Can't seem to find anyone I'm that attracted to

kwarkje · 2017-10-31T19:08:16+00:00

Subconciously, you're looking for another girl that is at the same level of attractiveness or higher as the previous girl. But now the bar is set pretty high so as a result it's becoming tougher to find that particular level of attractiveness. My advice sounds sounds kinda dull, but give it time and keep meeting girls and eventually you'll find a great girl that you can get along with, if not even better than the first one

NoloRadio · 2017-11-01T04:48:07+00:00

First, seriously, pat yourself on the back for having standards, because standards are fucking awesome and a lot of people mistakenly think they don't have the luxury of having them, when in fact they're devoting a lot of time to pursuing and dating incompatible women who don't make them particularly happy (and in many cases very unhappy)--time that could be spent on both introspection (to figure out what, and who, they really want) and on improving their lifestyle to be more attractive.

Second, cast a wider social net. Instead of specifically looking for girls to ask out who meet your standards, think about who you know who has positive qualities in common with the kinds of women you're attracted to. Go make new friends who are stylish and fun and interesting, and you're more likely to meet compatible women.

Title	Can't seem to find anyone I'm that attracted to
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	7
Comments	2
Date	October 31, 2017 4:32 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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