Finally got the courage to approach

Iwillgetmy_fairshare · 2018-01-14T21:02:56+00:00

Got to have the abundance mentality. You will meet another girl tomorrow. No big deal.

UltraconservativeTen · 2018-01-14T20:29:01+00:00

Are you saying that the girl you approached in the club rejected you, because it wasn't quite clear from the post? Anyways, I would say don't get too invested before you even start.

Yeah, rejection can be a bitch, and you will certainly get rejected by many women. For some rejection feels good because they gave it a shot, and they don't have to wonder about what might have been or could have been.

dasodabwd · 2018-01-14T23:16:12+00:00

This was just me the other night. Except one difference between us, I got rejected 5 times. And you know what? I’m going to keep going back out there and getting rejected, because I know I’m going to get better! I think you have to approach this with an abundance mentality and give your self more opportunities to approach girls. It seems like you were already fixated on talking to a girl you had already met. The time between that initial reaction and the time you had the balls to go up to her again left you thinking about her that whole time. Thus giving you a sort of oneitis mentality. You should waste no time approaching and executing your game.

helpfuldoorstop · 2018-01-15T05:07:04+00:00

If you had he mindset that you were going to get this girls number, go on dates with her, marry her than ya it’ll hurt. If you had no expectations and just went to talk, then it hurts a lot less and is easier to make good conversation when you’re not focused on a goal(darn I need to make a move, man I’ve got to get the conversation to keep going so I can get her number) get rid of those thoughts and it’s just a regular conversation with another person, if it goes well then you can say to yourself ( shit she’s cool, I’m gonna ask for her number now)

Title	Finally got the courage to approach
Author	Watcheronthewalll
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	January 14, 2018 8:23 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7qecjh/finally_got_the_courage_to_approach/
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