I am 26/M. I came to TRP about 8 months ago. She is 24. We live on opposite coasts but will both be home for Xmas.

My lifestyle has recently changed, for example:

I have a couple plates, one is a girl I ended a 2 year relationship soon after discovering the manosphere (about 4 months ago). I have been trying to improve myself via joining a gym and focusing on career (software engineer) and music (in a band). I am looking to move this summer as I want to start fresh in a new city and feel I have been here too long. (goal is June or July)

One big thing that has become a borderline unhealthy obsession in my life is my hatred of feminism and their preference for emotions and lies over logic. I have been watching Karen Straughan, Stefan Moleneaux, reading Year one TRM, NMMNG, all sorts of good stuff. Unfortunately, all of this has led me to constant relapses into the anger phase.

I can not be in a room with a vigilant feminist (there are a few I have to deal with here and there, but can avoid them for the most part). It is a relatively new thing that my sister talks about feminism all the fucking time when I (rarely) see her.

I went to a wedding this fall with my sister and parents and went into a drunken rant (on the drive home with our parents) about how Emma Watson was full of shit and that cunt carrying around a mattress was perpetuating the myth of rape culture and ruining due process across the country. (both subjects she brought up to praise).

I don't want to upset my parents (seeing us fight in our 20s is not something I want to put them through again), but I literally go crazy when she brings up these topics. I also just get really sad when I think about lucky we were growing up and how through this disgusting feminized society she sees her spoiled self as a 'victim of patriarchy'. Christ, we are lucky fucking people, what the FUCK did feminism do to her so she could create herself as a victim in her own head?

Anyways I need to get her an Xmas gift, is there any chance I can get her anything that might set her brain in the right direction (like a fact checker on feminist dogma)? or am I just being bitter immature, and outcome dependent over something unimportant. I think I'm answering my own question here. Sorry for the rant.