Drinking and pickup

Hellolemonde1234 · 2018-01-10T13:05:21+00:00

Yeah man, I mean if you do something, you will most likely gain in self esteem. You should avoid always doing it after drinks because it may create the false idea that you could only do it with booze which is false !

In the end girls just want to meet people and have fun like you do, remember, if you act cool and relax, people and not just girls would like that. Same thing goes with you, if a girl was always acting weirdly (like awkward) you would not be attracted.

recyclablebanthas · 2018-01-10T13:38:50+00:00

What you need to do is find a way to warm up without substance use.

This is very doable. If you find ways to develop and practice your social skills in some lower pressure situations, you'll be better equipped to handle it when you talk to girls you're interested in.

One way to do this is to find mixed groups of men and women and just go to events with these groups to socialize. There are plenty of these groups that you can find on FB in FB groups and events. Or via Google searches.

Hash runs. Trail running + beer + fit people = win
Couchsurfing meets. Hang with travelers and people who like to be around travelers.
Social partner dancing. Salsa, Lindy Hop, West Coast Swing, Argentine Tango, etc. You really can't go wrong. Learn something fun and have an excuse to be close to a girl in a fun and non-threatening way. (Just respect it as an activity & means of self-improvement first, and place to meet women second.)
Download the Meet-up app. Scan for groups near you that you share an interest with.

levelUpLA · 2018-01-10T23:44:08+00:00

I think RSD fucked this up for me personally. I was in the same boat man, I can tell you from experience I wish I never listen to RSD. It looks fucken odd to have all your friends drinking and you don't even have a sip.

The key is to fucken babysit and act drunk as your friends. (plenty of easy ways to do this, get a used shot glass and say you already did your shot at the bar, say you did shots with hot girls, etc) but the reason your getting blitz drunk is that you are feeling very judged to be doing something wrong, you feel like your doing something wrong because a thing called imposter syndrome ( you don't feel like a sex worthy guy)

Title	Drinking and pickup
Author	danielinthebox
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	January 10, 2018 12:27 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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