I'm not really sure what to do with her sexually, even though she wants me just as much as i want her.

WIA20XX · 2018-04-06T02:55:38+00:00

The key to this is you have to be very in tune with the girl. You want to pay attention to nonverbal cues. In fact the better you read nonverbal cues, the better your game is overall.

Basic sequence is going slow and paying attention to her reactions. It is much more about nods, looks, sounds, participation, than it is about you asking at every point if she likes this, or likes that.

Kiss.
French kiss.

Pause. Is she kissing you back with the same amount of passion?

Move on..

Kiss the Neck.
Kiss the rest of her body - hands, forearms, elbows, upper arms...

Pause. What kind of feedback is she giving you? Is she enjoying it? Is she reacting positively? That's good.

She is just looking at you weird, not reacting, being a dead fish, actively trying to get away from you? Bad. Very bad. Take a break, change the environment, pull back. Acknowledge it. Talk to her. Figure out if she's inexperienced or she's scared or scared of you or scared of what you might do to her (emotionally) if she's not ready.

If all is cool..

Back to the neck.

Then to the collar bone.

Then to the sternum.

Pause. What kind of feedback is she giving you? Is she enjoying it? Is she reacting positively? That's good. Or is she trying to get away from you, or just lying there and letting you do whatever. Bad. See above.

Each stage, you get more intimate. Kissing on the chest, then you turn towards the breast. Hands should be roaming, and it should be mutual.

From there it's taking off clothes.

That is kissing belly buttons, inner thighs, calves, etc.

I'm not going to draw out the rest, but most of the end game is going forward and then pausing your actions and making sure that she is comfortable and reciprocating.

Personally I take 2 steps forward and one step back. I want to tease the hell out of her, and then pull off, and make her beg for it.

The old pickup saying is that a girl is ready 15 minutes after you are. So slowly boil the frog instead of going all Pornhub

circlhat · 2018-04-06T08:29:25+00:00

She likes you, you're in, make a move, if she pushes you away, all good,

but truly i'm just embarrassed and clueless as of what to do from there

Watch some porn, but remember Porn doesn't deal with foreplay much, you need to make her wet first, kiss her, rub her breast, and slowly work your way down to her vagina, rub it slowly

Now the vagina is right above the anus,

https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/womens-health/in-depth/vagina/art-20046562

Pay attention, you see it's not in the center or the top, the hole you go in is right above the anus, a trick I use is to start at the top and slowly push my dick in

Now going in first she is going to be tight and that hurts, you need to go in and out SLOWLY, if she is a virgin, than you need to take shit slow, it will be painful(not always) but she will endure, She will hold you very tight, and you need to keep going slow.

Once all the way in, go slow for a while(If she is a virgin) otherwise pick up speed. I recommend missionary because she doesn't need to be that wet, I found for doggy style the girl needs to be wetter, that is a position you go to other.

Experiment, try new things, have fun, but don't worry about it, if something is wrong she will tell you, DO NOT BABY WOMEN, they are not handicap people if she doesn't want it, she will tell you, do not white knight a girl that likes you

BetterBeLuckyThanGud · 2018-04-06T02:10:20+00:00

kiss her neck , and pull her hair down. she will beg for ur d, tell her to say please first.

or... literally just grab her pussy.

Don't be embarrassed , she wants more sex you will ever want. She's kinda waiting for you to make a move. If you are stressed, she will be stressed. In that case , communicate with her.

2018-04-06T06:11:09+00:00

Try taking off your shirt

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-04-08T03:15:41+00:00

Watch the softcore porn, the stuff women like to watch. They even make educational vids for that.

The hardcore porn is for men, very clinical and crude, for advanced sex only.

Title	I'm not really sure what to do with her sexually, even though she wants me just as much as i want her.
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Date	April 6, 2018 1:52 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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