So I met this girl on the second day of my fall classes and we've been inseparable since. We eat lunch together a couple times a week, we share food, we joke around with each other, and She lends me her parking pass.
I can talk to her like a human, like a best friend really. I don't over do the serious talking because I don't want to give her a shoulder to cry on. But we play well with each other, we shoot the shit together and walk around doing nothing until we have to split ways.
Recently I've been upping my kino and touching the small of her back when it is appropriate. I've also been trying to give her some subtle hints of how I feel about her.. She started messaging me during class back and fourth through email and chatting away. she said something in context, "Well look at you" .. I replied saying, "I'd rather look at you"
I'm not sure if that makes you cringe or not, but I think she liked it. She looked at me, I looked at her, we held contact, I winked and she blushed and turned back to her laptop. We split ways for lab and didn't get a chance to walk her to her car that night, so I figured I'd leave her a note on her car. (She commutes an hour to school), So I wrote 'Drive home safe ... see you tomorrow ;)'
She texted me when she got it and I kept it cool for the rest of the night being simple and brief.
Today when we got lunch, she pulls her chair 90 degrees of me at a 2 person table. We're talking, eating our mac n cheese, once again shooting the shit talking casually. She's playing with her hair awfully a lot. We walk to my car to move it to the garage, I ask her if she wants to play a game, the one someone posted here about the long walk/short walk to your lovers house, you take so and so amount of roses, etc.. She enjoyed it when I told her what the interpretations meant. She walks me to my class and tells me she's going to a club meeting, she needed to change her clothes and would have been embarrassed if I saw her in her uniform. Does that mean anything?
Every time we split ways, I feel like I missed an opportunity. But I just don't see a lead to move in. I'm fairly good at holding my eye contact, I do the triangular eye-to-eye-to-mouth back to eyes thing.
I know there is no perfect way to do this, there is no to go to thing to say to make it work. But I would kindly appreciate any tips you might have for my scenario.
Edit: anyone else?
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