So the advice was that upon meeting, you are using these questions would put yourself in control of the frame interaction early on instead of letting her set the frame. Such as, what do you do, where are you from, etc. At a non stop pace

This conflicts how I learned seduction first, to not scare the girl off and may be putting value on them if you keep asking about them. They say she'll be overwhelmed which is good, but I would think they're be like why do many damn questions! So I'm confused. Thoughts??