How do I deal with jealousy with girls?

2017-12-30T23:08:00+00:00

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Ikantbeliveit · 2017-12-30T21:43:44+00:00

I never thought I'd be 'that guy' but I rightly feel extremely pathetic.

Good, you know that this sucks. But the good news is that I am sure you are talking to people who made the same mistakes as you and felt utterly pathetic.

I was a V for a very long time. Like think of the most pathetic age for dating male to be a V, then add 1.

I am not going to brag, but my life with women now is utterly amazing.

It took a long time, it took a lot of reading (Mark Manson is my favorite, followed by Dr. Love and his genius book).

But mostly, it took the knowledge that I wasn't going back to feeling like the pathetic lonely loser in my basement crying for a year about a girl who rejected me.

You literally have all the tools we have thanks to the internet, there is no magic solution, you just have to work on yourself.

PM me if you want the link to the Dr. Love book, it was amazing for me, and I hope it does the same for you. Best of luck

recyclablebanthas · 2017-12-31T07:35:56+00:00

considering how insecure I am and have no friends

So what you need to do is find a mixed group of people to join with. You're trying to find friends at the same time you're trying to make friends, and mixing these two efforts is fucking you up. So focus on getting a social circle first. There are a lot of things you could try. These groups make FB groups for themselves and freely promote their events online for people to join in.

Hash runs. Trail running + beer + fit people = win
Couchsurfing meets. Hang with travelers and people who like to be around travelers.
Social partner dancing. Salsa, Lindy Hop, West Coast Swing, Argentine Tango, etc. You really can't go wrong. Learn something fun and have an excuse to be close to a girl in a fun and non-threatening way. (Just respect it as an activity & means of self-improvement first, and place to meet women second.)
Download the Meet-up app. Scan for groups near you that you share an interest with.

Title	How do I deal with jealousy with girls?
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Date	December 30, 2017 8:49 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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