Feeling guilty from using this stuff?

Kenic_In_MD · 2018-04-17T23:20:08+00:00

Why are you feeling guilty? If you want to fly a plane you read the manual, get training and fly the damn plane. Game is the same, why handicap yourself by not reading up on it and getting tips. And if you just want these girls as a fwb or whatever if they ask "what are we" just say you are dating around and having fun. It's the truth, and nothing to feel guilty about. Enjoy your life man!

As far as a clean break goes, just tell them something like you aren't at the point in your life for a serious relationship right now. Or you need to refocus on other things in your life and can't date right now. You don't have to be specific just let her know now is not a good time. If the girl responds with something like "fuck you" or whatever. That is on her, you were clear on your intent and she didn't like the response. Nothing you can do.

I used to have a habit of dating girls that I just wanted to sleep with and it never turned out well, the trick is be clear with your intentions earlier on after you guys are seeing each other frequently and let them decide to stick around or not. You have every right to be honest, and if they aren't down they weren't your type anyway.

WIA20XX · 2018-04-17T23:10:25+00:00

TL DR - hell no, I know what women are like. There are no clean breaks, as her feelings aren't logical.

How did you get into this mess?

You're probably framing the relationship wrong, and then spending too much time with them. So from the very beginning she thinks that this awesome guy that she's fucking is "right" for her long term. If you play into that, or nip don't that in the bud, she's going to be predictable.

The other angle is that the more you care about meeting your own needs, the more of a challenge it is to her to make you care about her.

The other other angle is that if you do give them the attention that they want, the more likely it is that the mystery will evaporate. And she gets attracted to the next shiny thing.

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-04-17T23:39:10+00:00

Saying "I'm not looking for anything serious" is well...a serious mistake. Let your actions be the indicator to her of the seriousness of the relationship.

If you're buying her flowers all the time or calling her snookums, she will pretty much guess you want something more than sex.

Title	Feeling guilty from using this stuff?
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Date	April 17, 2018 10:50 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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