Quite simply, how do you get women?

It seems "social proof" is what it's all about, in terms of getting laid. How do you have social proof if you cannot be part of a group? How do you work around "lacking social proof"?

If someone is willing to have a bit of patience here, I could explain the many facets about group socializing I hate, and if it's possible for those to be addressed.

The only suggestions I ever get here or anywhere else to attract women is, "join groups, join hobby clubs, join meetups" and you can guess what they all have in common.

So if anyone has been able to "get" women without being a social participant or a "team player" I'd like to know how.

For those who are able to "grin and bear it" and actually use it as a means to an end (as creepy as that sounds, and it may well be creepy.. but let's be honest, some guys are pure introverts and can't be enthusiastic about social rituals) let me know your approach.