There are few cases where girls are super eager to meet me and they are quite attracted to me.

So when meeting up comes, I tell them to come straight to my place since we dont have to pay money on drinks, I can smoke a shisha and we can put our own music. Honestly my home is better than any bar

But girls put their shields up. Some even stop texting me.

I honestly dont feel like going out of my way because other option would be to meet them outside for a coffee and then babystep till home. But I feel that this is pure manipulation.

Thoughts?