How to attract girls when you are "not their type"?

TheXXL · 2017-11-22T12:55:30+00:00

I recommend you to stop thinking in stereotypes.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-11-22T13:44:06+00:00

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I'm attracted to alternative girls (tattoos, piercings, etc) but I'm not alternative myself.

Irrelevant. You going to tell me you've never seen opposites attract? That's a phrase, for a reason.

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I'm also very into Asian girls but I'm brown skinned, and We know that Asian girls are into white guys mostly.

We know nothing of the sort. You have CHOSEN to believe that all Asian girls are not going to be attracted to you.

Which is fucking ridiculous. I know Asian girls who fucking specialize in dating "brown-skinned" dudes. Like that's their preference.

In any case, who made you into a psychic? Oh, you're not? Well, then stop pretending as if you can read minds. Because you can't. You have to actually get off your ass and interact with girls before you can know their preference.

Though one thing is, if you go in assuming that they're not going to like you, you're going to repel 100% of the girls you interact with. So I guess you can pretend you can read minds, because you're going to go in and stack the deck against yourself, with your assumptions.

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PS: It is not a matter of not feeling handsome enough.

It is.

The issue is that this brain of yours is working against you. The fight is inside your brain. You probably have two narratives running through your head.

A negative one. A voice that looks for the most negative interpretation of the data available.
A positive one. A hopeful voice that wants to believe in something better.

The problem is, neither one of these voices is precisely "true." So it takes some work for you to establish a courtroom in your head that weighs the evidence so you're not fucking yourself constantly by only believing one voice all the time.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-11-22T13:45:09+00:00

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Title	How to attract girls when you are "not their type"?
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Date	November 22, 2017 12:42 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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