I don’t know where to start but i will keep this as short as possible but. I am 19 almost 20 year old guy Asian guy (Korean), i am average or above average height and looks, i work out 3-4 times a day and have hobbies. i think i have a pretty good but strange personality and i think i am funny and charismatic but i have never dated or kissed a women. I am currently living in a moderently medium town, there is no where to hang out or clubs or any place to meet women expect thru school, I am currently in a medium size community college and going to transfer to 4 year university later down the road. I love women (pretty sure everyone who browses this sub is) but can’t attract ANY girls, i don’t know what i am doing wrong and this is fustrating, i even ask women what i can do better on or any advice and they don’t give me any. Maybe my conversation isn’t good enough maybe i am to nice maybe i am not showing interest, , maybe girls really love me but i am not showing interest or asking them out” who knows but i can easily get numbers but their either 99% flaky, not intersted in me or have a 100% rejection rate, and what i noticed is that women tend to get annoyed of me some reason and i can’t figure out what they are annoyed of and if it’s just my personality then i can’t change that. I get so upset, jealous that other guys like my friends can get somebody and sometimes i browse this subreddit i get upset because at least some people here are getting somewhere and i am still stuck at phase 1. I am so tired of women saying “you have amazing personality”, “you will eventually find someone” or “any girl would be lucky to have you” etc etc and thinking about women or my failures makes me really upset and feel like i wanna cry because in my mind i feel like i can’t get any women and want to give up on my dreams at becoming better at seduction, but my other side of me give me motivation and telling me that i will succeed. I still have approach anxiety and still haven’t approached anybody outside of school but Once i get into 4 year university I will try and go to bar and clubs and work my way there. I just don’t know where to start or work on to get better, i want to break my 100% rejection rate, depression, insecurity and other stuff and achieve my goal.

Can anybody show me a diagram or tell me on what i should work on first and after that? Because i feel like i need to take baby steps and get the basic mechanics down.