Hey, what's up motherfuckers.

This is my first Field Report.

Here's a soundtrack to listen to while reading, Built To Spill is one of my favorite bands. Listen to the atmosphere, the rising guitar and the lyrics to get the most of the song.

Built To Spill - Going Against Your Mind

I've been approaching a lot lately, really trying to work on my game and improve myself as a man.

There's been a few lessons that have been the result of this weeks nose to the grindstone.

Pick-up Advice May Work For One Guy, But Not For You

This has been a pretty hard hitting lesson to learn, I've missed out on probably 3 girls because of this mistake. The big problem I'm talking about here is "Rambling". Rambling as you know it, is basically talking about random shit until she finds something interesting in your words and picks up the conversation. After trying this tactic in the field, I've come to the conclusion that it doesn't work for me. It comes off too-try-hard. I'm not eloquent when I speak, trying to ramble about bullshit is hard for me and whatever I say comes out as a bloody mess.

The proper road to seduction is, ATTRACTION -> COMFORT -> TOUCH -> SEX . Attraction is started by teasing her, giving her shit, charming her and being flirty. This the framework I want to go with.

Before I move onto the next topic, I want to discuss the word "Flirty". This word, describes the way you should talk to a girl. It's a terrific definition.

When you think of "Flirty",

What do you think of?

I think of fun, lighthearted conversation with seduction glazed over it.

That's EXACTLY how you should talk to a girl.

You want her to react to you, you have to get her reacting to you. That's key. A girl who isn't reacting to you, is a girl who's got a pussy drier than Bob Marley's throat after smoking a bunch of weed. Then when she does react, embrace it, don't take her reactions serious.

Save the really deep questions for after your dick has been in her pussy and she's tasted your cum.

Flirt

I used to do this a lot but I stopped. I think I stopped flirting because I was reading a certain persons blog about girls and it's funnily enough got me in my own head. I try to act like that person, when I'm not him. Not only that, but the message between how he actually seduces and when he write about how he seduces there's a bit of a disconnect.

I guarantee if I hung out with the guy I would see he flirts but his writing sort of skips that.

I have to turn that flirting gene back on, I used to have it. It was there and I was damn good at it too.

I need to find this again.

Girls Just Want To Have Fun

Stop Fucking Hesitating

Game is fast paced, one second of anxiety could lead to missing the opportunity.

I've had a few girls that I felt a strong connection with slip through my fingers because I hesitated to approach them for a brief 10 seconds.

Act fast and be decisive.

Pick A "Method"

Just like with anything, pick someone who has results and learn from them just be careful with bravado, some guys have a lot of bravado and can distort the learning process.

I've been trying to learn game through my own means and I haven't gotten anywhere with it. Now I've picked a style and person I like and I'm listening to their advice.

Journal

I've been doing this for years, but when I was doing well at game and I found my journal to be pivotal and funnily enough I find it very inspirational to look back at the pages. That's what made me write down "Flirt" in this post because I haven't been flirting lately and it's been missing from my game.

Any guy who I've known who has gotten good at game has used a journal to re-cap nights and approaches, figuring out what went wrong and what needs to be improved.

The Next Step

Tomorrow I'm going to take into consideration these things I've learned and see what happens. I really want to bring back the flirty person I used to be.