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[–]brianbria 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Start asking girls in real life on dates more often. Get rejected more, get more success, and realise that many girls don't give that much of a fuck about your looks as you do, they're probably thinking more about how they look. Seriously I'm a skinny fat, and I consider myself pretty ugly sometimes, I judge myself a bit harshly too, I'm probably just average looking. But I have realised that girls don't care, so why should I? One girl was self concious about her stomach while with me in bed, and I was like "wtf" in my head, coz mine was clearly way bigger than hers, and hers was basically flat. Everyone has their own insecurities, so do what I said above.
And if it's really bothering you try changing the things you hate about your looks not for the girls, but so that your own inner critic can shut up once in a while. If you think you're fat, lose weight, if you hate your hair, change it, if you want better clothes, get better clothes.
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