How to approach groups at bars?

Palmstar-McFizzle · 2018-04-05T03:31:46+00:00

Group dynamics can be tricky, read the Mystery Method. Mystery provides everything needed to open groups

WIA20XX · 2018-04-05T10:14:45+00:00

Don't listen to Lion King.

Group dynamics are hard to manage. A group of four girls is different than three girls and one guy. A group of three co-workers is different than three best friends, which is different than three family members.

Sure you can go directly to the girl and isolate, but if the group doesn't think you're cool they will actively work against you.

Even in the case that they are okay with you fucking up their night with your presence, at the end of the night there are usually logistical issues about who came with who, and going home. Most girls aren't going to shun the people they came with to hang out with some random guy, no matter how cool he is.

When you approach girls in groups, you have to win them over to your side, and also figure out if you can truly get the girl into true isolation so you guys can get to know each other. That's on top of getting the target girl on your side.

So don't do that dumb shit above.

You step to the group, be funny, tell a story, make an observation, ask a question. Engage the group.

"The party is over here I see, what are y'all celebrating"

From there, discover relationships and logistics, by weaving questions and statements into what you say to the group.

But there are books written about how to interact with groups of people, one was written by a magician that got strangers to pay him on the spot to perform tricks. It's called the mystery method

lionking130 · 2018-04-05T09:20:58+00:00

Do not listen to Palmstar-McFizzle, it is actually very easy because you can easily isolate the girl you want because they are many. You just need to be friendly and confident. You need to be confident in what you are doing. You need to look like a guy that gives value. Do not look desperate do not look like a guy who approached because you want to enter some of the girl's pants. Just be a friendly guy. Groups are very easy, the problem is mostly fear, fear of approaching so many of people at once. Once fear is gone, it is very easy. You first need to talk to them all, and then you just isolate one girl. And do not read anything by mystery. The mystery is 100% bullshit. He only wanted/wants to take money from people's pockets.

Title	How to approach groups at bars?
Author	AFChungo
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	April 5, 2018 2:23 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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