Possessive self burden

oldredder · 2014-12-01T11:56:08+00:00

girls you fuck are possibly out fucking other guys.

I assume they are DEFINITELY fucking other guys, potentially just an hour before or after I see them, and I wrap it the fuck up.

When I don't feel like dealing with that I just do anything else not involving women.

animustestandi · 2014-12-01T04:20:38+00:00

If you can't swallow that then probably spinning plates is not your thing. Keep looking for a LTR but don't prioritize that in your life. Just be happy, live like a king and let the women follow. It probably will take more than one try and be very frustrating until you find someone worthy. In fact, you may never find the one you're looking for. Because AWALT.

On a side note: STDs are not fun. A girl who is fucking around is dangerous.

Bushranger00 · 2014-12-01T08:12:01+00:00

By not fucking just one girl. I also went to the extreme measure and had a plate who was a stripper and an escort so that any parts of my brain that had tendencies to become jealous or possessive would be totally crushed. This of course is because my last LTR 3 years ago, I did have a jealous streak (pre-RP) and knew it would come back to bite me if I didn't get rid of it.

Patrice O'Neil had an excellent segment on his show where he explained that one way to truly get over being jealous is to watch your girl get fucked by another dude.

I'm off on Holiday soon and I know that all of my plates will fuck others while I'm away, without a doubt. I also know I won't be able to pick up from where I left off, but I am cool with that because there are plenty of other girls out there and I will be fucking other girls while on Holiday.

P.S I am not advising you to do that, that was just how I overcame one of my character flaws.

boxofcookies101 · 2014-12-01T19:04:40+00:00

Depends what angle your pushing tbh. Is it a territorial/jealousy thing？ or is it a worry about STD thing？

If it's a STD thing. Well I personally make all my plates exclusive plates. To minimize on disease and such. When we're fucking she's only fucking me. Do I honestly believe they're only fucking me？Some of them yes.

And if we split for whatever reason before I ask: they know because I'm non judgemental they can tell me. If they say they have I tell them to get tested.

This approach flys a bit on the dangerous side because they'll get mad attached and might look for something more. But make it clear that you fuck other women that's in the exact same boat she's in. All tested and such.

If you don't care about the STD thing. And its territorial you gotta find the root of why you even give a fuck about the other guys to begin with？Is it a immorality thing i.e. she's a slut. (But that's why she's a plate, no？) or is it that you feel threatened by the presence of other dicks in her life.

If its the threatening of other dicks. Crush that shit immediately. I can't remember which book this is from but there was a story about a guy (who I'll name Bob) went to a biker club a large muscular guy mentioned that he was lucky to have the girl that he had. And the muscle guy replied that she was lucky to have him. Then Bob said he told the guy he was going to go get some beers and to take a shot at picking up his girl. Bob comes back and Bob say's are you going home with him tonight？She then punched muscle guy on the arm and laughed. Guess who she went home with？Bob.

The point of the story however remeber that you yourself is the prize. Remeber that you are the shit and she's lucky to have you. So if she falls off the fuck train and breaks as a plate so be it. So if you're the prize to be won and you know she's trying to get your dick. The other guys aren't even relevant.

kingofpoplives · 2014-12-01T21:01:40+00:00

Just look at the positives. The more they are involved with other guys, the less they will try to pressure you into a relationship, and the less drama and emotional stress when things finally come to an end.

Also, be grateful for the freedom you have to pursue other women and everything else you enjoy in life.

Title	Possessive self burden
Author	LittleBrother21
Upvotes	5
Comments	5
Date	December 1, 2014 2:39 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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