange social media, if you promise to not stalk me haha" "Haha I'll not" "(3) Ok, I text you, (4) what's your favorite emoji?" "The heart emoji" "No, you're getting the poop emoji" "Noo haha" "Gotta go now, nice to meet you, (5) I'll text you to grab a bite later"

 

FOUR TYPES OF TEXTS

 

Silence: Send value giving texts (don't require a response). Send memes, photos, jokes,... the type of shit you update your social media with. Also applies to first texts. IF it's going well, she's responding fast and suddenly goes silent, you can be more demanding and send something like "...", she probably forgot to reply or didn't saw it. If you get silence again, wait at least 1 day, meanwhile message another girl.

 

Shit tests: Just pass the shit tests and trust she'll respond, don't send nothing else.

 

Logical texts: This is logical answers/questions, stories (i.e. what happened that day), etc. It's nice enough, but doesn't have polarity, it's friendly. Answer the text, but keep the flirtatious vibe, don't let things get boring.

"Today's my bday" "Happy bday, didn't get you a present tho :/ perhaps I can make it up to you somehow"

 

Positive texts: She likes you and it's showing it ("Haha you're funny"). Send her positive texts as well. Once you start getting these, start closing.

 

HOW TO MAKE HER CHASE

 

Strike while the iron is hot, don't wait more than 1 day to start texting her. Don't text too soon or too late, take as much time as she's taking. Not everything needs a response. Also, if it's kinda late at night and you can't meet her, there's no point in texting. Every text you send should have a purpose, if she says "Good night" saying good night back has no purpose. Challenge and tease her, guys are too nice and polite, shit test her back (don't insult). Exchange social media if you have a decent profile.

 

CLOSING

 

Think of it as a closing sequence, you start really vague and make it more clear, don't layout the date in one text. Use yes ladders, instead of saying yes to a big thing, make her say yes to small things that lead to the big thing. Avoid no ladders, if you get a no, avoid saying something that will get another no, it'll destroy your social capital. Do soft plans, something casual and fun to not pressure her... in other words, don't take her to a restaurant ffs. Schedule it to the closest day possible, if it's 1 or 2 days ahead don't plan every detail, so you can confirm the date later (you can text her in the date day "Let's meet at 8pm" to see if it's still on). Don't go cold after scheduling, keep her warmed up and try to not say too much stupid shit that turns her off.

"Do you have time for cool people on your schedule?" "I do" "Drinks at X place?" "Sounds good" "How's your schedule" "I'm free tonight and Friday" "Tonight is fine"

 

BONUSES

 

Calibration: See what humor she has, what messages work, what makes her go silent, etc. Adapt your writing style to hers (if "she writes like this" write like that, if "She writes like this.", write like that).

 

Emojis: she can't hear your tone of voice, so send stuff like ";)" when you're joking or trying to be naughty or some shit. Don't spam emojis... that's gay.

 

Questions: Try to avoid them if possible. Instead of "What's your car?" send "Tell me what car you have" or "What's your car" if you're lazy like me.

 

Long texts: Don't send them, send 2 or 3 phrases maximum. Don't send them all together, send one phrase at a time.

 

Phone calls: If you're not experienced with girls, I don't recommend you doing it. If you are, these are gold. We're not in 1980, it's awkward for most girls to talk on the phone, they prefer texting. So wait until you get positive texts to do it. She has to be on the phone, so call her only when she's texting you and at home (not in her job or some shit, try to call at night). If she doesn't answer, ignore it and keep texting the next day ("Never heard back from you, hope you had a good night"). Talk with her for a bit and close.

 

Sexting: Very hard to do, very flaky, requires a shit ton of social capital, I wouldn't do it. It's easier to go on a date where you can actually fuck her. However, here's my tips on it (I do it very rarely, so take this with caution). Keep it fun and light-hearted at first, kinda like two kids that are seeing each other's "parts" for the first time (not the most conservative example, but fuck it, you get the point). With pics, troll someone with her where you send "nudes" to another person (works better if it's a guy, because "you're pretending to be gay" or whatever) and show to your girl that you actually did it. Kinda hard to explain, I'm gonna put an example (https://imgur.com/a/CP7g7 Context: we play a game and we're teammates, the other guy is one of the enemies, please don't steal my shit). It's the safest way that I know. From there you can escalate, demand pics from her, etc. Needless to say, you need a decent body for this. With words, you want to move the conversation in a way where both of you start sharing crazy stories that happen to be sexual (first it's just slightly sexual, leave the hot ones to the end). The more she shares, the more you share - she has to be interested tho. You'll reach a point where she'll ask for details. Take the opportunity to explain everything in more and more detail as if you were doing it to her. Manwhore has good tips on this, "Manwhore how to sext" look it up.

 

Pretty much all I know about texting, and pretty much all you have to know about texting. Should take you like 5 or 10 texts to get a date. Hope it was helpful. Test it before saying it doesn't work.

 

Enjoy ;)