But like honestly, I feel when I stop trying that's when everything works out. I understand Lao Tzu now, action through in-action. We're too objective minded and see it as skill to be attained, but like come on, women are not inanimate objects, we're dealing with human beings that come with variables that are out of our control. Why should we place how we feel based off a 50-50 gamble, just enjoy the process of pushing yourself outside ur comfort zone and talking/interaction with amazing girls of our choice. Your putting invitations out in the world and some will dig it and others won't.