Girl sent me a snapchat of her fingering herself, she prolly likes me yeah? (Fake warning I have aspergers)

2018-02-04T05:20:07+00:00

Aspergers guy here, yeah, definite mixed messages, i'd possible give this one a miss.

She likes the attention.

zfgee · 2018-02-04T06:39:27+00:00

She's been testing you (talking about her ex, stopping you going an further, saying she's not really into you etc).

She's also seeking validation by sending the pics.

You're not the only one those pics have gone to.

Tell her you'd prefer to be the one taking the photos/filming and arrange a date for next week. Be a leader.

partyflex · 2018-02-04T07:33:25+00:00

Wasin this exact situation except was fucking the girl for months while we were "exclusive" sent me all kinds of nudes and videos etc. then out of the blue ends things with me and says she was sending pictures/videos to other guys. In hindsight she was definitely just using me for validation but hey you win some and you lose some that's life! I can't tell you for sure what's up with this girl but if she's always wishy washy about not knowing what she wants she's probably just looking for attention I'd evacuate now before you get too deep in like me bro, good luck!

recyclablebanthas · 2018-02-04T07:36:45+00:00

I get to first base with this girl I'm friends with. She won't go any further cause she's still feeling her last relationship. This happens like 3 times.

This isn't complicated.

Look at her actions. People are quite clear if you look at what things they make difficult and what things they make easy.

She squashes any chance of something real developing. She's not interested in you romantically. That's clear.
She doesn't mind screwing around with you a little here and there, as a distraction. Kind of like how some people drink to distract themselves from their unhappiness.

The only reason this is complicated is that you want something and you can't figure out why it's so hard for it to come together.

The answer is that it shouldn't be so hard for it to come together.

Sex is a basic drive. Like hunger. When people are hungry, they fucking eat. When they want to be with someone, they do things to try to make it happen.

The fact that she keeps sabotaging things with you guys is that she wants sex, just not really with you.

Title	Girl sent me a snapchat of her fingering herself, she prolly likes me yeah? (Fake warning I have aspergers)
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Date	February 4, 2018 5:17 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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