Am I [28/M] a hard-case or is there hope for me?

Kenic_In_MD · 2018-04-15T07:29:49+00:00

5'6'' nothing you can do but lots of women are shorter than you or don't care, was out tonight and saw this guy, he was about 5'7'' with his date who was, get this, 6'2 SOLID. And she was in heels, glorious legs and he walked out with her.

The balding thing, either go full bald and get your beard trimmed up nice by a pro. Or wear a hat like those "golfer hat" things would prob look good on you. A ton of guys wish they had a full beard like you do. Messed up teeth, you need to hit up the dentist and see if he can do anything about it which they probably can. If not then smile but not so wide. So many girls I met that were cute but their teeth were in bad shape, and this is how they smiled. Works well.

For your social skills, simply put, that takes practice and time in social situations. It's not an overnight change. The short answer is you aren't a lost cause, you need to put in some personal work and development is all. Also eat healthier and stop smoking/drinking. You need to hit the gym too, doesn't have to be much even once a week would help, with some good cardiovascular (running). You'll get there.

GetFunked24 · 2018-04-15T09:42:29+00:00

I have no wish to be rude but from what I'm reading here from you is that you're not very confident due to your looks. I've been gaming for a while and have been quite successful with women, this is a direct result of following guys like Dan Bacon from Modern Man and Max from RSD. What they say is men tend to make the big mistake of assuming that women's attraction for men works the same as as men's attraction for women i.e: We see a beautiful woman and without even speaking to her or getting to know her we are willing to consider her an ideal partner or at the very least have sex with her...and this is based on her looks alone. However, for women it is entirely different; although looks can help, for women it isn't a deal breaker. Women's attraction for men work differently, it's based on other things like confidence, charisma and even humor to name a few. There is a guy from RSD called Tyler, he's a balding ginger in his 40s yet he's been gaming successfully like this for many years. You should check him out. My advice is probably a little blunt but you need to stop putting yourself down.

Dextorian · 2018-04-15T20:22:04+00:00

I’ll be real honest with you dude, because it cuts deeper and might actually make you realise that your insecurities should be your strengths! First of all check out RSD Tyler he’s ginger and balding he slays! Now you need to sort yourself out, instead of focusing on your weaknesses concentrate on your strengths the more comfortable you are with the fact that your balding and ginger the sooner you’ll realise that it’s not always the deciding factor when it comes to girls! Yes looks and being cut as fuck help but doesn’t mean there isn’t a girl out there that doesn’t want to get pumped by you! Accept the fact that your ginger and balding and rock it! Height rock it! Tell chicks fuck it I’m short and what that’s confidence it turns them on! You’ve got this believe in yourself brother

Venca79 · 2018-04-15T21:24:46+00:00

pay close attention ladies, this stuff is the real deal

Title	Am I [28/M] a hard-case or is there hope for me?
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Date	April 15, 2018 7:20 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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