A month ago I turned 33 and found out my gf of 4 years was cheating on me. I was crushed, but I live in NYC and am starting to feel optimistic—there are beautiful women everywhere. Am I too old to approach them? Worried it’s too late for me, but I need to get my life back on track.

Beach155 · 2017-12-17T05:04:00+00:00

HELL NO DUDE! Get out there and have a great fuckin time. You're 33 you aren't old yet, go out there and enjoy the fuck out of life!

TheRedKeepx · 2017-12-17T05:17:40+00:00

NYC has a very high ratio of women to men. Men are hard to come by there and know it. Your smv should be super high there especially at your age.

CollaterLDamage · 2017-12-17T03:46:42+00:00

you can still go clubbing.on of the major reasons older men dont do the club life is because the type of women you usually get there. the major benefit is that compared to day game, getting a women is much easier which helps increase confidence.

day game you can say is open to all ages. its simply learning the art of small talk and adding some flirty undertones.plus you can find someone with some common interests.

important note regarding age: a girl saying youre too old doesnt mean anything unless she explicitly ends the conversation because of it, best advice i can give is treat it as a shit test.

pezzatheswirly · 2017-12-18T01:13:59+00:00

Man that sucks. I'd be more than devastated in your situation. You are not too old at all. Best of luck for the future.

mattman840 · 2017-12-17T18:35:42+00:00

im in the same boat...just turned 33 yesterday and broke up with my fiance after being together for 7+ years. its weird being single again, but liberating at the same time. i've had those same thoughts of "am i past my dating window...? 33 sounds old..." but its all a matter of perspective...

33 should be appealing to most women as by now, hopefully, you have a solid career going and have set yourself up for long term success. thats typically something women find attractive - security in ones self and career.

its only too late if you make it too late...words im trying to fully absorb and put into practice myself.

Marcoss24 · 2017-12-18T16:50:47+00:00

Na your good bro,actually sometimes I wish I was older because most women these days like older men I'm 22 and even alot of girls I know like guys in their 30's

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