There’s been multiple opportunities - one being last night that I’ve fucked up something that should’ve been in the bag. These situations have not been spontaneous and they’ve all been me hosting girls (I live in nyc) from other places or fucking up on dating apps.

So last night a girl that I used to hook up with was visiting me from philly- obviously I was very excited as we haven’t hooked up in over a year and this would obviously break my dry spell. Long story short she got too drunk. Not too mention my wingman (she bought her friend) left the bar line to get food and couldn’t get into the bar.

The night ended too familiarly w/o any sex and her and her friend passed out on my pull out couch.

Things were probably out of my control last night but due to the circumstances of it all it stings.

Now I’ve never had a gf and seem to pussy out on bing forward and the friend zone is a place I find myself often. It’s my first year outta college and I’m working a sales job in nyc- work consumes most of my life and bc of how expensive nyc is I tend to get out a lil too often.

What can I do to break this streak and start getting laid consistently?