Hello, I hope my clickbait title got you nice and warmed up to answer some questions I have.

So my backstory to being a virign still is basicly lack of confidence. which, as I've seen on this sub so far, is the key to most problems with getting a relationship (or simply some action). I feel like I have a few basic questions one would ask their friends. But although I have good friends I've never realy opened up to them enough to ask awkward questions. And "at this point I'm afraid to ask".

Ok, I have been in the postion a few times where it was late, some beers were had and I was dancing with a passion and a girl would come dance more or less infront of me or obviously closer (believe me, I'm not the sort of person to see 'a move' where there are none). In these moments I totally draw a blank on what to do and basicly keep awkwardly dancing until they go away even if I do find them attractive/interesting. What do you guys do? do you get closer, do you strike up a conversation somehow?

Then the second thing. The last time i kissed a girl was about ten years ago. I recently tried ending this win-streak by testing the waters with a friend of about a year. Again, it was'nt like I set my hopes on a friend-zoned situation. The two of us have had a strange flirty relationship for a year and basicly friend-zoned each other...if that's a thing. We were at a party and she was going home. So I said I'll walk ya out. (supersmooth) I caught on pretty quick she was'nt interested and we had a little talk about it. She had the feeling of sometimes liking me and other times not. The same feelings I had towards her actualy. (She apologized the next day about giving off the vibe of being interested and my curent mindset on her is: Ok, too bad, its not meant to be) Anyway this whole story is more of a lead up to the question: How do seperate an (actualy interested) girl from the group and how do you initiate the kiss? (let's try to keep wingmen/women out of it).

Hope you didn't mind the unnecessary details, but honestly its pretty theraputic to type it out! English is not my native language, so go easy on me ;)

Thanks for your insights!