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Should I go for it

morebaked · 2014-12-02T07:18:34+00:00

Hey met a girl like two months ago she was either busy as fuck or not into me, very unresponsive by text so I soft nexted. Suddenly I got a fat text today...

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December 2, 2014

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Title	Should I go for it
Author	morebaked
Upvotes	1
Comments	21
Date	December 2, 2014 7:18 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2o0ym3/should_i_go_for_it/
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[–][deleted] 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]morebaked[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

[–]morebaked[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

I gotcha. Don't ask her about it. You can instead set up some plans to get drinks or whatever in the next few days or when she's around. Then when the time comes, text her and say "yeahh, you know I don't really feel like hitting the bars tonight, why don't you come over my place instead we can make dinner together/get pizza/movies/have a drink and enjoy". Whatever fits your situation.

If she's up for it, then plan on fucking her. Constantly escalate the touching and the sensual feeling through the night, where you're smiling at each other and such, while she's over. Be playful, a total tease. You touch her, she pushes your hand away "I'm not that kind of girl!", you're like "oh okayyyy" and just grin. Five mins later, you're making out and you touch her again, this time things going that little bit further, till she stops you again. Back and forth, back and forth, until you're balls deep in that shit fucking her and she loves it.

[–]morebaked[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (15 children) | Copy Link

Ahh yea, I figure she's atleast somewhat attracted since usually I wouldn't get a message out of the blue like that. Though I'm not sure if she's down since she's like 29 lol but I'm like 20(21 in febuary) though because she's from Japan and almost 30 still single she's probably more desperate than an 18 year old BP virgin. I'll try to feel it out when I see her. Though we won't be hanging out until like January when the new quarter starts and she moves into a place nearby. I have another girl that seems down though I can share that convo if you like.

Would be good to get an opinion on my text game which is pretty weak

Oh also this is a stupid question that doesn't deserve its own thread,but sometimes im just chilling with a chick and I can tell they start breathing more or breathing deeper because either I can hear them or see their chests move from deep breaths. Is this them getting turned on and should I just man up and go hard at that point

[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (14 children) | Copy Link

Go for it, you'll get lots of good advice from dudes here on text game.

It's good that you're already comfy enough you're noticing things like how she's breathing, that's the pathway toward fuckin jedi mind tricks levels of game. Next time you're noticing it, there's no need to try and decide what it means. Instead see if you can match it. Meaning, make your own breathing be in rhythm and bring it to match how she's breathing.

After a few delicious moments (doesn't even matter what BS the two of you are verbally discussing), you could go:

"Amy listen...(breath, breath) I don't know what it is, but there's just... an amazing connection I feel with you, beautiful... can you feel it too...right...HERE", you touch her chest or tummy, and sometimes you can just leave that hand there, circling...

"Yeahhhhh, Morebaked.... oh my god what's happening to us... I totally wasn't going to fuck you tonight..."

"I know. Come here little bird, I'll set you free."

Shit like this hits chicks like it's a sledgehammer. Sometimes they can start to experience some pleasant mild visual hallucinations ("there was something in the air!") and orgasm just from thinking about how you touched her hand, if done well.

If women were like men, then trying some shit like this would get you smacked and you'd get told "dude, what the fuck is this? what connection, shut the fuck up or start making some sense here." But they're women, so instead you get reallllly big doe-like eyes and she's staring at you in awe, thinking "this is what I always wanted, and no guy ever did for me quite like that!!".

[–]morebaked[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (11 children) | Copy Link

Checked out your screenies. That girl's interested in you (i.e. you're one of her current targets).

You're totally boring the poor thing right into the ground man! When you're texting that girl something, ask yourself this, can what I'm asking her about be put in a spreadsheet, diagram, or list of facts? If yes, don't send that shit, re-think it to add some kind of emotional flair or excitement, or at least a funny of some sort. Try to completely exclude comments about anything that's a drag, negative, or boring. Your life is always vivid and exciting, even if you're currently in prison, let her feel like she's the boring one compared to you.

Girl's giving you alot of credit, nastier bitches would've instantly nexted your ass when they heard all that "what's your schedule like...yeah the bus is a pain in the winter time...oh I'm fine yea cept my hemmorids bothering me again...can't walk so far from the library building where I'm intensely reading the phonebook right now..."

You want to find out what her schedule's like to make plans with her, that's legit, but do it the roundabout way, for example:

"I know this cozy coffee shop, you won't believe the artwork at that place. Local student artists. "

"Yeah, it's fucking awesome, we need to go there when you're in town & hang. You ever go to places like that to do yer homework and just look sexy so all the guys swivel their heads at you? haha Id do it everyday if I was a girl..."

Retarded hypothetical situations (especially if they're kinda about sex, but not really - plausible deniability), embrassing ideas, dumb ass things "your friend" once did, these are your friends, to get away from skullcrushing boredom of "so what's your schedule like".

[–]morebaked[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Yea, I think I wasn't so into it but I don't know if she's interested, we met two months ago, I talked to her pretty much nexted Her because she didn't reply much or didn't say much. And she wasn't down to hang out just the two of us so I figured no. Just was confused at the sudden 180 she's giving me.

She mentioned not being able to until January so I didn't bother starting the process of making the plan just wanted to see when her classes are so I don't have to waste time inviting in days she's busy. She's not super sexy so I am sure if she was interested that's why she didn't next me. I'd post what we said today but it was im japanese.

I've also been in the camp of saying very little over text and only text going over logistics. I've got the #1 potential plate texts I can share also.

[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

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[–]SkorchZang1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]morebaked1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]SkorchZang1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Nice going!

Sometimes you can get a lot of "mystery" mileage out of never telling the chick where you're going or what you're going to do. Can mysteriously tell her what to wear/bring instead. Drives some of them insane, in a good way. All you say is, "where are we going? that's for me to know, for you to find out", or simply "oh you'll see...", and keep deflecting her attempts to make you tell her.

Try not to let them have any weasel-excuses for flaking, i.e. the weather. "How will we decide the weather?", she asked. "If it's nice, then it's nice. If it rains, then it's romantic. Lol. There, I decided it for you."

You're kinda planning away the whole date, including her asking her roomies if she can fuck you. That's going to put many girls into backtrack mode, because they want shit to "just happen", and seem like it's unplanned... or at least she never planned to end up fucking you, she was just there to see what you're about. Then you totally seduced her and she couldn't resist.

The rest was handled very nice and should bring you some good luck man! Good balance of "careless lazy" and "goes for what he wants".

[–]morebaked1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

nice, Acutally I did that before. I was pretty much going to do this with a girl before and i just said ok make sure youre free all day. so then later I checked back in with her and she said yea she did and she asked what we were doing I asked if she wanted to know now or be surprised later.

as for the weather she meant if its raining we take the bus to the place instead of walking all the way there. Or if it isnt we will walk there.

yea Typically i shouldnt tell her everything were going to do I think.

Actually one of my friends told me she has a boyfriend back in japan and she wants to practice english with me. What should I do about this? My time is too precious to waste it being a fucking english teacher especially if I dont get shit out of it. But it's from what you've seen she may be willing to do shit

[–]SkorchZang1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]morebaked1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link