I'd say I'm a pretty tough guy. I go to the gym to lift weights and do cardio every day. I do boxing and wrestling for my university. I've been in several fights before and have held my ground in almost all of them.

However, I'm a huge pacifist. I'm the kind of guy who prefers "brains over brawn." The only times I ever really use physical force is if someone actually starts a fight with me or someone I care about and even then, I almost always go for putting them in a full nelson (not trying to hurt them, but disabling their ability to fight any longer.)

My question is, will girls be turned off by the fact that I don't really like to fight? I've always seen starting fights as a sign of low intelligence and immaturity. If I have to fight, I'm pretty capable of holding my own, but I am by no means the kind of guy who will use physical force as a means of solving problems unless it's absolutely necessary.