The Paradox of Emotional Investment (Keeping a girl you love)

Jackieoo00 · 2018-01-29T15:08:11+00:00

Making her chase you is how you attract her and get her to invest. After she has sex with you and makes her emotional investment then you have the option to pursue a deeper relationship. The rules for establisbing intimacy are different than the rules for building attraction. In the begginning you tip the balance of power in your favor in order to demonstrate to her that you are valuable. Once she acknowledges that you have to be willing to let go of some of the power and become vulnerable to her if you trust her. You can always use your attraction building skills in the relationship to give her emotional spikes and get her to invest more in you if she is driftinf away or things grow stale and boring, but its not an everyday thing. The goal is to get to a point you dont have to game the girl in order for her to appreciate you and stay committed to you. If you do then you probably just picked the wrong girl to have a relationship with

Azelastine · 2018-02-02T16:09:55+00:00

I can share 2 cents on this. I had an ex who was in love with me and practically offered to have sex with me, I was young and selfish, at first I kept her as gf because I was an AFC who has no idea how to pick up a 7+, in the early phase of the relationship I was absolutely dominating, until I actually fall in love with her, yah, I became needy, it was a slow death for my personality, and a year later the statues completely turned around and she dumped me lmao. Now looking back it’s just nothing but funny and pathetic, 90% of men who’s in a committed relationship more or less stayed because of the difficulty to find another girl, if every man who breakup with his gf immediately get a 8+ new gf, let’s just see how many of the couple people deemed as great would break. it’s just too hard to find a opposite sex you can call soul mate, and every time you dump your gf you risk being along for a very long time, unless you know your game well, so being able to pick up girl easily will improve your chance of meeting what people call ‘true love’

Title	The Paradox of Emotional Investment (Keeping a girl you love)
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Date	January 29, 2018 2:42 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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