I'm in college, and the party girls don't like going on "dates" since that's too formal, and even if you do get a date, you get put in the friendzone since she wants to hook up with other guys, not "date." So, if I get a girl's number at a party or bar, how could I meet her again without going on a date? Like, how could I just hang out with her to hook up? What would I say?