Tomorrow, I'm gonna push myself completely out my comfort zone and join my friends who've had a couple successes through street approaches.
About me: 20 years old, 6'0, looks wise im a 4-7/10 depending on the day lool. Decent build from gym, but no muscular frame yet. Confidence is very weak, i relied on drinking to cover my lack of confidence in clubs, but I've realised that this is a band aid, not a cure to my current condition.
My aim is to reflect on how I approach in order to gain the quickest success I can. By writing this post, I hold myself accountable, and open myself up to receiving criticism, while hopefully motivating others in my situation and showing them a real and natural progression in confidence in this area. I am back from university for a month, in which I will be studying, lifting and approaching a couple times a week.
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Day 1: On the way there, my goal was to get over AA and approaching 10 girls was the way i thought I could do this. First girl, ~26 years old, she was still taking pictures and I went for it after my friend telling me it was a great chance. I noticed that as I spoke to her, I was speaking too fast, too many questions, and the convo went nowhere. She thanked me and that was it. Lessons to learn, talk slower, less questions, deeper, more confident voice. Instantly, I felt accomplished! On to the next!
Second girl, amaaazing figure, I thought fuck it lemme try. She was walking by quickly and i tried to stop her. She looked alarmed or annoyed and continued walking. Ouch. My friend said that my attempt in stopping her was too half hearted, and i needed to be more assertive with her. More to improve on.
Third girl is where things got interesting. Instantly off the bat, she seemed really nice and talkative which helped me get out of my head. We spoke about religion, self improvement, I teased her by making banter about something she did, we spoke about what we did. The convo went on for 10-15 mins before i decided this is quite long, lemme wrap it uppp. I asked for her number, she said she wasnt sure, i told her its cool, if ur not into it, no worries. She said she was interested, but i was a bit too young for her (she's 25, i told her i was 22 ;) ). The convo went on for a bit after that and i think i won her over on my knowledge on various topics. Secured the ting.
4th girl, walking fast, tried to stop her, she just looked at me. -_-. To be fair, at this point, i was so comfortable that I laughed at the situation, moved on.
5th girl, standing around. I suprised myself with this one. I was so confident and smiley, my voice was confident and assertive. Alas, she had a bf.
All in all, Im glad that I could implement my lessons from previous approaches, and got a number off a girl that is genuinely cool and attractive, and was interested in me (whaat???). I've seen a little glimpse of what is possible with day game, and will do another FR after a couple days (gonna study and lift for a couple days). I'm very happy i approached, my friend thought that i wouldn't do any, so was very impressed. The most negative point is that at least 15 girls he pointed to that I should approach, that i said no to.
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