Hey guys! Just a random post I thought I'd share for all the beginner/intermediates out there.

Disclaimer:

  • These are not techniques on how to go for the number close these are techniques that raise the likelihood of her replying when you already have her number and you decide to run your text game.

  • These techniques don't make up for bad game, if you still get fake numbers often or girls that refuse to give you their number then these wont work.

  • These techniques are meant for IRL interactions.

1. Leave Your Phone - Just leave your phone (or pretend to), game as usual then when its time to number close have her save your number then tell her to send you a text with her name. If you're in a club you can leave your phone with your friends, if this is the day time then you can leave your phone in your car. The reason this works is that she basically started the conversation and the way text messaging is structured she will see on the thread that she did indeed send the first text and you're simply replying which makes it more likely for her to just keep it going. She basically was the one that broke the "text barrier". Usually the girl will send something like, "Hi this is Kate." which is usually what guys send and she won't even get to say, "Who's this?" once you text because she sent the first text and your name is already labeled on the thread in her messaging app.

2. Start Texting Right Then and There - If you meet her in the daytime and manage to get her out on an instant date get her number in the middle of the instant date. Once you have her number start sending her texts right then and there while you're still sitting in front of each other. Just text about random stuff. Maybe make fun of the person sitting right next to you or text funny things that wouldn't sound appropriate if said out loud. This is a playful thing to do anyway which improves the quality of the instant date and the social pressure of you sitting right there + the momentum of the conversation you guys are already having pretty much guarantees she'll play along. This works even better in clubs. You can do the same thing as the instant date but you can also continue to text her when you go away to talk to other people. Send her texts about a crazy thing that happens, make fun of her for something she does, or...and this is the best thing ever...AMOG a guy from a distance. If you see some other guy hit on her after you got her number and left, send her texts making fun of the guy. She will be laughing at him and he will be clueless as to why. If you send her texts about a guy she's talking to this also tells her that you see her which means she will look for you further taking her attention away from the guy. Since you're a guy she already kinda knows because she was comfortable enough to give you her number and you guys have already been texting, you can wave her over once she spots you and because the other guy is just some dude that cold approached her who she's now laughing at, she's very likely to leave that guy and walk over to you. When you go home and text her a few hours or maybe a day later what she'll see is an already full thread on her messaging app so she doesn't even feel like she's texting a guy she just met.

3. Set Up the Whole Date Right Then and There - Ever struggle with what to say when your first meet a girl? Well what about making the entire conversation about getting her to go on a date with you? You can start by finding out what kind of food she likes or what kind of things she likes to do when she goes out. Then you can transition into finding out what she does, how busy her life is these days, what area she lives in, etc so you figure out logistics. Then use your qualification to get her agree to the date little by little. So lets say she told you that she really likes pineapple pizza and she only lives an hour away from your place. At the same time you happen to know a place that makes great pineapple pizza that also has puppies walking all around and its just 15 mins from your place. You set up your qualification by asking questions like "How crazy are you exactly for pineapple pizza?", "How far would you drive for good pineapple pizza?", "What's the coolest concept you've seen at a pineapple pizza place?", "If you had the opportunity to go to an amazing pineapple pizza place would you jump on it right away?", "What if your friends told you not to go?", etc. You get the point. Once you get her qualifying so hard that she's basically telling you she'd crawl thru hot coals to get to pineapple pizza then you tell her about the place with the puppies and pizza. Tell her maybe you can show her some time then tell her what your schedule looks like (dont be free all week) then ask her what her schedule looks like. Then get her number which is basically a given at this point because you're gonna need a way to coordinate the meetup. There you go, the entire conversation from open to number close has already been handled plus of course she's gonna reply, you made her want to have the pizza with puppies so bad she'll see your text and start salivating.