Would love to hear from folks who are more experienced at club game - I really didn't know what I was doing.

background- Late 20's working professional, ending getting a college girl's number while day gamming, couple of weeks back, we agree to go out to the club.

So I get there at 11, she ends up coming around 12 with two friends. Kind of sucks, but I just figure I would work both of her friends and just use it as a fun social time. For me, clubs are such a different world. I only do day game, and I have gone to the club like twice in my whole adult life. It's much more primitive, in the sense that there is limited communication because of how loud it is, there is a type of natural kino in the sense that you need to get close to the person just for the sake of hearing them.

So I am waiting for my date, sitting on the side and sipping my sparking water like a gangster (since I don't drink, which, being sober in the club just makes everything seem that much more ridiculous). First thing that happens is a random girl with a group wants me to take a shot. Is this normal? Like I don't know what's in this drink you random girl and just politely say no, because hey, I don't drink. I see some cute girls, but they are in groups, its harder for me to execute since I am only familar on approaching women one-on-one in daygame.

Before my date comes, I see a cute blond, chat her up, shes confident and we just talk about normal stuff, like what do you do, where are you from etc. I realize that this formula may not work in the club like it would in day game, that is, being a normal person and talking to a girl after telling her you think she's cute. I later find her on the dance floor, ask her for a dance and she's like sorry with friends, something like that as she mouths off.

This is something I found difficult to execute, being on the dance floor and trying to pull a girl to dance with me and get to the stage where she wants to grind on me. I danced with a total of like, two girls including the date. Otherwise I was just bobbing back and forth on the dance floor, which really is boring when sober. Like whats the point of that, especially if you are not dancing with a cute girl.

Anywaaaay, eventually the date comes with her friend, and when we make it to the dance floor, they just kind of disappear, so this whole time it just felt like I was playing a cat and mouse game and I was more of a third wheel than anything. It didn't really bother me, since it gave me an excuse to try to improve my club game.

I went back to the bar area since I felt like its more akin to day game, and I just would have better luck here. I see one cutie and hit her up, she tells me she has a bf and I am like (probably a shit test) well I am going to sit here anyway. She then tells me she was just testing me and that she doesn't have a bf and that I have really good game (spoiler, she does have a bf), I thought that was funny since I sometimes forget that girls know guys are gaming since in the day game context its a lot more innocuous than at clubs. We flirt for a bit, and I am just constantly negging her, because honestly, I could care less, I was just having fun and just engaging in witty banter. I tell her lets go dance since isn't that the point of this whole thing, she says I have to get a drink first, I am like, yeah no, and then say nice talking and go out to the dance floor. I am hoping maybe she would follow or be interested but nope. I go out on the dance floor, am unsucessful as I bounce around like a weirdo being constantly pushed as I see some nerdy looking dudes getting into intense grinding sessions, and me thinking like, damn, why can't I do that. Eventually I go back to the bar, cute girl is there again chatting up three guys who I assume one has got her a drink. I sit next to her and talk about how it looks like she was able to get some guys to get a drink. We talk about school and she makes fun of me that I am at a club and talking to her about school (but then I am like in my mind, what else do we talk about, I don't know anything about you dude and am just wanting to learn a little more about you). Anyway, as I am talking to her a guy keeps coming in and kissing her, I don't really care since I am just having fun, not planning on making her my gf. I ask her if thats her bf, she doesn't respond, I am like whatever. We play a game which she loses and owes me a drink, I am like, I dont drink, so I'll just get you one instead since I have been so mean to you. (that was so stupid, I know). Eventually her bf comes up to me after I buy her a drink saying sorry, thats my gf. I am like its cool, shake his hand and leave and shake hers too, saying, you got me.

All in all, it was an interesting experience. I like day game more, but I can see how easy it is to get sexual with a girl at a club, especially once you start dancing and grinding. The hard part for me is to actually get to that stage with a girl because I think I am just too normal at clubs, I don't know. And really, when you are sober, clubs seem so ridiculous.