Went on date with african girl. She wouldn’t kiss me.

TheDandyWarhol · 2018-02-11T22:48:35+00:00

Some girls just don't kiss on the first date. Take her out again.

Futurebrain · 2018-02-11T22:45:42+00:00

What thoughts are you looking for? Sounds like the date went great. I've found sometimes that reluctance in that regard can sometimes be a sign of even greater interest. It funnels into this perception that for a meaningful relationship, girls should go slowly, accurate or not. Go on another one only if you actually want to, focus on escalation and dont be dependant on the outcome of the date being a kiss. And if you're really curious, ask how long she makes guys wait for a kiss in Cameroon. Also, maybe don't focus on continuously establishing the difference between you two in regards to race. You should know that, at least here in America, Black women face a certain stigma about dating white men. Even if she was eating it up, it only is really cementing the differences, consciously or not, in her mind. Establishing similarities and giving her a feeling of comfort will break down that socially constructed wall.

padanis76 · 2018-02-11T22:44:07+00:00

Be happy with friend zone or next her.

Title	Went on date with african girl. She wouldn’t kiss me.
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Date	February 11, 2018 10:22 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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